Yang also explained the reason to his daughter with a serious expression, "This kind of upbringing can never come out, once something ugly happens, it will affect the people of the clan, and there will even be a clean family in order to protect their own style and cut off relations with you."

This is also the reason why the children of the family have a strong temper, and there is no way out, because their mistakes have caused the entire clan to go downhill, and you can't afford to bear this responsibility.

Your mother and I are a concubine, are cautious, for fear of a little mistake and tired of the family and father and brother, many years of caution have a little bit of smooth luck today, how easy it is, I don't work hard, I don't clean myself, who is to blame. ”

Yang took a breath and tasted the spiritual tea, "Look at the same situation, Mrs. Zhang's wife has been thinking about means for Cui Hao since she was a child, not just to encourage her mother, but the Cui family's family style is rigorous, Cui Hao's own style is decent and tough enough, and if she doesn't give the slightest opportunity, nothing will happen."

Li Qing himself got into trouble and finally harmed his reputation and harmed the reputation of his family, and even his father and mother became sinners, why bother, the good future was ruined, his grades were not the best but he could also be eye-catching, but he didn't cultivate morality, and it was a big taboo to be an official, and he would definitely be a low-level official in the future, don't think about it anymore. ”

Zilan couldn't help but nod her head, her mother has been running around with her father all these years, this vision and insight are enough, and she still has a lot to learn.

"I agreed to the Qi family so easily, your brother will not take concubines, marry children, have no sex for the rest of his life, and have no children to succeed, because this has only benefits for him, and there is no harm in it.

It is necessary to clean oneself than to be an official, I will extinguish any illusion of him from the source, and your brother will not dare to have the slightest fancy. ”

The Yang family is also dedicated to their son, and they happily agreed to this request, and their husband and wife have different standards for their children, so naturally they have different expectations.

"It's still my father's mother's thoughts."

"You choose the daughter of the Qi family, I am very satisfied, in the final analysis, your grandfather is not wrong, the Li family's tutor has a problem, otherwise how could such a thing happen, our Song family does not have such a son."

"It's true, if Erlang's style is not good, it will be a big trouble."

"Who said it wasn't, it's a shame that you didn't take a fancy to Li Qing at the beginning, otherwise you would have been disgusted to death and would have been pitted alive."

Yang folded his hands and bowed to the Bodhisattva, thanking the Bodhisattva for blessing his daughter smoothly.

"My grandfather and grandmother don't look down on Li Qing, they are far worse than Qi Yu and Cui Hao, and even much worse than the brother-in-law of the Wang family."

Zilan smiled.

"That's right, how did your sister Guifeng get married, I brought gifts to several of your sisters, and they all have them in every room and courtyard."

Yang asked about the affairs of the family with great interest.

"It's very good, I saw Sister Guifeng when she came back, I looked very good, and my brother-in-law was very kind and gentle to her.

My sister-in-law said that my brother went to give gifts twice, my sister has been a housekeeper, and my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, and my sister Guifeng has a good temper and is strong, not such a weak person, and she will not have a bad time. ”

"That's good, the Wang family is also a very well-behaved family, otherwise you can't choose his family."

"I'm going to get married to my brother this year, and you have to help my grandmother."

"That's for sure, I'll come to the door tomorrow with gifts, and I'll go to the old house to help your grandmother with a gift in the next two days."

The Yang family came back early because the old man did have a lifespan, and they couldn't stand it if they were too worried, so they just waited for their husband to come back and everyone discussed to hand over the position of patriarch.

Earlier, the two old men had plans to hand over the positions of patriarch and clan elder to the outstanding talents of the younger generation, and they couldn't keep up with their energy when they were old.

The fourth uncle, his father and the eighth uncle have all done a very good job over the years, and there is no problem in handing over the three of them to assist them separately, just wait for a suitable opportunity to inform relatives and friends after announcing the whole clan.

The Yang family told her about the clan's plan, "Your father may become the patriarch, and I won't be able to let go of the clan affairs for a while, I have to learn about the clan affairs a long time ago, so I choose the Qi family girl is also this plan."

The criteria and considerations for being a clan woman are planned for the future. So the sooner Lingyun learns and adapts, the more it will help me. ”

"It turns out that you have already been mentioned, so it's no wonder you have to learn clan affairs, and it's not difficult to do clan affairs."

Zilan pouted and leaned on her mother's arms, thinking that she also had to manage the Cui family's clan affairs, and her heart was also a little stunned.

"You don't have to worry, even if Lingyun comes to our house, he will learn the housekeeper first. Only if you do a good job can you slowly learn clan affairs, a little bit of contact, how can you take over the whole as soon as you come up.

People are not familiar with how to do it, so they should learn for three years first, and their relatives at home have recognized it, and they have seen what the clan affairs are like in three years, and they have seen it, and they have counted it in their hearts.

I think the old man deliberately ordered you to be the wife of the clan instead of Huiru of the Li family, because he saw that the suggestions and changes you made in the Song family have achieved good results and changes, and I hope you will renovate the Cui family.

The more famous the family, the bigger the tail will be, and there are a lot of moths in the family, and the outdated rules do not attract new interests, so that they can see hope, and it is very difficult to change. ”

In the end, Yang is also a person who has studied clan affairs, so he understands the reaction of these people in the comfort zone, as well as the retreat from future difficulties, and the mentality of getting by.

"I made a note of it."

Zilan pursed her lips and nodded, she could only take one step at a time.

"Actually, I'm not worried about your ability, your ability to make money is so powerful, the Cui family is going to offer you Buddha, most people will not deliberately embarrass you as long as their brains are not stupid, you are embarrassed by the God of Wealth."

Yang smiled very happily, my daughter's ability to make money is leveraged, and everyone in my heart knows what to do.

The day before I came back, Yang didn't go anywhere, I rested at home, and the mother and daughter ate together for dinner, using Lingmi porridge, she specially took it out for her mother to take care of her body, and she didn't suffer less when she went to Jiangnan for so long.

There were only two people in the house, only the mother and daughter, and Yang ordered the porridge in the bowl, "You grew it yourself, it tastes really good." ”

"Not only does it taste good, but it is a must to maintain the body, and nothing is as good as it is suitable for the elderly, women and children. This rice is very expensive, very expensive, and you can't buy it with any amount of money. I gave my grandfather and grandfather a small bag that they could eat for a while. ”

"It's so good, I feel comfortable after eating, and my body is not sore after sleeping, and I seem to be falling apart when I come back by boat, and I have the strength to eat this rice."

"Mother, I brought some back for you, didn't you receive it?"