Zilan pulled Shuhui to sit down by the flower bed, "Sister Hui, do you know why the Song family is so strict with girls, we don't learn half a point less than boys." ”

"Because I hope that if I go out, I can fight for the Song family?"

Shuhui tilted her head and thought for a moment before saying.

"It's just one aspect, it's more about the vision and open-mindedness.

You must know that a family is not only a man who wins glory for the family, but a woman needs a housekeeper in the back house, and needs to cooperate with her husband and son to socialize, and any mistake will destroy the family.

This requires a woman to have a broader vision and mind, talents, to stabilize the rear, and to teach her children with ease. can also have their own hobbies and ideals, and can be compared with their husbands.

The word "side by side" is not only a share of honor and disgrace, but also a person who can talk to you for a long time in the future, become each other's confidants, and be people who understand each other.

This is first and foremost because you have to have goods in your belly, and the illiterate Ding people said that the distant mountains and bright moon sighed in their hearts, do you understand? ”

Zilan hates the saying that women should be illiterate, which may have something to do with modern people's thinking.

Shuhui smiled and nodded, "What my sister said is very reasonable, but don't let others know, otherwise they will discipline you."

In fact, my father and mother also told me in private to study things hard, and the ability to learn is my own, and I will naturally know the benefits in the future.

Although I don't know as much as you, I won't give up the opportunity to learn, and I will continue to work hard, and I can't be worse than you, so I don't have any face. ”

She tilted her head and snorted, her face full of confident and sunny smiles, bright and bright.

"My sister is right."

"No wonder my mother doesn't let me get close to Zhao Xuan, her vision is really too narrow, she just wants to marry a good family and settle down for a lifetime, I can understand the bitterness of her sending people under the fence, but I can't agree with her behavior of only complaining but not working hard."

Shuhui is also becoming more and more sensible, not only Zilan is studying hard to improve herself, she is also constantly improving, and her ideological vision has also undergone new changes, becoming more and more dignified, like a real noble girl of a family.

"I can't understand her suffering because of my different identities, but I don't agree with her thoughts. My dad said that girls can also have their own hobbies.

It's very good to keep studying perfume like my mother, and nothing will make people look down on it, even if your husband doesn't necessarily look down on it. ”

Zilan shrugged, these are what Song Zhengtian taught her, of course she won't say her husband's words, she only said that girls should have hobbies and ideals, and it is right to be open-minded and open-minded.

Shuhui chick pecked rice and nodded, "That's right, my mother's tea art and painting are excellent, my father is often full of praise, and the two often paint and play the piano together in spring and summer, I don't know how good it is."

If my mother doesn't know anything, will she make shoes and clothes for you every day? How boring that is. ”

"We just need to understand it in our own hearts, and we don't need to tell people, for example, people who don't understand Sister Xuan'er won't understand you, it's useless if you say it, can we communicate together if we understand people."

Zilan smiled.

"That's right, sister, let's go paint that pot of peony flowers, and before we send them away, we'll draw it and give it to grandmother, maybe grandmother will be happy."

I could tell that my grandmother actually liked the pot of flowers, but she wanted to give them away for my grandfather, uncle, and my father, for the sake of the family. ”

"That's right, why didn't I think of it, it's still my sister Hui Zhilanxin, let's paint one by one, and in a few days I will have people bring the orchids and white peonies over, and we will continue to paint and take them to the master."

Zilan clapped her hands and laughed happily.

"Okay, let's go, we'll go now."

Shuhui also stood up happily, pulled Zilan and ran into the yard.

In the afternoon, the two hugged peony flowers and painted in the courtyard pavilion, and Zhao Xuan'er came to see what they were playing.

"My sisters are here, I said why I haven't seen anyone for a long time, I thought you were going to rest."

"Sister Xuan is here, do you want to paint a picture too, this pot of peonies is going to be given to the Queen Mother for her birthday, so you can't see it, we plan to paint it."

Zilan invited her with a smile.

"I won't paint anymore, and my painting skills are not as good as my sister's, in fact, I think I'm still suitable for embroidery, and I plan to learn more from my master and use it more in the future."

Zhao Xuan'er refused with a smile.

"My sister is smart and skillful, much stronger than me, unlike my female celebrity, which is very bad, my mother has no hope for me, I can embroider a purse shoes or something, I guess my mother will be satisfied."

Zilan teased herself to entertain the atmosphere.

"Then you should study hard, instead of spending so much time here drawing, I think painting is just entertainment, and there is no need to take it seriously.

On the contrary, the female celebrity should study hard, this is the duty of the daughter's family, and it is also the duty of the father and brother to make a shoe purse.

I'm also for my sister's good, I always feel that my sister seems to be working in the wrong direction, and the Song family is also very strange, and I take the time to teach you piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, just understand one or two things about this thing, there is really no need to be so attentive. ”

“……”

Zilan was dumbfounded, only feeling that she and Zhao Xuan'er were not estranged by thought, but separated by a dimensional wall.

Shuhui heard this earnest teaching while painting, and couldn't help laughing.

"Sister Xuan'er, don't worry about Sister Lan, Sister Lan is from the Song family, it is a family of cultivation and reading that has been inherited for eight generations, and it has a profound heritage, and their intention to teach their children to have their own elders is not something we can understand.

The girl of the Song family is very sought-after, and when it comes to kissing, many people look at each other, and it is not too much to ask for it.

As far as I know, a few days ago, the Qinghe Cui family, the most famous in the capital, went to the Song family to choose a girl, but it was a pity that the other party fell in love with the girl of the Wang family.

Not everything can be solved by making shoes and clothes, and the family has high requirements for girls, you don't understand. ”

Shuhui smiled, and inevitably looked down on her a little between her words, and she couldn't even fill half a bottle to the level, and came to persuade my sister, you better rest.

Zhao Xuan'er's face changed suddenly, and there was a little more resentment in her eyes, "I also mean well, and these things are all playthings, playthings are demoralized, haven't you heard of it, why do you look down on people." ”

Shuhui put down the pen and turned around, her chin was slightly cocked, and she looked at her with a bird's-eye look, "I just look down on you, and I feel that I am so reasonable if I don't learn anything."

obviously gave you the opportunity to learn your skills, but I felt that it was all harmful to you, and even Aunt Xu said that you were unbearable to educate, and it was extremely hard to teach you, which made my grandmother lose face. ”

"I don't, I have to learn the rules seriously."

"Yes, you have learned embroidery seriously, do you think that the clan woman can do it as long as she can make clothes and shoes? It's ridiculous, and you're still teaching others here, let's see how much ink you have. ”

Shuhui scoffed, her expression very disdainful.

"You...... You just look down on me. Woooooo ”

Zhao Xuan'er ran away crying.