Chapter Twenty-Three: My Sister
yes, very young.
The original owner's age was two years younger than when she was in her previous life, only twenty-three years old, and she was born at the age of nineteen.
As soon as Luo Mu opened her mouth like this, Luo Manqing knew what she was going to say next.
"Wait for the days to go well and then think about the future, although it is hard now, but there is a lot of hope, whether you get married or not, having money is the most secure."
Luo Mu was stunned after hearing this, and finally sighed, "It seems that you have really suffered a lot outside in the past two years, otherwise you wouldn't be able to say these words." ”
"Xiaoqing, I've thought about your matter, I won't talk about it before, now in your situation, the man can't come back, you have no reason to wait for him all the time, with so many children, no man can't do it. I've also inquired about you, it's not easy to find a situation like yours, but it's not impossible, as long as you don't bring your children over, many unmarried people can be found. ”
Luo Manqing shook her head, "Mom, I don't want to think about this now. ”
She hadn't thought about this question at that age in her previous life, and she wouldn't think about it now, let alone what good marriage partner her mother could find her? In this era, divorced, widowed, and with children, although you are good-looking and young, many people still can't accept it, and generally can accept it, either older or divorced, which she can't accept.
"What don't you think about, I tell you, you can't get rid of those debt collectors if you don't remarry every day, do you want to hide like this? You have no conscience, don't you even consider me as a mother? I raised you so big, I can't even see my daughter? ”
"Mom, listen to your tone, are there any cases with those who ask for money?" Luo Manqing asked.
"What do you think, there was a person surnamed Bai who came to me before, and the person who lost money before is not up now, and even worse off, and he still stares at you? Listen to me, hurry up and find a new mother-in-law's house, and they will have no reason to come to you. ”
"Mom, I know that you are a motherly heart for my good, but don't worry about me, I have my own plans, don't think about this now, wait a little later, I have money in my hands, and I will ask you for help after arranging the child." Although she still didn't want to find a man later, Luo Manqing planned to drag her old mother first.
When Luo's mother heard her say this, she didn't force her to go on a blind date, "That's okay, it's enough to have money in your hands." ”
"By the way, why don't you send the children back, there is also a kindergarten here, and I will help you pick them up."
Luo Manqing shook her head, "No need Mom, I can take care of it myself." ”
Luo Mu also knew that this idea was difficult to implement, not to mention that the old lady disagreed, even Song Fu probably had an opinion, so she had to give up.
"Mom, are you okay at home now? Does the old lady often pick on you? Is Uncle Song okay with you? Did Song Zhi come back to be a demon? Is Song Jie a little more sensible? ”
In her previous life, it was her mother who held the economic power in the family, plus she was promising, and her mother was doing well in the Song family, although the old lady was always picky, but her stepfather was a good one, and she was very affectionate with her mother many times, that is, Song Zhi went home from time to time to be a demon, and Song Jie was a little uneasy during the rebellious period, but in general, it was not a big trouble.
But at this time, it is still good in Luo's mother's mouth, she said that she goes out to sell vegetables, she is not controlled by the old lady's money, and she manages her husband and son well, and her life is not sad.
In the original book, Song Zhi wanted to design her mother to leave the Song family, let her divorce Song Fu, and deduct her from her stepdaughter, so that her stepfather Song Fu was disgusted, but the stepfather did not mention divorce, and felt that his mother gave him a son no matter what, and he also picked him before, he liked it, although because of Song Zhi's affairs, the relationship between the two was also a little contradictory, but in general, it has not reached the point of divorce.
This is also the key to Luo Manqing's reassurance.
When she came back this time, Luo Manqing actually wanted to ask about her sister. She has a sister, the same father and mother, but this sister did not follow her to the Song family, she was in her grandmother's house in the countryside, she had a good relationship with her sister in her previous life, I don't know if my sister in this life was admitted to college without the help of "her".
Luo's mother saw that she mentioned this little daughter and happened to have something to say, "It's not a matter for her to take care of your cousin's children now, and it's not good to get married, so it's better to take her to the provincial capital, let her help you take care of the children, help you work, share the burden for you, and when your economy is better, you can give her some wages." Even if she doesn't help with you in the future, let her find a job, help the family, and save money for a few years before getting married. ”
It is easy to hear Luo's mother's different attitude towards her two daughters, she is obviously partial to the eldest daughter.
When Luo's mother divorced her first husband, because her ex-husband's family was extremely patriarchal, Luo's mother didn't worry about leaving her daughters at her ex-husband's house, so she took both daughters away. When she had the opportunity to remarry, it was not good to bring both daughters over, Mrs. Song disagreed, and it was not good to leave both daughters in her parents' house, and her sister-in-law disagreed.
The compromise solution, that is, to take a daughter to remarry, she chose the eldest daughter for a reason, the eldest daughter is more beautiful and cute than the younger daughter, in other words, the crying child has milk to drink, which has also been verified in the eldest daughter.
The eldest daughter has always grown up by her side, and the younger daughter only looks at her twice when she returns to her parents' house, so naturally, emotionally she prefers the eldest daughter.
Luo Manqing asked about her sister's situation now, and learned that her sister Luo Manhong in this life did not go to college, did not even finish junior high school, and even because she was introverted and afraid of life, she was not even willing to go to the village, and now she is doing farm work for her uncle's family and raising children.
Luo Manhong is only nineteen years old, if she really doesn't come out of the countryside at this time, and she will really marry in the countryside in a few years, her mind will be imprisoned, and the misfortune will definitely be greater than luck.
Now that Luo's mother has this meaning, Luo Manqing also agrees, no matter what, it is definitely better to bring her sister out than to stay in the countryside.
"Yes, if that's the case, please go to grandma's house with me and talk to them." It's better to have a mother than to go by yourself, after all, the original owner was unreliable in the past, and he couldn't convince his uncle and family, maybe he would go in vain in the past.
Luo Mu nodded, "Okay, let's go to the car after dinner." ”
The Song family's meal was quite peaceful, but Luo Manqing found that Mrs. Song had eaten and went to the shop with a small book, which was probably to call Song Zhi, and what she was holding in her hand should be a phone book.