Zilan sat down, leaned on the three sisters, and took a deep breath, "I know that you are all sensible and willing, but I still feel that you have been wronged." ”

sighed deeply, their marriage was decided by the old lady, and she was just trying her best to get the best.

"Sister-in-law, this is our way, we have long been mentally prepared, the three of us sisters have been treated differently from other sisters since childhood, this is not for nothing."

Yan'er chuckled lightly, with a calm and fearless look in her eyes.

"Yuan Ying is here, you are not the eldest daughter-in-law, you must respect your sister-in-law when you enter the door, and if you can back down, you will back down. Harmony is the most important thing.

Discuss everything with your husband, don't be too competent, such as me, I will prepare everything, tell your brother the final result, and I will let your brother keep me busy with the outside affairs.

In fact, I have someone to do, but I'm glad that your brother is busy with me, and he's also happy that I rely on and trust him, discuss everything, trust each other, and talk about everything. ”

She really loves her sister-in-law, and she will talk about her experience in a few words, so that they can have a code of conduct in their hearts.

The three sisters hugged her, leaned together under the quilt, and talked intimately.

"I'm not too worried about Yuan Ying, she is not married to the eldest son, and the responsibilities are relatively less, as long as the husband and wife are harmonious, understand the rules and are filial to the elders, the problem is not too big.

What I'm most worried about is you and Yan'er, the royal family will definitely take concubines, the Seventh Prince's family is better than the prince, the Seventh Prince is very strict with his children and grandchildren, the princess is also from the clan, there are always rules, you should be more filial to your in-laws when you marry, and let the eldest sister-in-law not fight for rights. ”

Min'er leaned on her arms, "Second sister-in-law, don't worry, I've written it down." As the daughter of the Cui family, we have advantages over others and face, and we have to carry this responsibility and obligation willingly. ”

Yan'er also smiled, "That's it, we have nothing to say, let alone complain, I'm a good man, and one of my best friends is married to a widow, so what should I say, I'm much happier." ”

Zilan sighed faintly and gently stroked the green silk on her head, "There is no girl who does not yearn for love, but I don't recommend you to go to the moth to put out the fire."

The frankness should be frank, the respect should be respected, the hardness should be hard, the weakness should also be weak, isn't there a saying, the crying child has milk to eat, we are the wife of the main room, even if we cry, we must pay attention to a way and method, and we can't fall behind.

Especially Yan'er, the seventh prince already has a concubine, she is his first woman, it is inevitable that there will be traces in your heart, you don't easily embarrass her, let you have some small things, but your grievances must be known to men.

Remember how I taught you how to discern the scheming of women with a compassionate face? ”

Zilan gave the Cui family and the Song family girls how to distinguish the white lotus from the green tea, and it was an example, and even played scene games with them, and the threesomes acted in a sketch to demonstrate and explain in person, which can be said to be broken and crumpled to talk about it, which is definitely thorough enough.

"Why don't you remember, remember it firmly."

"This rule can be a weapon or a shield to protect ourselves, depending on how you use it.

You can't live without a heart in the prince's mansion. You can also use your tricks when necessary, and you can use the tricks that bad women can use against them in turn. But be sure to use Yang to use Zha Ming, remember that you are the wife. ”

Zilan whispered to them.

Yan'er covered her mouth and giggled, nodding vigorously, she knew that her second sister-in-law loved them the most.

"There is one more important thing, if the concubine robs the husband's children, then let them give birth.

The son is not about the priority, but about whether he is good. What is the use of the eldest son, with the Cui family as the backstage, as long as the son you give birth to is good enough, who can take away his demeanor, my Cui family is the first to disagree. ”

Zilan also gave her sisters enough waist pole and confidence.

"Sister-in-law, don't worry, we won't harm others easily, that's not our tutor."

"That's right, the daughter of my Cui family can't compete with the concubine for favor, but we still have to fight for the hearts of the masters, at least the respect must be won back."

"Yes, we listen to my sister-in-law."

"As long as the Seven Princes are not stupid, they will basically not let the eldest son come out, and the Seven Princes are not visible, there is no doubt that the Yue family is very important, which is also what the emperor meant.

I don't want the Seventh Prince to be too weak, so he won't treat you too badly, but the mother concubine is a concubine or something, there is no need to care. ”

"Yes."

"Your brother and I gave a little dowry shop and grange, but you may have to live in the palace for a period of time after marriage, and for the time being, your father and mother will help you with it, and you will enter the palace with a silver ticket, so that it will be more convenient to use the flowers.

If the uterine environment is complicated and you can't guarantee your safety, don't get pregnant for the time being, and wait until you have another child after the branch.

Then you will be old enough, and your health will not worry too much. This question is when your husband and wife have a good relationship, and you choose a good time to talk to him frankly.

Husbands and wives should not have principled secrets, so as not to be used by others, and let the concubines give birth if they want to get pregnant. ”

Yan'er looked at her convincingly, nodded vigorously, her mother also considered it this way, she knew that her sister-in-law had given a lot of makeup for the three of them this time, and she was a little embarrassed.

"If you are short of money, just talk to your family, don't put up with it, you know, there is not much else, sister-in-law, I have a lot of money.

You are the princess, and your brother and I can also borrow your power, so don't think too much. ”

Yan'er and Min'er were buried in her arms, and Yan'er's voice was crying, "Sister-in-law, I'm afraid of ......"

There is infinite panic and confusion in my heart, as well as all kinds of uncertainty about my future husband.

"I know, start with friends who trust each other, and don't have extravagant expectations.

There is no love and friendship, and it is also excellent to have family affection. When the sky falls, your brother and I will support you, don't be afraid.

The two sisters nodded vigorously and secretly wiped away their tears, the Cui family girl would never fall under others, let alone be weak and incompetent.

The sister-in-law and the sister-in-law talked for a while, and it was getting late, Zilan said goodbye and went home, leaving the three sisters to talk together.

Cui Hao personally came to pick her up and took her back to the house, and after returning to the house to wash, he lay down and asked.

"How's the talk?"

"Yuan Ying is not a big problem, and it is stable. Min'er was fine, Yan'er was a little panicked and scared. ”

Cui Hao sighed, "Give them some time, they'll figure it out." ”

"Hey! Let's hope. ”

"Don't worry, the girls of my Cui family are extremely strong and brave, this road has long been doomed, they can't escape, the benefits of the Cui family are not enjoyed in vain, the son and the girl are the same."

Born in a clan, both men and women have to contribute to the family, which has been upbringing and consensus since childhood.