Chapter 135: Shi Niang's Persuasion
Although Yuan Dou's body is weak, it is still no problem to hold the plate and serve the bowl. After a while, the table was cleaned up.
"Yuan Dou, hard work." Shi Niang said to Yuan Dou.
"It's okay, it's not bitter at all." Yuan Dou said.
At this time, Shi Niang beckoned her hand and said, "Come, Yuan Dou, come and sit here and chat with me for a while." ”
Looking at the chair beside Shi Niang, Yuan Dou walked over and sat down next to Shi Niang carefully. Then Yuan Dou asked, "I don't know what the master wants to talk to me about?" ”
Looking at Yuan Dou's bitter gourd face, Shi Niang smiled and said, "Yuan Dou, you don't blame me for ignoring your body and letting you do things for me, right?" ”
Yuan Dou hurriedly shook his head and explained: "How is it possible, my master asked me to do things, and I couldn't be happy." ”
"In that case, then you can relax and chat with your sister for a while, so that I can understand your recent situation." Shi Niang said.
"Yuan Dou knows."
"Come, have a cup of tea first, and we'll talk slowly."
Yuan Dou didn't pay attention to when Shi Niang made the tea, but the teacup was still steaming, obviously just brewed. Yuan Dou held the teacup and took a sip, the tea was very hot, but Yuan Dou still swallowed it. Putting down the cup, Yuan Dou turned his head to look at Shi Niang, who was also drinking tea, but Yuan Dou felt that he and Shi Niang were not drinking the same tea. The tea was very hot, but Shi Niang was like a performing art, first stroked the tea with a lid, then smelled it, blew carefully, and finally tasted it shallowly.
"How's it going, is this tea good?" Shi Niang asked.
Yuan Dou shook his head. Shi Niang was puzzled, and asked again, "Isn't it delicious?" ”
"I don't know if it's good or not. I drink tea like water, it's just for quenching my thirst, and I can't feel good or bad. Yuan Dou said.
Shi Niang shook her head and said, "You're not right, even if you don't understand tea, you can still distinguish between good and bad." ”
Yuan Dou frowned and was puzzled, while Shi Niang smiled and explained: "It's very simple, if you feel comfortable drinking it, it's good tea; If you feel uncomfortable drinking it, it's bad tea. ”
"Is that so?"
"Of course."
Yuan Dou quietly thought about Shi Niang's words, wanting to know the other half of the meaning hidden in Shi Niang's words. At this time, Shi Niang picked up the teacup and said to Yuan Dou, "This tea is not particularly precious, but your master likes to drink it." I've been drinking this kind of tea for so many years, and even I like it. So, no matter how you think of the quality of this tea, I think this tea is the best. As he spoke, he took another sip of tea, moistened his throat, and continued: "I didn't like to drink this tea, but in order to accommodate your master, I had to like it. When I really like drinking this tea, your master is very happy, and I am also very happy. ”
Yuan Dou knew that Shi Niang was Lian Yan's lobbyist, but after listening to Shi Niang's words, he felt confused and didn't know what Shi Niang wanted to say. Yuan Dou asked cautiously, "Does Shi Niang mean to let me move to Lian Yan?" ”
"If you think so, of course I, as a mother, am happy. But that's not what I'm talking about. Shi Niang said with a smile.
"What's that?"
"The quality of tea is not told by others, but by yourself. Just like the cup of tea just now, you think it is hot, and I insist on saying that it is good tea, you will only perfunctory recognition, not from the heart, right? ”
Yuan Dou thought about it and nodded.
"And what I'm telling you is, do anything, if you think it's right, it's right, and don't care about other people's feelings." Shi Niang said.
"What does this mean, isn't the master here to persuade me, but to support me?" Yuan Dou thought in his heart.
Shi Niang rubbed Yuan Dou's hair at this time, and said to Yuan Dou, "Silly boy, you are still young, and you have not experienced many things. There is no one in this world who is good at himself and only cares about himself. Many times, compromising for the sake of someone you care about is also a feeling of listening to yourself. It's like I accept the tea he likes and I don't like for the sake of your master. ”
"Do you have to compromise?"
"I ask you, are you happy now after you made that decision?"
Yuan Dou shook his head, although Yuan Dou felt that he was right not to let Lian Yan and Ye Xi be in danger, but now it was really uncomfortable.
"That's right. However, why is it that what you think is right is obviously acting according to your feelings, but it is not good? Shi Niang didn't let Yuan Dou answer, and said the answer herself, "Because you are not alone, there are people around you who care about you, and they are the people you care about." So you can't ignore their feelings, because you're already connected. If you follow your feelings and make the right decision that makes you sad, you should look around and see if you are ignoring their feelings. Then think about whether this is the right move, and then it is the right thing to do. ”
"What does Shi Niang mean that I didn't take into account their feelings and made the wrong decision?"
"Right or wrong, you should think more and think about the result. Just like me and your master, I accommodated what he liked, even if I still didn't like it later, but the result was good, your master will be very happy, and your master will be happy, and I will be equally happy. I'm not advising you on anything, I just want you to think about it for yourself. ”
"I see." Yuan Dou said.
"Alright then, you go back and think about it yourself." Shi Niang paused, sighed, and said: "You are all grown up now, there must be many things to face in the future, I am really worried about the situation that you are not around." ”
Listening to Shi Niang's sigh, Yuan Dou wanted to comfort him, but Shi Niang didn't let Yuan Dou say it and drove Yuan Dou back to the room.
After returning to the room, Yuan Dou recalled what Shi Niang had said. "I'm still small for a while, and I'm growing up again for a while, is it big or small?" Yuan Dou complained in his heart. However, Yuan Dou's mood was much better. Yuan Dou thought about it carefully again, and he had already made up his mind in his heart.
Mother and Yuan Dou chatted, and Lian Yan had been eavesdropping outside. Seeing that Yuan Dou was about to come out, Lian Yan hurriedly hid back in the room. After Lian Yan returned to the room, she began to tangle again, "Why should I run, I don't know what the result will be now, how is this good." Do you want to ask Yuandou, or do you want to ask your mother? "Lian Yan, who is usually very decisive, becomes indecisive whenever she encounters something related to Yuan Dou. Lian Yan had been hesitating in the room, walking back and forth. Just when Lian Yan finally decided to go directly to Yuan Dou, there was a sudden knock at the door.