She doesn't regret it, which actually means that she is very confident in what she is doing and knows what she is doing. Zhang Shuya's subtext is actually very simple, she is not very Jiang Tongxun in the same camp.

"You are very curious, why I cooperate with Jiang Tongxun, because I have a different philosophy from him."

She spoke. It means that she is willing to talk to us. Therefore, we should not interfere with what she confides, and even Cheng Yuan did not stop it at this moment, because she knew very well that her blocking would dash the hope that the other party had just ignited to communicate. Each of us makes a gesture to please.

In psychological communication, a very important part is listening, many people think that listening is easy, in fact, this is a big misunderstanding. The key to an excellent psychiatrist lies in the first level of psychological counseling, and what the first level is, as I have said countless times before, is empathy.

Empathy, many times, begins with listening.

Empathy, also known as divine involvement, empathy, empathy, etc., is also translated as empathy, empathy, affection, etc. The concept elaborated by Rogers, the founder of humanism, is increasingly appearing in the writings of modern psychoanalysts. The two schools of theory, which seem to be extremely opposed, both in terms of the concept of human nature and the theory and treatment methods of psychological disorders, gradually converge in the understanding and application of empathy. Empathy seems to have built a bridge for the fusion of modern psychoanalysis and humanism.

Literally, it can be seen that empathy has a lot to do with listening, and it needs to be integrated into the other person's thoughts and emotions. Only if your empathy is enough, can you make the other party feel resonance, and will make the other party tell you more things.

Zhang Shuya asked us for a cigarette, she elegantly lit the cigarette, and at that moment, I read from her gaze what she was recalling. Because her gaze is squinted to the lower left, and the corners of her mouth make movements from time to time because of her memories. The person's memory area is in the right brain, and when she makes this action, it shows that she is recalling.

"Do you like watching American dramas?"

"What do you mean?" Yang Minzhi was very puzzled by Zhang Shuya's sudden words.

I said, "Which American drama do you want to talk about?" ”

"Legends of Tomorrow!"

"DC's plot is about the existence of American-style superheroes."

"Do you know who I like the most?"

I have actually kept up with Zhang Shuya's rhythm, because I can actually know what she said. For a psychiatrist, he needs to read a lot of things, because an important point of empathy is to understand what the other person is saying, so in college, we can often see students who study psychology, they receive much more textbooks than others, because they have to cover too many fields. It doesn't require you to be very sophisticated, but you have to know something so that you can understand what the other person means when she says something.

Now, I can just know the legend of tomorrow that Zhang Shuya said.

"Legends of Tomorrow" is a spin-off of the American drama "Green Arrow" and "The Flash". Blante, Andrew? Kresberg, Mark? The Guggenheim served as a producer with Dermot? Downs, Joe? Dante, Steve? Hill, Gregory? Directed by Smith, T, R, Brandon? Rose, Victor? Gabo, Katie? Lotz, Wentworth? Miller and others participated in the performance.

The TV series mainly tells the story of a group of heroes and villains who unite and work to defeat the big boss who will destroy the world.

Among them, in the show, the time hunter in order to deal with the supervillain Vandal? Savage, while crossing over from his timeline, recruits the groups of superheroes he needs. However, not all of these superheroes are heroes. Most of them have both good and evil sides, such as Green Arrow's ex-lover Platinum Canary, who is a bloodthirsty person who kills people to stop the spread of violent aura in her body. Of course, there are more righteous existences among them, such as Atom, such as Firestorm, and Hawk Men and Hawk Girls.

However, in this group of combinations known as legends, there is a group of partners who are the most peculiar existence. Time Hunter is looking for heroes, legends of tomorrow who hope to defeat supervillains, but in his recruitment list, two characters, Captain Cold and Heat Wave, appear.

There is no doubt that in other extended plots, such as the plots of The Flash and Green Arrow, Captain Cold is the opponent of these superheroes, but no one can deny that these two people, especially Captain Cold, bring a unique temperament to him.

Cold Captain Leonard? Snyth, his father was a scumbag who drank every day, and often beat him and his mother and sister. His mother was beaten away once and never returned. In Captain Cold's heart, he didn't blame his mother, thinking that in his opinion, if it was him, if he could run, he wouldn't come back.

