Chapter 652
Cui Hao and the two brothers sat together and drank some wine, Cui Rong was not very happy, the two brothers talked together alone, and did not call others.
"Why can't you figure it out, where can't my sister Wan get into her eyes, it hurts the child's heart like this.
If it wasn't for this family, why would Sister Wan enter the palace to share her husband with others. She is too far behind her younger siblings, I don't envy my younger siblings' ability, but I envy my younger siblings' pure heart and sincerity. ”
Cui Rong cried as he spoke, he had hurt his daughter for so many years, and he paid for his brother for the family, but he couldn't get a warm hug from his mother, a loving look, how not to be cold.
He never envied his younger brother for marrying a good daughter-in-law, but envied Zilan for being brave and brave, sincere to relatives and friends, and reliable in protecting his shortcomings.
Cui Hao sighed and touched a glass with his brother again, "Brother, the Cui family is actually not suitable for sister-in-law, sister-in-law is not bad, she is suitable for living a small life."
I just became the eldest sister-in-law, but I couldn't be a clan wife, watching Lan'er be more neat than a man, and it was difficult to balance when she went out.
gave birth to Brother Xin, and there was Brother Ling in front of him, and Brother Ling in the back.
It's not that you don't know our family's tutor, not to mention that the boys are very competitive, or the girls' families have to fight for each other in order to get good relatives, and the upbringing of the clan is like this.
But the sister-in-law is not a clan girl, and her upbringing is also a little different, and she was pampered. It is inevitable that there will be discomfort and grievances.
When she was at home, she was a top-notch girl, she married into the Cui family, she was not as good as others, the gap was getting bigger and bigger, and even her daughter was not like her brother and sister, she couldn't get over this hurdle in her heart.
The sister-in-law is a gentle and graceful woman, but Lan'er is a boy's character, and she is not grudge or delicate enough, and the two have different personalities and different ways of doing things.
Big brother, take a moment for you to sit down and talk calmly with your sister-in-law, you have ignored her a lot over the years, otherwise she will not go more and more extreme.
Husband and wife advance and retreat together, if she is wrong, is it right to say that you are wrong? ”
Cui Hao did not blindly favor his own brother, but said his sister-in-law's grievances and helplessness very pertinently.
Cui Hao and Zilan are compatible because they are both children raised by the clan, and competing to be strong is the biggest characteristic of the clan's upbringing.
Zilan has a frank atmosphere, she has never been a delicate and gentle girl, but she is more coarse, not twisted or crooked, she swallows her own hardships and sins, the upbringing of the Song family is like this, and her daughter is raised as a boy.
Otherwise, why did the Song family marry such a top famous family as the Cui family and the Qi family, if the upbringing is not good, where can your girl be rich.
But the Li family is not a girl raised by the clan, she is a child of a noble family, and her upbringing is still very different.
The difference is a thousand miles, and this is not a lie. It's not to belittle the Li family, she can't afford to take on the duties of a clan wife.
The old lady also thought that it was enough to close the door and live a small life, and she had been watching Xiang'an all these years because the Cui family had a very strict upbringing, and the opportunity to fight would not be given to you.
The Li family is aggrieved in his heart, and he can't compare to Zilan to admit it, but even his daughter is much better than her, and there is no place like her, how can he be calm.
She really doesn't understand her daughter's grievances, no, but she doesn't want to know, and she doesn't want to ask too much, the eldest daughter of the Cui family is not lacking in love and upbringing.
Let Zilan grow up, her daughter can only be better and not worse, she also found out Zilan's temper and character, and treats her own people, especially those who protect their shortcomings and dig out their hearts and lungs, and she is not worried about her daughter.
On the contrary, she felt that her son needed to hurt himself a little more, and it became a habit after a long time, not that she spent her time taking care of the eldest child, and the feelings faded after a long time, which was also the ending she didn't expect at first.
Li didn't lie, she really planned to embezzle her daughter's money first, and then her daughter needed to make up for it.
I didn't expect it to be discovered by the family so quickly, and I didn't expect that the accumulated coldness and rustiness would have left my daughter in my heart a long time ago, and the consequence of eccentricity was to completely lose my daughter.
Cui Rong drank another glass of wine and wiped away the tears from the corners of her eyes, "Her biggest problem is self-righteousness, I used to think that I only wanted my son to fight with you, but then I gave birth to a daughter who was restless day and night, and I thought she could sleep peacefully after giving birth to a son, but who knew that she was becoming more and more alienated from her daughter." Ay! ”
"Sister Wan is like the Cui family, and the sister-in-law always thinks that Sister Wan is like Zilan, but in fact, it is because the upbringing of the clan is similar, and they must be strong, and they each speak according to their ability.
Lan'er has no daughter, and it has always been a pity that Sister Wan treats her as her own daughter, but she didn't expect it to become a sister-in-law's heart disease.
But I don't think Lan'er is wrong, Sister Wan is the daughter of my Cui family, and my sister-in-law doesn't count if she says it alone. ”
Cui Hao's attitude is also very strong at this point.
"She always can't see these clearly, and she can't adapt well to the rules and methods of the Cui family, so I said that she is not suitable for the Cui family."
How many people in famous families envy their relatives, but they don't know the bitterness and grievances in it.
If you don't have three, two, three, you really don't want to choose clan affairs, it's not all right to go in, strict rules, and critical eyes can make you suffocate to death.
Over the years, the Li family has not been recognized by the Cui family, and can only manage the director.
For many years, at the banquet in the clan, no one has ever asked her to take a hand, and she has not been allowed to touch the slightest, even Zilan's proposal was rejected by the clan elders.
How could Li not know it, how could he not feel uncomfortable.
You must know that the same treatment has also appeared in Jiang's family, but Jiang's family is stronger and more generous, and he has won the respect and recognition of the clan elders by his own efforts, and there is a difference between people's choices after all.
The two brothers drank a little late, Cui Rong got drunk, and Mu Xiu rested for a day on the second day, everything was as usual, and the Cui family men had to carry it when the sky fell, and showing weakness was never in their dictionary.
Zilan didn't go to Zhuangzi, she wanted to start breaking ground to repair the courtyard for Brother Luan, the Cui family's mansion has been around for many years, and it is constantly expanding, and the place is very spacious.
But the newlyweds still have to have a good rest inside and out, and then let the Yang family measure the house and place the furniture.
The garden should also add some flowers and trees to the new daughter-in-law's preferences and transplant work, and when you get married, the flowers and trees will be able to look like after almost two years of growth.
Zilan did these trivial things by herself, the Li family was locked up, and the Jiang family gave her a hand and was busy together.
Zilan asked Cui Hao to draw a picture of Chen Ge's yard, and deliberately marked some things, such as installing a ground dragon, which will be warm in winter, and the bathing problem in the bathroom of the ear room, all of which require warmth, convenience and comfort.
After drawing the drawings, let Brother Lu take them to the Yang family to see, ask Yang Wen's opinion, and what flowers and trees she likes, and settle down as soon as possible to transplant them.