Chapter 23 Reminder
Mama Qi stood in the yard and watched Zilan walk back and forth in the yard with a bell hanging around her waist.
The bell on Zilan's waist will always ring, and if it does, it is not right.
"The girl's buttocks should be retracted, not twisted waist and hips, that is an action that only a serious woman does, everyone Miss walks elegantly, her body must be straight, she must not shake back and forth, and the bell cannot ring, otherwise she will be spoken by the strict lady and question the upbringing of the Song family.
Mama Qi spoke again to correct Zilan's walking posture, don't swagger, don't be indecent, don't twist your waist and swing your hips like a snake spirit is not dignified, don't let the bell ring.
Zilan practiced over and over again, not daring to slack off, since she is already a girl of the Song family, God loves her to cross the daughter of the official family, and the elders who really love her to take care of her, you can't just enjoy the benefits but also take responsibility, going out represents the face of the Song family, and you can't embarrass the family if you don't ask for a long face.
"Well, that's very good, the pace should be light, the advantage of primary school is that it is easy to correct and form habits, and it is not easy to change the previous habits when you are older in school, it will be much more difficult."
"Yes, Lan'er remembers Mama's teachings."
"You're a smart girl, and that's why the old slave is harsh on you."
"Mama's kindness, how can Lan'er not understand, if it weren't for her grandmother's love, where could Lan'er invite Mama to teach, Lan'er is very grateful, I understand."
Zilan said seriously and sincerely, walking around under her feet, turning and walking back and forth.
"You are a good child, you may not be able to have a good future in the future, your mother has worked hard for your brothers and sisters, you are all filial children, and you can naturally understand the minds of your elders."
"Yes."
Zilan studied for an hour and a half before Mama stopped to rest.
And Shuhui was also learning the same thing as her under Aunt Xu's teaching at this time, walking, sitting and lying to change her casual appearance.
At a young age, it won't be too hard to restrain at this time, but it will be really hard to go to school at the age of ten.
Zilan felt that it was not easy to survive in ancient times, so she worked harder and harder to study, and even practiced for more than two hours after entering the space at night in order to deepen her impression.
The soul body learns well, and the body will leave memories, which is the secret of her learning fast and well.
Zilan went to the main hall to see her grandmother after finishing her studies, and chatted and played with her old man for a while, which is also filial piety for children.
"Grandmother."
"Lan'er, come, your grandfather has hired a painter for you."
"Huh, artist? Did you invite me? ”
Zilan was quite surprised.
"Yes, you and Hui'er should learn together, your brothers can only learn in leisure if they want to study and practice martial arts, and they can't take it seriously. Your grandfather said that you have Huigen, and he specially invited you sisters to study hard. ”
The old lady touched her head and smiled.
"Really, great, grandpa is so good, I'll study hard."
Zilan happily hugged the old lady and coquettish, her eyes were full of surprise, and her little face was shining with a lustrous luster.
She has always liked to paint, but she didn't have time to learn in her previous life, and then she was delayed because of perfumery and finding spices, so she just took a short-term training course.
I didn't expect my grandfather to love her so much, and because he painted a portrait of Lin Xi, he immediately invited a painter to teach him, which was really moving.
"Learning to paint is an elegant thing, and the girl's family should cultivate one or two hobbies, how can you get it if you don't go out of anything."
The old lady also thought so.
"Well, with such good conditions, I will study hard."
Zilan is very grateful and cherishes such a good opportunity.
"Silly boy, your mother is very worried about you, and I am most worried about you, I am actually not worried about Hui'er, Hui'er is honest, rough and rough, and sleeps until dawn.
But you're not smart, smart, and sensitive. In any case, my grandmother wants you to be safe and happy, to be truly open-minded, to be happy. ”
The old lady is the county lord, a person who has been in the court all her life, Zilan can't hide this ability from her, but she thinks that children are rare, smart, filial and sensible, and they want to do their best as much as possible, want to make everyone happy, don't want to trouble others, and don't want to burden others.
She felt that Zilan was too cautious and careful, not as good as Shuhui at this point, a child with a big heart has her benefits, and she doesn't want to sleep so much.
Zilan peeked at her grandmother, pursed her lips and said nothing, she didn't think about hiding it from anyone, she just felt that it was right to be cautious and low-key.
"Am I doing something wrong?"
Zilan cautiously raised her head and asked, I am very scared at this moment, am I letting people find out that something is wrong.
The old lady's eyes were very distressed, and the precocious child was more sensitive. Gently touching her head, he smiled lovingly, "You haven't done anything wrong, but that's what your mother and I are worried about you about."
You're only less than four years old, isn't it normal to make mistakes? Why should you be afraid of making mistakes, where is there a reason for people not to make mistakes?
Your cousin is often lazy and slippery, and your uncles are not less fighting, I don't think it's a big deal. And you're being too cautious.
This is also your home, which slave is not satisfied, just tell your mother to go out, my granddaughter is so expensive, I should show the demeanor of everyone's daughter, what are you afraid of. The sky is falling, and our elders are supporting you, what are you doing so much with your little head? ”
Zilan was a little dazed for a while, how to comfort herself when she came here, in fact, she was still a little frightened in her heart, in different eras, she was also strict and feudal to women, for fear that she would suffer if she did something wrong, so she became more cautious and cautious, but she lost her nature.
I remember that when I was in office, I was really happy in the first few days, probably because I didn't know anyone, I didn't have to explain anything to my relatives, and I didn't have so many rules in the Hou Mansion.
"Grandmother, I can also be like Sister Hui'er, I can do whatever I want?"
Zilan tilted her head, her eyes a little hesitant.
"Of course you can, you have to learn the rules, but that's for outsiders to see, you can't lose yourself."
The old lady smiled and nodded her head, she can understand the child very well, the rules of the Hou Mansion are big, Zilan is small, and she is cautious everywhere, afraid that everyone will say that the rules of the Song family are not good, and the girl she raises is also strange. is sincere and filial, always wants to satisfy everyone, where can everyone be satisfied, wouldn't it be exhausting.
"Shouldn't I be trying to make everyone happy?"
Zilan found the mistake she had unconsciously made.
"Yes, no one can satisfy everyone, instead of living so tired, it's better to be yourself, I'm such a person, you can't get used to me pulling down."
The old lady chuckled.
"I'm going to think about it, and I'll get my own back."
Zilan lowered her head and pondered, she felt that what her grandmother said was the life she wanted, no matter where I was, I should be the best version of myself, my original self, instead of becoming a lady in the eyes of others.
The old lady nodded in satisfaction.