Zilan nodded slightly after hearing this, "Let me tell you, the family is inclined to choose a family daughter for you, after all, if you want to be a clan woman in the future, it is not good to be too poor, especially in the Cui family, someone must follow, you have to be mentally prepared." ”

There are some things that you still have to talk to your son to give him a buffer time.

Brother Tuan pursed his lips and smiled, and he was also very generous to this question, "My son knows that the marriage event is originally the words of the matchmaker at the behest of his parents, and his father takes a fancy to it, and his mother is happy if he likes his son."

The daughter of the family herself is well-educated, capable, and can help me in the future, I don't like girls like silk flowers, even Sister Wan is also strong and generous.

My wife will spend the rest of my life with me in the future, and I must have some common hobbies and abilities to go hand in hand. ”

Brother Lu himself is extremely good-looking, and he is most disgusted by others praising him for being good-looking, and he doesn't like to hear such words as a boy.

Zilan nodded and smiled, "If you can understand, I'll rest assured, Brother Ling, you won't choose a little girl for your marriage, I don't allow you to hook up with a little girl outside, and give it to each other privately, this must not be done." ”

She personally insisted that even if it is a boy, she must pay attention to morality and etiquette in both men and women, what is ambiguous, not taking the initiative, not being responsible and not refusing, such a thing must not happen to her son.

She can't control others, but my son can't learn to be a scumbag.

Brother Ling flattened his mouth aggrievedly, "Mother, where would I do such a thing to disgrace my Cui family, I haven't done such a thing for a long time." ”

Zilan smiled and nodded, "Mother just warned you, you must be three meters away when you meet a girl, you can't get drunk outside, and you can't leave people around."

My Cui family is not allowed to take concubines, what if you others falsely accuse you of making you responsible, marry a bad daughter-in-law, and your life will be ruined. Be careful. ”

"Yes, my son remembered."

The three boys hurriedly responded in unison.

When they got home, the whole family was waiting for them to pick them up and wash the dust.

Zilan and Cui Hao entered the door but knelt in the hall for the first time, respectfully bowing to the old man and elders, this filial piety is also grateful to the elders for worrying about them, and even helping them raise their children.

"Okay, get up."

The old lady and the old lady nodded happily and shouted vigorously.

"Grandfather, grandmother, you have helped us raise our two children over the years, and it has been really hard for the elders."

Zilan thanked her again.

"The family doesn't have to be so polite, are you still going well on this journey?"

The old lady smiled and waved his hand to indicate that there was no need to mention the matter again.

"The road is quite smooth, I have learned a lot in Guangdong in the past few years, I brought back some literature and books, made some records and experiments, I think it is very interesting, I will sort it out and show it to you."

Zilan smiled and talked to the old lady about the topics he was interested in.

"Okay, I'll take a look."

In the evening, the family got together for a reunion dinner, and she was happy and drank two glasses of wine.

On the second day, when I came to greet the elders, the old lady chatted with her about the children's marriage.

"What do you plan to do about Brother Lu's marriage, you can see each other in the past two or three years, and he is about to go on a study tour. We can see each other at home. ”

"I listened to my grandfather, and I also think that it is better to marry a family daughter, and I will be a clan wife in the future to take over this courage. The small family has little experience, and I am afraid that I will not be able to bear it. ”

Zilan has come to this position, she is already very mature and wise, and she will not regard love as the only selection criterion, but will consider all aspects.

The old lady couldn't stop nodding, "That's what your grandfather meant." Brother Lu wants to be the patriarch, and the marriage must not be casual. ”

"Yes, I also told the children, you must restrain yourself outside, pay attention to etiquette and defense, and don't provoke girls, so as not to get into trouble. Brother Xin, you are the same. ”

Zilan turned around and deliberately told Brother Xin.

"Got it, second aunt, how dare I, my father will beat me to death."

Brother Xin stuck out his tongue and laughed.

"Your marriage elders are also carefully considering, what you have to do is to keep a distance of more than three meters from women other than your parents and relatives, and you are not allowed to accept anything given by any woman, and you are not allowed to touch any purse and handkerchief."

Zilan's attitude is very strong, Li is silent on the side, they have the same attitude, Zilan is sincere to the child, Li has seen it in his eyes for so many years.

"Yes, I remember."

"I had nothing to do before, and I chose a few families that are all families, and some are not from the capital, and the three children are about the same age, and I can do it in my heart if I look at it early, you see I made a list."

Zilan took out a list and showed it to the old lady, and the font was very large, and the situation of the family was written in great detail.

The old lady looked at the sunshine carefully and nodded appreciatively, "It's really good, you even list the boys, and our girls can also use them." ”

"I have written about the children I know, and if I don't know, I can't do it, it's always good to see more.

I'm worried about Sister Wan right now. ”

Zilan sighed with a serious expression.

The old lady patted her hand kindly, "There is no such thing as the best of both worlds in life, you always have to break through." ”

"If it's for Brother Lu, it's actually ......"

Zilan means that if it is to exchange for Brother Lu's marriage, then in fact, men are not as aggrieved as women.

"No, it has nothing to do with Brother Luan."

Li immediately opened his mouth categorically.

"Even if there is no Brother Wan, the emperor also takes a fancy to Sister Wan, there is no difference. I will not trade my child's marriage for benefits. ”

The old lady also entered the house, and just happened to hear it.

"Grandfather, I'm worried about Sister Wan, she's still so young, and she hasn't trained for a few years, that position is not easy to do. I was thinking ......"

Zilan only felt that she was holding her breath in her heart, she really regarded Sister Wan as her daughter, and her treatment and learning skills were comparable to that of a princess.

"I know that you love Sister Wan no less than the eldest daughter-in-law, but the emperor has already decided that he wants to tell Sister Wan to Zhou Wei to be his wife, and it is impossible to change it. Your grandfather Li also came to discuss this matter with me in advance, and sincerely wanted to get married.

I thought about it carefully and thought about it, Brother Wei was personally taught and raised by your Grandpa Li, I saw that child, he is indeed excellent in all aspects, and he is not wronged Sister Wan.

There is no double life for children, and it is impossible for you to give Sister Wan the best and most perfect marriage.

Her surname is Cui, and she has to bear the responsibility of the Cui family, just as you have worked so hard all these years, and you have sacrificed so much for the Cui and Song families. ”

The old lady calmly persuaded Zilan.

It is said that Zilan is just an aunt, but her dedication to Sister Wan is even more than that of Li's mother-in-law, including Brother Xin, who is trying to teach with her heart.

I poured all my heart and soul into Sister Wan's Zilan, and I was more worried about it than my son.

If Zilan is not convinced, I am afraid that this marriage will not be perfect.

Zilan lowered her head and thought for a long time, "I will enter the palace to see the queen tomorrow, I want to say a word." It's best to meet the emperor, Brother Wei can't accept a side concubine in five years, if it's a foregone conclusion, this is the only best benefit I can fight for Sister Wan. ”