Seeing this, some friends may feel unappetizing: what exactly does your book promote? The so-called "sugar-coated cannonballs" and "give him a taste of sweetness" are not just treats and gifts, and engage in unhealthy practices? Isn't today's society corrupt enough? You're still here to help people learn badly!

And complain slowly. As the saying goes, what you can say is better than what you can hear. Maybe the examples in the book aren't elegant, but you have to admit that they're interesting. Reading stories should be able to draw inferences from one another, blend the analogies, and more valuable, but also be able to summarize positive experiences from negative teaching materials for my use. This requires the mobilization of your intellect to participate.

The words are far off. Since we have mentioned negative teaching materials, let's look at a more extreme example. In this example, you will find that it is not so easy to give people sweetness, and you also need to use your brain to find tricks.

Northeast warlord Zhang Zuolin likes to play mahjong, and in playing cards, an interesting thing happened.

There is a politician who wants to make a difference in the Northeast, and once invited a powerful big boss to recommend him to Zhang Zuolin, and Zhang also agreed to entrust him with a heavy responsibility. But after waiting and waiting, the letter of appointment was delayed, and the politician was as anxious as an ant on a hot pot.

Coincidentally, he once met an old friend, who happened to be Zhang Zuolin's adviser. The politician told him about his situation and asked him to urge Zhang Zuolin.

The consultant shook his head vigorously: "It's not easy to do." Now that you have been recommended by someone, I will intercede for you as if I were asking him. He's a suspicious person, and he'll think about why you're so eager to get a job with him. I might have given you an errand, but if you don't give it, you will even bring disaster!"

However, the adviser is the adviser in the end, and when he saw the disappointment on the politician's face, he actually came up with an idea for his friend:

"I thought of a plan, the old man has been very happy to play cards recently, so we borrowed the house of a certain chief to invite someone to dinner and play cards. When you play cards, you also come, you are a veteran of playing mahjong, and every time you win and do not lose. This time you can only lose, not win. You might as well lose even your own bottom, and you must let the old man win satisfaction. At that point, I'll have a plan of my own. ”

On the appointed day, at the house of a certain chief executive, the consultant came forward to invite Zhang Zuolin to dinner. After the wine and dinner, pull out the table and make a phalanx battle.

All the care of the plan to ask, this day, Zhang Zuolin's card wind can be smooth, what cards to come to what cards, to eat and eat, to touch Mingbu, to do Zhuang even Zhuang. He was so happy that he was having fun!

That politician really deserves to be an expert in playing mahjong, and he knows the thirteen cards in Zhang Zuolin's hand thoroughly. Knowing that Zhang was waiting for peace, he dismantled the tie and gave him a slam. Twelve rounds of cards were played, and as soon as they were settled, the politician lost 2,000 yuan, and Zhang Zuolin won 1,800 yuan.

1800 yuan is nothing in Zhang Zuolin's eyes, but he played very happily and proudly this time, and naturally thought that the cards were good and lucky! The politician wrote a check, paid the reparation, and hurried away.

After playing cards, Zhang Zuolin wanted to eat a cigarette to refresh himself, and the consultant accompanied him to burn cigarettes next to the couch. The two chatted while eating, and the consultant praised him: "Dashuai, you can play this card great!" ”

Zhang Zuolin took a puff of cigarette and said with a smile: "Where, just try your luck!" ”

The adviser changed his words: "That one is suffering today!" He is not a rich man, and he came to Beijing this time to get a job. ”

Zhang Zuolin put aside the cigarette gun when he heard it and said: "He's your friend, then return the check to him, we don't care if we do two things!" With that, he went to his pocket and pulled out the check.

The adviser waved his hand again and again: "I can't help it, I can't help it, he is also a face-saving person, and he will never take back the money he lost." He was also a Beijing official in the former Qing Dynasty, and he still has some talents! If the marshal wants to pity him, he will take care of him and give him a position, and he will be grateful! ”

Zhang Zuolin suddenly remembered something, patted his head and said: "Oh, I remember, a certain old man once recommended him, I will fulfill him!" ”

The adviser hurriedly said: "Then I'll thank the marshal for him first!" ”

Within a week, the politician had gone to the northeast to become an official.

The politician's practices are now an open secret and are not uncommon. You may be disgusted and ashamed of this kind of behavior, but his good intentions can inspire people, that is, to behave and do things, sometimes you can't go straight, then you will most likely hit the nail.