Zilan took the notebook and analyzed it to her one by one, and explained the routines and thoughts of the White Lotus Green Tea in great detail, and even explained the meaning of whether the eye movements were bad or not.

The throat of the saying was smoking, and Zilan took the tea handed by Shuhui and poured it into her stomach, and then sighed comfortably.

"Actually, this is what the grandmothers usually explain, but it's not as straightforward as me.

You just have to remember one thing, a girl from a good family will not take the initiative to approach other people's fiancés and husbands, and she must retreat when she meets, this is a tutor.

Not to mention saying something behind his back that seems to be a foil explanation, but is actually fanning the flames to sow discord. You shouldn't talk about other people's husband and wife. ”

Shuhui also agreed with it, "What my sister said is right, Aunt Xu also teaches her like this on weekdays, you must know how to avoid suspicion." ”

Zhao Xuan'er was dumbfounded when she heard this, and then she said after relieving herself: "It turns out that there are so many exquisiteness, I thought they were so pitiful." ”

"We often say that this is what it means to stand upright, some means can't be put on the table, and the elders can see at a glance what kind of person you are. That's why we learn to use conspiracy instead of privacy. ”

Zhao Xuan'er thought about it after hearing this, and remembered that everyone's bad attitude towards her in the past was probably because she was not right-minded, so naturally she didn't have a good impression of her.

Now she learns well everywhere, even her brothers are very friendly to her, and they will think of bringing her a copy of good things and things, and she has never been left behind, this is the principle of etiquette and behaving in the world.

Looking back, I realized that there is a cause and an effect, and my mother must have done something bad to make the old lady so disgusted. Seeing that my mother also knew that she hadn't learned the real skills, she would have just died, otherwise she wouldn't be able to mix like that in the Zhao family.

"You're right, it's that I'm thinking less, I'll go back and ask Aunt Xu, I still have to learn more about privacy."

Zhao Xuan'er felt that she should learn more, she would definitely not be able to marry a high family, and the most likely thing was that the merchant wanted to change the family like the door, which was similar to her father.

Don't look at Mrs. Zhao dying early and being so miserable, in fact, the old marquis is worthy of her, Zhao Xuan'er and her father are Jinshi, the fifth, upright, understand the rules and generally, and are also very talented, but they died early.

In terms of character alone, it is passable, so the quality of an individual's life depends on his own ability.

Zhao Xuan'er just started to learn privacy methods, and she didn't know it yet, so Zilan deliberately found some notebooks to show her, first looked at them, and then broke them and crumpled them carefully, and it was easy to learn well, and she resolutely couldn't let her go back crookedly.

"Yes, if you don't understand, just ask Aunt Xu, remember to give some gifts during the New Year's holidays, or hand-embroidered objects, or interesting things. You studied well, and Aunt Xu went out with a good reputation. ”

Zhao Xuan'er nodded with a smile after hearing this, "Don't worry, I know, Sister Hui reminded me a lot, and my aunts also mentioned it, and I haven't forgotten it." ”

"That's good, it's good for the New Year, you can rest and play, I accompanied my mother to settle accounts a few years ago, and I was dizzy."

Zilan leaned on the brocade cushion with ginger embroidered peony flowers and let out a long breath.

Zhao Xuan'er also laughed, "Sister Hui and I have been busy settling accounts, and the old lady has taught us a lot of things, but we didn't know it before." There are so many famous and thoughtful people in this general service, and the more I learn, the more I feel shallow. ”

Now she often plays and learns with Shuhui, honors the old lady in the main hall, understands the rules everywhere, and knows that she is tolerant and generous.

The old lady taught Shuhui to remind her of her handily, and she didn't care about her previous mistakes, so she tried to teach as much as she could.

In fact, the Yang family is a hard-mouthed and soft-hearted personality.

"How much you respect your grandmother, your grandmother was educated by the palace, you can learn one or two, it is enough for you to use it for a lifetime.

These things are not something that grandmothers can teach, grandmothers are county lords, grandmothers are slaves, this status is naturally different, and the angle of looking at things is also different, there are a lot of them here. “

Zhao Xuan'er blushed in embarrassment, turned her face and looked at Shuhui, her eyes were grateful, "Yes, my sister didn't mention me less, thanks to you for dragging my stupid gourd all the way and not letting go, otherwise I wouldn't have come to my senses."

The old lady and my aunt and other elders are very kind to me, and I will learn my skills well. ”

In fact, it's not difficult to learn well, just ask if you don't understand, be generous, and the elders won't blame at all, and they will explain it in detail.

"Yes, let's work together to learn the skills and prepare for the future."

Zilan smiled at the two of them, and encouraged Zhao Xuan'er from time to time, so that when she saw the hope of the future, she would not think about it.

The three sisters smiled and nodded, and Shuhui took out her treasure again and shared it with the sisters, muttering endless thoughtful words.

On the third day of junior high school, I went back to the Song family to participate in the family banquet, and the men, women and children in the clan gathered together, exchanged feelings, talked about each other's sufferings and needs, and everyone worked together to solve them, which is the benefit of the family.

After eating, the second grandmother and the third grandmother called Zilan's mother and daughter into the house to talk alone.

"Last time you fell and injured yourself, I thought about giving you some compensation, and you don't lack anything else after thinking about it, but there are fewer people around you who can serve two maids who know martial arts, and you can use it for the rest of your life.

It just so happens that our family has such a person, I asked your third grandfather to pick two for you, and the deed of sale was also given to you, this is the dead man of our family, and I will follow you in the future.

I also chose two for your brother, and your grandfather explained it in the front yard, so we don't have to worry about it. ”

Two girls who were four or five years older than Zilan walked out next to the third grandmother, about twelve or thirteen years old, and they were already half-grown girls.

"They don't have names, only code names, you can choose your own names."

Zilan was quite surprised and didn't come back to her senses for a while, dead soldiers, there are dead soldiers in the Song family.

The Yang family was the first to react, because the Yang family also had it, but she didn't have such a person, because she didn't need it. But the brothers have a dead man by their side to protect them.

"Don't thank you grandmothers, this is a big face, the Yang family also has it, ordinary girls are not eligible to enjoy the protection of the dead."

Yang was very surprised, and quickly reminded his daughter to come back to her senses.

Zilan raised a big smile after saluting the two grandmothers, and thanked her sincerely, "Lan'er, thank you two grandmothers, I'm so surprised that there are dead people in our family, I don't even know." ”

"Generally speaking, there are no girls, only boys, and only outstanding eldest sons and grandsons, and your father is always with Chang'an. They were all bought orphans and selected bones for cultivation.

It's not for them to do bad things, the main responsibility is to protect the master. ”

Unless you have to, you will not easily use the dead to carry out the assassination mission, one will leak yourself, and the other is that these dead soldiers who participated in the mission will not be able to live, which is a great loss in itself, and cultivating a dead soldier is a large and small training, not to mention that it will take fifteen years to be useful.