Chapter 66: It's Freaked Love!
Everyone didn't dare to speak anymore, and looked at the divine voice that suddenly appeared in shock.
Yingzi slowly looked at Shenyin's eyes, and for some reason, those eyes, which were no different from normal people, made Yingzi see a dazzling light.
What kind of light is that?
Wish.
Yingzi saw hope in Shenyin's eyes.
She put her hand on Shenyin's hand in a daze.
Tumbled out of the guardrail.
Shenyin took Yingzi's hand and turned around, walked over to the couple, and said calmly: "Your mother's love is indeed very selfless, but for Yingzi, it is not warm at all!" ”
"Too much attention to her has made her breathless."
"This mother's love is too heavy, and in the name of love, a cage has been compiled for the child, forcing her to breathe."
"Forced herself into a hysterical woman too."
"I hurt my children, and I hurt myself."
Yingzi's mother is really a suffocating maternal love for Yingzi!
She forced Yingzi to eat food she didn't like, deprived Yingzi of her interest, and even imposed her life ideals on Yingzi, but did she ever think about how Yingzi planned to do this?
Did she ever think that what she did to Yingzi was really completely right?
Yingzi's mother didn't think about it.
Because she has never looked at the problem from the child's point of view from the beginning to the end.
And after she experienced a failed marriage with her husband, she put all her good and bad into Yingzi alone!
She is too extreme, too aggressive, and has a full desire to control Yingzi.
Yingzi's mother, like many parents, hopes that her son will become a dragon and her daughter will become a phoenix, and she has very high expectations for her children.
But they disregarded the wishes of the children, and forced all their unfulfilled wishes on the children, hoping that the children could get ahead.
Is she a bad mother?
No.
She gave up her job, love, and even herself for her daughter.
Relying on all the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life on her daughter, and doing everything from the starting point is for her daughter to have a good future.
But Yingzi's mother forgot to take care of her daughter's feelings.
Out of proportion.
In fact, many mothers talk about their selfless maternal love, but they don't know how much their children have endured.
Shenyin's words are always warm and cold, but every word he says pierces the hearts of the parents present: "You are indeed afraid of Yingzi in your mouth, and you are afraid of falling in your hands." ”
"But it's just a completely self-motivated giving."
"It's suffocating every step of the way."
"It's freak love!"
When Yingzi's mother learned that Yingzi was the second in the class, it was that kind of percussive education.
Never recognize or encourage children's progress;
This kind of education is really very common in real life.
No matter how pale Yingzi's mother was, Shenyin said word by word: "Your love is very good, but what you bring to Yingzi is only oppressive and crushing love." ”
"True love is letting go of love."
"They are eagles flying into the sky, not canaries in cages."
"Yingzi is an adult, she has her own mind, she works hard for her dreams, she knows what she is doing."
"Deprived of her love, living according to your way of thinking, what is the difference between this and a puppet?"
These words completely hit Yingzi's mother to the point of breaking down and crying.
However, the divine voice did not stop, she just looked at Yingzi's mother and said to her in an almost pleading tone: "She is your own daughter, and it is natural for you to love her, but please give her a little freedom, okay?" ”
"Let her have a smile on her face, okay?"
"Let her fly freely into the blue sky, okay?"