585 The Big Picture
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Su Qiao shook his head: "Your pelvis is relatively narrow and flat, and the double parietal diameter of the fetus is not small, so if you give birth smoothly in the current fetal position, there will be a certain risk." ”
Tang Xien didn't understand very well: "But haven't I always been in the first place?" I thought I would have a smooth delivery in the head position. ”
Su Qiao smiled: "It's true that the fetus is in the head position, but there are other fetal positions in the head position. Vaginal delivery is also possible, theoretically any fetal position can be delivered naturally, and there are also hip births. ”
Tang Xien was a little dumbfounded.
If she hadn't known that Su Qiao was someone she could trust, she would have thought that this doctor wanted to trick her into having a caesarean section to generate income, so she said these things to scare her. But now that Su Qiao said so, she had to face up to this problem.
She kept taking deep breaths, asking herself to calm down, and asked Su Qiao's opinion again: "Then do you suggest that I have a smooth delivery?" ”
Su Qiao listened, glanced at the door lock, and then walked over and locked the door behind him. She sat back in her place, and at the same time motioned for Fu Shiyu, who had been standing beside Tang Xien since he came in just now, to sit down and speak.
"Because we are now advocating natural delivery, we generally advise mothers to try natural labor in this fetal position. Some women have suitable pelvic conditions, or the fetus has adjusted its position during the trial of normal delivery, and it can be delivered smoothly. Su Qiao said.
Tang Xien was overjoyed when he heard this: "Then I should still be able to give birth smoothly." ”
"But......" Su Qiao put away his smile.
Tang Xien and Fu Shiyu both sighed at the same time in their hearts.
"But if the fetus does not adjust to the normal position during the trial of normal labor, then the final use of forceps or 'vacuum traction' is usually required," Su Qiao said. ”
Tang Xien is very unfamiliar with these things, and he has never heard of them: "What is forceps?" What is vacuum traction again? ”
Su Qiao typed a few characters on the keyboard, then turned the computer screen around and pointed to a metal tool like a large clip: "This is the forceps." If the fetus cannot be delivered smoothly by then, the doctor will use this tool to reach into the woman's uterus, gently grip the baby's skull, and then pull the fetus out to complete the delivery. ”
When she said "clamping the fetus's skull", Tang Xien was startled, and the hand held by Fu Shiyu trembled.
"There are side effects associated with the use of forceps, and the mother may have lacerations, hematomas, massive bleeding, etc.; Newborns may develop brachial plexus injuries, clavicle fractures, forceps marks, facial injuries and neonatal asphyxia. ”
Su Qiao said, and let them show the picture of the vacuum traction technique, and explained it in detail.
After listening to this, Tang Xien seemed to be drained of strength. She asked Su Qiao: "In my case, if I give birth naturally, will there be half a chance that the baby will be delivered smoothly because the baby adjusts the fetal position during the normal delivery?" ”
Su Qiao nodded.
At this moment, Tang Xien was confused, not knowing whether he should gamble on that half of the opportunity.
She asked Fu Shiyu for help with her eyes.
Fu Shiyu held her hand tightly and said calmly: "C-section, don't take risks." ”
She was about to cry, and Qi Qi said: "But if you have a caesarean section, the chance of amniotic fluid embolism is higher." ”
Su Qiao sighed: "Any way of giving birth is risky, that's why the ancients would say that giving birth to a child will go through the ghost gate." ”
Tang Xien has been very uncalm because of fear and fear since he learned that his fetal position was not correct in the color ultrasound room just now, and although Fu Shiyu was also worried, he had always kept a clear head.
He didn't want to waste any more time, so he asked Su Qiao directly: "Then Dr. Yisu, which method of delivery should we choose more safely?" ”
"It's okay to have a normal birth." Su Qiao said.
Fu Shiyu looked at her quietly, his eyes sharp.
Su Qiao was silent for a moment and lowered his voice: "If forceps fail, the fetus may be cleaved. Although the odds are low, it is not impossible. I hope you will think carefully. ”
Fu Shiyu understood, and immediately decided: "C-section!" ”
Although Tang Xi'en had been defeated by the sequelae of forceps and was about to fall to the ground, she still held on to the last glimmer of hope and asked, "What about vacuum suction?" ”
"The more serious complications of vacuum aspiration for the fetus are intracranial hemorrhage, submeningeal hemorrhage, fetal death, etc.; Damage to the mother......"
"Say no more!" Fu Shiyu forbearably spoke, "We're going to have a caesarean section!" Now that the due date has arrived, please arrange a time for surgery Dr. Su. ”
Su Qiao nodded: "I'll follow up and apply, and I will inform you when the time is arranged." ”
Fu Shiyu listened and asked solemnly: "Why do we have to apply for a caesarean section?" What are the regulations? ”
Su Qiao was obviously a little embarrassed, and lowered his voice and said: "Because natural delivery is advocated now, your wife's situation generally needs to try natural delivery first, and then help the delivery if it doesn't work......"
Fu Shiyu was speechless after hearing this, and also understood that Su Qiao had opened the back door for them, shook his head, suppressed the anger in his heart, and said politely: "Then I'm tired of Dr. Su." ”
He took Tang Xien, who was in tears and weak, out of the consultation room.
As soon as he got in the car, Tang Xien covered his face and cried, and said indistinctly while crying: "Baby, it's all your mother who is sorry for you, because your mother is not angry, so you can't be born from the warm birth canal...... Mommy I'm sorry for you......"
She has been preparing for a smooth birth, including practicing pregnant yoga and trying to control her diet in the middle and second stages of pregnancy, all so that her child can come into this world in a natural way. She hopes that the first thing the child will come into contact with is the mother's warm and soft birth canal, rather than being carried out by medical staff with plastic gloves and directly touching the air in the operating room full of the smell of disinfectant water.
Fu Shiyu understood her pain, but obviously, his opinion was different from hers.
Women may need more rituals and more details in the process, but men see the balance and result of the big picture, far more than one point.
He is a husband, a father, and a man. In the way the child is delivered, he considers more about the wife's physical capacity and the safety of the child, rather than the so-called warm birth canal or the air in the operating room.
He had just seen the tools of forceps and vacuum suction on Su Qiao's computer, and when he thought that those two cold and huge tools had reached into his wife's womb, and even brought lacerations and other sequelae to his wife's uterus, he felt as if his heart had been torn apart.
He couldn't imagine how painful and tormented that process was, let alone Tang Xien's encounter with such a production process.
He tried to persuade Tang Xien to accept the caesarean section calmly, but Tang Xien was always worried that the amniotic fluid embolism rate of caesarean section was higher than that of natural delivery, and kept crying: "If I die because of giving birth, you can still find a wife again, but my child will have no mother!" When the time comes, if you look for it again, that woman will definitely not be kind to my child! People say that if there is a stepmother, there will be a stepfather, I don't want to ......! ”
She cried as if this caesarean section would kill her, and the person fell into Fu Shiyu's arms and cried tears and snot, and the snot wiped the chest of Fu Shiyu's black polo shirt was dry and hard, hard and wet.