Zilan thought for a while and continued, "If you are not at ease, you can assign some homework to the two children, and you can see the reply next time, so that you can also supervise their homework, and the other is that you can talk to your son, so that the father and son will not have nothing to say after a long time."

I have always felt that we are inevitably a little sorry for them when we are not around our children, and children grow up very quickly, and in the blink of an eye you will find that they no longer need us to ask for warmth.

Especially your father and son should be more intimate, they are sons after all, some words are a little confused and will not be said to me, a mother, Brother Lu and Brother Ling are too smart, even if there is a grandfather to teach and suppress, but after all, the old man is old, and some lack of energy is also a common thing.

Some things are hard to say in person, but it may be easier to write them in a letter, and my brother and I wrote to talk to my father and mother about the world in the same way.

I remember when I first started working in Xianglou, I was young, and it was the first time I did such a big thing, and I encountered a lot of problems and doubts, as well as the severance of friendship between clansmen and friends, which made me very confused for a while.

I may not be able to say it in person, but it is much easier to write on letterhead.

You can also tell Brother Yan about you in Jiangnan, he should know the wind and rain and blood outside when he is older, is it possible to develop a waste who can't see the wind and rain? ”

Zilan smiled and reminded him to keep communicating with his son, wanting to know his son's inner world, don't you be friends with him, there is a bridge of communication, there is no doubt that although it is inconvenient to exchange letters, it is indeed a good way to communicate.

In person, we sometimes feel embarrassed to say it and it can be difficult to speak, but it is much easier to write it on stationery.

"Your method is very good, I'll go back and write a separate letter to Brother Lu and Brother Ling, writing together will be more messy, but it's better to communicate separately, well, it's a good way."

Cui Hao also felt that this method was very good when he heard it, and decided to write a letter to his son again, so that he could talk about some private topics, and what his son didn't want to say to his elders, or was embarrassed to say, he could discuss it with him.

"Yes, you can also tell him about the customs of Jiangnan, some scams of bureaucrats and salt merchants, etc., I think you can talk about it."

Zilan felt that children needed to know these things, after all, children in ancient times matured early. Entering the family is very early, and he is as innocent as a child, and he will be said to be a waste by others.

"Well, you've given me a good idea, and I know what to do."

Cui Hao was woken up at once, and he found a way to communicate with his son.

He is the most concerned about the affairs of his two sons, don't look at the strictest to the children, but he loves his son more than Zilan.

When learning martial arts, I ran to see it day and night, and the first time I took a medicinal bath, I had to stare outside the door, no matter how late I came back every day, I must check my child's homework, and I had to take the school exam in person every other day, and I never forgot it.

If his son wants to eat something, he will definitely let him eat it in his mouth when he comes back from outside that day, and he will not delay until tomorrow.

is also because Cui Hao is very responsible, Zilan has dared to be so busy with peace of mind over the years, and the people who helped her teach her son are waiting in line, which is the main reason why she dares to slip away.

In the afternoon, they ate serious river fresh, and the housekeeper went to buy it, and when they came well, they found the housekeeper in Jiangnan.

The second housekeeper used to help get the ship, but now Zilan is transferred to them as a housekeeper, and the things in Zhang Luo's yard must have a housekeeper who understands the local customs, and the trivial matters inside and outside are more convenient.

Don't look at the trivial things in the yard, but this position is not for anyone to come, give them the husband and wife to manage the yard, how many people want to break their heads and want to come, do a good job and be appreciated by the master, and it is good to designate.

Of course, this position Zilan has also been carefully selected, this second housekeeper's surname is Li, he is the Cui family, and he has practiced martial arts since he was a child, he is a child raised by the Cui family, and the children of relatives are the daughter of the Cui family's side branch because his father died, and his mother is the daughter of the Cui family's side branch who came back to join the family.

It is impossible for the Cui family to betray the Cui family, and he has learned a lot of skills, and he has been selected to come to Jiangnan to do things quite well in the past few years, and he wants to sign up to be a foreign affairs manager.

Zilan planned to keep it by his side to observe and cultivate it carefully, and after he did a good job, he would let him be the external affairs manager of Jiangnan.

This is their official residence, which involves a lot of eunuchs who will come to visit, and the number of people is also more mixed, so they need a housekeeper who can take care of the house and communicate well with the outside.

For example, when you meet yourself, a housewife who doesn't like to socialize, the housekeeper must be able to speak when he goes back, and he can't provoke people, which requires a little level.

Who should deal with it, first of all, take care of the door of the house, so this Li Steward belongs to his own people and is trustworthy, and it is impossible to be bought by outsiders, he is considered the Cui family, unless you don't want to go home.

This river fresh is the freshest fish and shrimp that Steward Li went to the dock to get from, and the daily meals are also quite good, which is very suitable for the taste of the husband and wife, and the cook is also found by Steward Li.

Cui Hao was full of praise after eating, "This chef is at a good level, and the meals are good." ”

"The person who Liuzi found back, he is very capable and has a clever brain, I wonder if it is okay to let him be the foreign affairs manager after we go back?"

"It's good, he still owes some fire, so let him go to Jinyiwei to train for two hours every day in the future, I believe that if you stick to it for two or three years, your ability can also rise, this thing is our own people, he is two years younger than me, just the right year, and it can be used after good training."

"Okay, I'll arrange it later."

"There is a boat home in a few days, what do you need to bring to prepare early, I can let someone bring it back."

"Okay, I prepared some gifts for my family to take home, bought a few sets of head and face jewelry for Sister Wan and relatives and friends, and some other things to bring back."

"Okay, let's take the letter to my son with me."

Cui Hao nodded, thinking about writing a notebook for Brother Ling to take back, that child's handwriting is not very good, and he still has to practice.

"I brought some tea and small things back to the old man and elders, and you asked someone to bring them back for me."

She brought some spiritual rice and spiritual nectar to the old man, as well as the medicinal materials that Qiong Xin needed, etc., all sealed in the spiritual barrel.

"Leave it to me, I'll do it for you."

Cui Hao nodded in response.

Agarwood came in to report, "Madam, second master, Mrs. Li is here outside, I want to see you, but I begged for a long time and refused to leave." ”

"Which Mrs. Li is it?"

Zilan asked suspiciously.

"I think it's a merchant."

Agarwood saw that she was dressed without grade, so she guessed that it was a merchant, and the jewelry brought by the official's wife had grade requirements, especially when she went to someone else's house, she must first indicate her identity, otherwise it would be very impolite.