Chapter 51 Reprimand
Zilan wore a full-breasted skirt with roses, purple branches, and white plums, combed two cute buns, tied her hair with simple ribbons, wore a pair of little golden pig studs on her ears, and hung a gold collar with the word Fu around her neck.
Shuhui also deliberately dressed up today, wearing a pink Baidie Wearing Flower Bafu Xiang skirt, tying her hair with different colors of ribbons like Zilan, a pair of little rabbit gold studs, and a longevity lock around her neck, you can see that they are two sisters at a glance.
"My sister is so pretty."
Shuhui looked at her and was genuinely amazed.
Zilan followed her father Song Zhengtian, she is a white-skinned child, her skin is white and tender, and her skin will look very white and tender when she wears colors.
"My sister is beautiful and beautiful in pink."
Zilan is not stingy in praising Shuhui, and children should be encouraged and praised more.
"Hee-hee-hee!"
"Don't be stinky and beautiful, come and have breakfast, the gift is wrapped for you, go and have fun with your sisters, you know?"
Yang sorted out his daughter's clothes and asked Mu Xiang to feed her daughter, so that she wouldn't have to change her clothes after eating.
"Got it."
Zilan responded absentmindedly, her mouth was full of food, and her little hand ordered the breakfast she liked to eat.
was having breakfast, Zhao Xuan'er came over, Ying Ying bowed and saluted, "Say hello to the old lady, hello to the two aunts, and ...... Mrs. Song greets. ”
I originally wanted to call my aunt, but when I saw that Yang Shili ignored her, the words were changed to my lips.
Xu Shi responded lightly, and asked with a smile, "Have you had breakfast?" ”
"Thank you, aunt, I've eaten, I'm not a vegetarian to eat with you."
Zhao Xuan'er smiled sweetly.
"Sister Hui'er and Sister Lan are dressed so beautifully today, are they going out?"
Zhao Xuan'er looked at them and couldn't help but guess.
"We're going to my grandfather's house to play with my sister."
Shuhui spoke first, her little face slightly raised, looking very proud and happy.
"Sister Lan, can you take me, I also want to meet new friends."
Zhao Xuan'er's eyes showed a look of envy.
Shuhui was suddenly embarrassed, but Zilan took the initiative to speak, "Sister Xuan'er, you are still in the period of filial piety, you can't go to other homes as a guest, and you can't go out until a year later." ”
This is the rule here, Mama Qi is not invited in vain, in addition to practicing etiquette rules every day, there is also a half-hour every day to explain some politeness and taboos in human relations, red and white ceremonies These points must be said.
Zhao Xuan'er was stunned for a moment, "I don't know." ”
"Hey! Sister Xuan'er, I don't know how you learned the rules in the Zhao family, my mother told me once or twice before Mama Qi came, but Mama Qi said it more carefully and comprehensively, your rules are really not very good, so you can't go out as a guest.
And yesterday I asked the little girl to reply to you, you can't invite me alone to invite me to play, but also bring all the sisters, let's play together, this will make the three of them embarrassed.
You see that the clothes you wear and live in are arranged for you by your two aunts, so it is reasonable that you can't always leave Sister Hui'er behind, which seems impolite.
If you have time, you should also come to see your grandmother and talk to her old man, your grandmother is the lord of the county, and she is educated by the royal family, and you can use two tricks to guide you casually for a lifetime. What are you doing hiding in Xiyuan?
If you don't know how to learn the rules, let your grandmother show you a few pointers, if you don't understand, you can ask Aunt Xu, you are raised in the Hou Mansion, and the Hou Mansion will be your maiden home in the future, if you don't work hard to integrate here, do you want everyone to accommodate you. ”
Zilan was a little angry, and pretended to be confused again and again, although you are young and everyone can understand, but after all, you don't have a father, you have to stand up early, who owes you can't, you have to compromise and retreat for you again and again.
At the same time, it is also sincerely for Zhao Xuan'er's good, to recognize his own position and environment, see his own advantages and disadvantages, improve himself as much as possible to integrate into the Hou Mansion, and work hard for more choices in the future.
What is the hypocrisy of this whole day?
Zhao Xuan'er's face turned pale all of a sudden, and it seemed that Zilan's accusations could not be justified.
Zilan took a sip of soy milk before she said seriously: "Sister Xuan'er, I don't have any prejudices against you, since meeting is fate." I have a lot of problems that need to be improved.
My mother often said that it is not easy for us girls in the world, we must learn more skills, understand reason, talk about etiquette, be strong, brave and generous. Do you say that this is the reason, your mother has to send you to the Hou Mansion with her sick body so hard, you should know what it is for.
With my family background, I am not qualified to ask the palace grandmother to teach, or I came to the Hou Mansion to ask my grandmother to have this opportunity, and you will have your aunt to teach you as soon as you come, this is a great opportunity. You and I should cherish it even more, Aunt Xu has been teaching for almost two months.
But you are still like this when you treat people and things, you are insulting the Queen Mother, and even more humiliating the lintel of the Yang family, if this is in my Song family, you will be severely reprimanded. But my grandmother didn't say anything bad about you, just because she was sad and sad about your mother's death.
But you should also think clearly, how to go in the future, how to consider your future and future, it is all up to you.
The grandmother in the palace has already given it to you, and you can't learn it, what do you think will happen to you? As the saying goes, if you want to sell something at a high price, you have to have a good thing, and cloth clothes and brocade clothes are never the same price, you know? ”
Zilan said that in the end, she had already made a straight face, if Zhao Xuan'er was always like this, she would have to consider begging her grandmother to take Mama Qi home, and if she continued like this, it would affect her reputation.
Zhao Xuan'er's tears rolled down drop by drop, and she was at a loss for a while, she didn't expect Zilan, who had always been soft and easy to speak, to reprimand herself so harshly.
Yang sighed and glanced at his daughter, "Lan'er, you are too careful." ”
"I really shouldn't say that, but it's strange that all three girls grew up together, and we couldn't leave her alone.
I can ask Mama Qi to teach me how grateful I don't know, my surname is Song Deyang's grandmother's kindness, I must be everyone's lady when I walk out of the door, and no one is allowed to tarnish the reputation of the Song and Yang families, I can't afford to gamble! ”
The sonorous words have made it very clear that if you do this again, it will be a jeopardy to our sisters' reputation.
The requirements for girls in this era are strict, the Great Zhou Dynasty is very similar to the Tang Dynasty, very open and inclusive, and slightly friendly to girls, but it is also a little, it is good to allow you to remarry and so on, but if you have a problem with your character, there will still be people talking about it.
Zhao Xuan'er is not good, she will make jokes once she goes out, and even everyone will talk about Song Zilan and Yang Shuhui, they are sisters who grew up together, and it is estimated that it is not much better.
Zilan can think of the natural elders can also think of it, so she doesn't go out of Xiyuan, and everyone doesn't ask for this reason.
The old lady was silent for a while, and said with a very serious face, "What Lan'er said is very good, and it is also my idea, if you are careful like this, I can only send you to Zhuangzi, I can't let you affect the reputation of the girl in the family." ”