Chapter 370: Han Jingshen has changed a lot (four more to ask for a monthly pass)
Han Jingshen was very disdainful of everything about Han Boyuan.
Ji Xiaofan couldn't help but laugh.
When Ji Xiaofan heard Han Jingshen say that Han Boyuan was a stallion, he couldn't help but laugh in his heart.
But that's not what Ji Xiaofan said to Han Jingshen.
"I said that you and Uncle Han are not talking about his life style, but about his temperament, and Uncle Han is also that kind of subjective consciousness. No matter what happens, I rarely listen to people's explanations, so it will inevitably cause a lot of misunderstandings.
Just like Uncle Han and your mother, if Uncle Han hadn't been so subjective and insisted on taking that responsibility, he would not have caused the tragedy later.
Even if he has to take that responsibility and get married, the husband and wife can calmly talk about that matter after marriage, instead of Uncle Han being suspicious all the time, and your mother doesn't bother to explain, the hearts of the two people themselves are not close, and they are getting farther and farther apart after marriage.
It's strange that you don't become a grudge couple, if you talk about that thing back then, there will be no misunderstandings and contradictions in the middle.
I think Uncle Han is a responsible person, and after a long time, he will definitely fall in love with your mother.
Just look at his care for Deng Hongying, you can know that he is a person who will love his wife, and your mother will not have what happened later. ”
Han Jingshen listened to Ji Xiaofan and was silent without speaking, and then Ji Xiaofan sighed and said:
Therefore, contradictions and misunderstandings are the culprits that ruin the relationship between two people.
Brother, no matter what happens in the future, even if you are angry in your heart, you must give each other a chance to speak, otherwise you will always be so awkward and don't give others a chance to speak, won't you go further and further? ”
Han Jingshen knew what Ji Xiaofan was going to say, and what she said made sense.
I do have a hot temper sometimes, and I don't give anyone a chance to explain what I believe.
Therefore, Han Jingshen nodded.
"Okay, I remember."
Ji Xiaofan looked at Han Jingshen and nodded, and said such a sentence, very pleased.
She saw Han Jingshen's changes.
From being unruly at the beginning, to being willing to listen to her now, although the time in between is not long, Ji Xiaofan feels that she has come a long way.
Ji Xiaofan picked out the jade Buddha from the neckline at this time, and then let Han Jingshen look at it:
"Brother, you remember that I told you before about some of the situations in my family. My surname is Ji, my grandmother fled to that village thirty-six years ago. At that time, my grandmother was pregnant and was about to give birth.
She was ready to take refuge in a family surnamed Kang, whose wife was surnamed Xie, who had done things at my grandmother's house before, and my grandmother had saved her life, so my grandmother went to this family for refuge when she had no way out.
On the day I went, my grandmother suffered a bump on the road and was born prematurely, but who would have thought that the family surnamed Kang would murder my grandmother when they saw their wealth.
My grandmother fought for her life and gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses before she died, when the grandmother of the Ji family heard the cry and went over to look at it and saw the situation at that time.
In order to seal my grandmother's mouth, the people of the Kang family divided all the valuable things that my grandmother carried.
Two children, Grandma Ji took my dad away, and the Kang family took my aunt.
This Jade Buddha was taken off my grandmother's neck by Grandma Ji back then, and when Uncle Han picked me up this time, Grandma Ji told the truth. ”
Han Jingshen knew about the Ji family.