Zhao Xuan'er's mind was a little messy, and she took the first step to say goodbye and return to Xiyuan, wanting to stay alone for a while, thinking about how she should go in the future, some things Yang Houfu said didn't count, those ladies looked down on her at all, and they didn't even answer the words, so there was no way.

may be the family affairs that he can talk about, that is, the children of the poor family and the merchants who want to come out, and they are the same as his father, but there is no guarantee that the mother-in-law, sister-in-law, and brother-in-law are all good people and have good conduct.

Zilan made a cup of tea for her grandmother, "Grandmother, is it so difficult for Sister Xuan'er." ”

This is also something they don't realize, although they think about it, but the truth is really in front of them and it is still very devastating.

The old lady also sighed, "I lost my temper and was dissatisfied at the beginning, in fact, a big reason is this, the orphan girl is within the five non-marrying, this is not a joke, her road will be imagined to be more difficult."

She is right, her mother's surname is Yang, and she just found the son of a merchant, and she has nothing to do with my Yang family, even if she is raised in Yang's mansion, the other party will weigh it back and forth in her heart.

The reason why your mother can talk about such a good family affair of the Song family is because she is a registered daughter, who was raised in front of me as soon as she was born, and at that time, your father and mother died This is a shortcoming, and there is a lack of a piece in the network, even if there is an uncle, doesn't that uncle still have his own son.

Your mother can talk about the Song family, she is your grandfather's daughter, and the Song family also hopes to get some support from our family, plus and minus are no worse than anyone else, so that it can be done.

This is much stricter than usual, and the emphasis is on the right door, even if the boy girl has a good character, but it still depends on the family lineage, relatives and so on have to be lined up, there are many doorways here. ”

Zilan and Shuhui glanced at each other, sighed helplessly, and were silent, feeling a little heavy.

Although it was expected, the reality in front of me is still uncomfortable.

The door-to-door pair was very strict in ancient times, and making friends at other times may not be so snobbish, but when it comes to getting married, they will definitely value this, which is a lifelong matter for their children, and it cannot be ignored.

It's like herself, her father is planning for an official position like this, more so that their brothers and sisters can talk about better family affairs.

It is impossible for her father Song Zhengtian to let her marry low, and the high family rank means that the family education and inheritance talents are all top-notch, and such a family is also guaranteed for their children.

There will be accidents if you marry low, such as Mrs. Zhao, there are no bones left that will be eaten, although it has a lot to do with herself, but the woman herself is weak and can't go out, and it is very dangerous to run away for a long time.

Mrs. Zhao took the road and led it back, which she spent money to buy from others, where is it so easy for a woman to do things, there are too many restrictions.

"Thinking about it this way, my mother said that the self-reliance portal is the most beneficial to her, just in the capital, in front of her eyes, in the future, our sisters and brothers can still take care of one or two, and they will not be too far away and don't know anything.

I'm just afraid that she won't be able to accept this result herself, and all her dreams and hopes will be shattered, which is not pleasant. ”

Zilan also had a solemn face, and weighed it repeatedly in her heart, it might be more suitable for Zhao Xuan'er to stand on her own.

"I'm not in a hurry now, she's right, in case she can't hold up the lintel, it's not appropriate. It's okay for us to help with big things, but it's not okay to come to trouble every day to support you. If she had half of your ability and heart, what would I worry about? ”

After all, she grew up in front of her, who can be ruthless, the old lady is kind, just a child, as long as she can give a good result, she is willing to do her best to give her, but there are some reasons that she can't do.

Power and money don't make people happy, and they can't let her husband protect Zhao Xuan'er forever, not to mention that she is not surnamed Yang, no one is stupid, and she knows that she is a foreign surname when she hears her name.

This topic has no solution and can only be put on hold for the time being, but the old lady remembered something else, "Lan'er, Mrs. Lin asked me about you today, and asked you if you said goodbye, I think I really like you." ”

Zilan raised her head, a little blind, "I'm not old enough." ”

She really doesn't want to enter the Lin Mansion, her family is a big family, a big family, and she is implicated in the emperor's mother's family, which is good and bad.

And Houmen has a disadvantage that she can't accept, taking a concubine, before entering the door, there is a room, his grandfather has a room, is a personal maid, the daughter of the grandmother, very close.

Back then, it was in order to break this friendship, the old lady gave her maid to make a small one, who knew that people were too honest, the pelvis was too small to give birth to the West, the old lady felt sorry for the girl, and made the Yang family a registered daughter.

The Tongfang was also sent to Zhuangzi because of a crime and died of illness.

The high doors of the Hou Mansion are almost the same, and the daughter-in-law has a master who teaches personnel in the room before entering the door, and some of the feelings are really not good, and the daughter-in-law can't fight with the room, and the share is not at the same level, and the masters look down on you when you do this.

Some families have a strict education at most, and they don't take it seriously, they still value their wives, Lin Xi's father also has a room, and he is also old, and he gave birth to a concubine, and Zilan hasn't seen her a few times, which can be seen.

Because of this, Zilan is reluctant to enter such a high gate, and what she wants to live is as peaceful and peaceful as light clouds and flowing water, rather than earth-shattering and intriguing, which is too bloody.

She is also a normal person, everything she thinks and thinks is a normal consideration of the three views, and besides, her Song family is no worse than anyone else's, there is no need to go to the Lin family to tie up the Lin family, she can't do it.

The old lady saw that Zilan was nervous and scared, and chuckled, "Don't be afraid, where will I promise her, I said that the Song family has its own plans, I just can't intervene in the foreign family, after all, my parents and elders have to check it." She didn't seem to have any intention of giving up. ”

In the end, I was a little worried, what if I told the Queen Mother and gave the marriage directly, it was clear that the child was unwilling, and her family didn't need to go to the Lin Mansion, but it would be good to have a little love for a world friend who was not far away like now.

"Don't worry about this, I'm not old enough, and it's impossible to make an order, such a will not be made, and the royal face is not good-looking."

Zilan didn't panic, she and Lin Xi were the age difference, and the Lin family couldn't wait.

"I still can't rest assured."

The old lady knows the domineering of the royal family.

"Again, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may not all want to go together, daughter-in-law always has her own ideas."

Zilan thought about it and put her mind at ease, Mrs. Lin may not be willing to let the daughter of the big clan enter the door, she is afraid that she will be suppressed, and she is also worried that she will not be able to control this daughter-in-law.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are together all day long, longer than their husbands, it is really a lifetime, it is inevitable that there will be more thoughts, men only see the benefits, but women always have to think more about getting along in the future.