Captain Cold inherited his father's criminal genes, and as a standard criminal, his thirst for money and diluted treasures was immense. He used his super high criminal IQ to constantly escape from the hands of those superheroes, and even played righteous characters such as the Flash between applause to complete the comfort of his soul.

He is a criminal, but he is a principled criminal, in the rogue army with him as the core, he has set strict creeds for everyone, the three most important points are that we are thieves, criminals but we are not scumbags, we need to remember 1, not to hurt women and children (this is our bottom line) 2, not to take drugs, because drug use will make people have a delusion and make me lose myself. 3. Our goal is not to rule the world, we are for the money and destroy the Flash.

This is Captain Cold, he is a principled criminal, so among the many villains, he has even more fans than some righteous heroes, and even his love for his sister has melted the hearts of many women.

I will repeat the things about Captain Cold one by one, of course, I believe that Zhang Shuya knows all these things.

So, what do you want to say.

Zhang Shuya looked a little excited, obviously these things touched her nerves, the third episode in the legend of tomorrow.

"Who remembers this." Cheng Ti was a little puzzled, there are so many American dramas, do you have to remember every episode clearly

But, I know. At that moment, my heart was also moving. I suddenly understood what Zhang Shuya meant, because, maybe because of a coincidence, or maybe because I had a common experience with her, I knew very well what she was talking about.

You're talking about the scene where Captain Leonard of the Cold travels back in time to see himself and his father when he was a child.

When I said this, I saw that Zhang Shuya, who had always been strong and uncalm, had moist eyes, and in addition to her, we also saw that Wan Kelin's eyes were also moist, and I think many things were clear at that moment. The greatest use of empathy is to integrate into the other person's psychology, and after integration, you understand the other person's heart, and you understand the other person's motivation better.

Captain Cold's father may be a pure villain, and the bad has forced Captain Cold to break with his father in order to protect his sister. But even so, when he had the opportunity to go back to the past, what he still didn't forget was to help his father, he didn't want his father to go to prison, so after traveling back, he didn't hesitate to risk changing the timeline to steal the green jade to his father at that time in advance and organize him to go to prison. When he returned to his childhood home with the green jade and saw himself when he was a child, every word he said was to warn himself at that time to protect himself. It's just that when his father appeared, he still pointed a gun at him.

"Is your experience the same as his?"

After I asked this, I could see that Zhang Shuya was indeed even more excited. Everyone goes to a certain point, and it doesn't happen overnight.

"My father is a criminal."

When Zhang Shuya said this, I think that many things have gradually become clear at that moment.

"We can hear your story."

"Yes." Of course, Yang Minzhi also knows the importance of listening at this time, "What we have is time, you can talk slowly." ”

"Thank you." At that moment, Zhang Shuya actually said the word thank you, I believe, she is absolutely glad to have met us, this group of people who can understand her heart.

So, next, she began to tell everything about her, and we also thoroughly understood why this beautiful girl got to where she is today. Her father is a criminal, since she was a child, she grew up in that criminal atmosphere, she didn't want to be a criminal herself, but all kinds of things made her breed criminal genes, just like Captain Cold, she had those things in her blood, so she couldn't get rid of them first.

The perpetrator is full of deception, she knows that she has deceived many people with her acting skills and appearance, but she knows in her heart that she is not that kind of person. As she enters the world of crime, she gets deeper and deeper, and she wants to go back in time and change everything about herself.

Therefore, she began to commit targeted crimes, and her research field is actually very close to Wan Jiang, which is the kind of mysterious crossing and alien things.

"So, when Jiang Tongxun approached me and hoped that I could cooperate with him to target some cultural relics crime syndicates, I did not refuse. Because, the things I need are also there, for example, Wang Mang Ruyi. ”

"In other words, you admitted to cooperating with Jiang Tongxun." Cheng Yuan said immediately.

Zhang Shuya looked at us with a smile and nodded: "I am very grateful to you for listening to my story, so I don't deny that from beginning to end, it was Jiang Tongxun who instructed me, but I did not carry out his orders every step." ”

What does this mean!!!!

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