Yang hugged his daughter and kissed him when he heard this, "Thank you for your hard work, my baby, Ming'er will go to the Song family, you have to find time to put the matter of Lingquan, and you won't be in a hurry for a while."

I just thought that we should give back to our relatives who were good to us if we have the ability, but you can't get this credit. ”

It is appropriate to give back to your loved ones with sincerity, but you can't leak yourself, so the credit is gone.

"What does it matter, the elders are so good to me, and I haven't seen everyone come to ask for credit, I don't care about this, I just hope that my parents and relatives can be safe and happy, this is my greatest happiness."

Zilan said sincerely, it is her blessing to be able to come here to meet relatives who really love her, and she should cherish it even more, it doesn't matter if she has merit or not.

Yang said with a smile: "My baby is the most well-behaved." The next year you will be a year older, and your uncle and grandmother will say that I will learn to give you the account book, and when you are older, you will start housekeeping.

Start with such trivial and troublesome things as the warehouse kitchen. When you are ten years old, you will start to learn how to manage the affairs of the clan and learn how to be a clan wife. ”

"Did you start learning so early, I don't think Sister Ruqing learned it at thirteen?"

Zilan asked in confusion.

Yang sighed and touched his daughter's delicate little face, "Your father is the eldest son of the eldest son, your brother is the eldest grandson, you are the eldest daughter, it doesn't matter if others can't learn it, it's probably not bad to learn it."

But you have to take them all, because in your identity, you may also go to the big clan to be a clan woman in the future, and if you don't learn early, you will be laughed at in the future. ”

The Yang family went out because of their marriage, and it was easier to be restrained by their in-laws, but there were relatively few elders to tell her about the affairs of the clan.

After coming back this time, her aunt talked to her a lot about the Song family, especially the upbringing of the children in the clan, which was very strict and orderly.

It's not the same thing as what she used to think about as a large family with a large population, it's a big family with inheritance, family rules and ancestral teachings, and after coming into contact with these days, I understand more and more how lucky I am.

I am more and more grateful to my father and mother for this family business for herself, such a big family is very strict with their children, and men are not allowed to take concubines to marry young ones, which is a womanizer in the family, and children who do not cultivate morality are spurned.

The family believes that concubines are the root cause of cholera, because it is inherently unfair, and no matter how good the child is, he will be unbalanced in his heart, so it is better to pass the adoptive and help the poor orphans and widows.

The children of the Hou Sect don't have this rule, and it is a big sin not to have a son, and they can't wait to pull a room of women to give birth to a son. Doesn't even her father have his own concubine?

After these days of understanding and contact with the Song family, he no longer excludes his daughter from marrying into the big family, maybe marrying into the big family is far better than marrying a high family.

At least the big clan absolutely values the family at all, and does not allow the children to learn crookedly, with these strict rules, Lan'er will be happier in the future.

Zilan scratched her head and thought about it and said: "Oh, then learn, it's always right to learn more skills, mother, don't worry, grandma taught me to study hard, don't be lazy and slippery." ”

She has always been diligent and diligent in learning skills, and will never be opportunistic, which is also her upbringing since childhood.

Yang smiled kindly and gently, "Mother knows, my daughter is the most sensible." The elders praise you for being hardworking, diligent and smart, and my mother doesn't know how much face you have. I'm just worried that you've worked too hard and worry about your future. ”

"Mother, I'm not that weak girl, no matter what the future holds, I believe I can handle it. No matter what kind of situation you encounter, you can be invincible. ”

Zilan thinks that people with the ability will not have a bad time wherever they go.

Seeing her daughter's confident, strong and brave look, her eyes were bright and smart, and she had more confidence, she smiled, "Good mother believes in you." Go take a bath, don't play too late. ”

"Got it."

Zilan went to bathe and swim.

She likes the bathroom that her father built for her the most, she can swim for half an hour every day to exercise, the bath is also very comfortable, the wall of the ear room is also thickened, the house has a dragon is very warm, and the bath in winter is really not cold at all.

After bathing, the wood fragrance and agarwood rubbed the balm for her skin care, and the green silk was finely smeared with hair oil, which played a role in black hair maintenance.

Agarwood and Rue Xiang were waiting on the side, and Hongmei brought her a cup of goat's milk, "Girl, it's time to go to bed after drinking, otherwise you won't be able to get up tomorrow morning." ”

"Hmm, got it."

Zilan drank it with a bang, although it tasted a little, it was good for the body, so even though it was unpleasant, she still had to keep drinking, and she couldn't feel it when she got used to it.

After the hair was dried, Agarwood softly called to Zilan, who was staring in a daze, "Girl, go sleep on the kang." ”

"Oh, good."

Zilan was already comfortably asleep, and asked the girls to put on pajamas and pajamas to sleep on the kang in a daze.

Hongmei couldn't help frowning when she saw Agarwood with her hair scattered, "Comb your hair and braid, don't wear it, get up in the middle of the night and scare the girl, don't go into the house to serve next time." ”

Agarwood was so frightened that she knelt on the ground, "Yes, the slave maid knows that she is wrong, she was serving the young lady just now, and her hair was braided, and the slave didn't mean it." ”

"Spare you this time, there is no next time, you are the same, you are not allowed to wear hair in the middle of the night, whether you are on duty at night or not, otherwise you will be driven out of Yilan Courtyard."

Hongmei scolded a girl in a stern whisper, this is the rule given by Mama Qi, Zilan is still young and easy to be frightened, the maid must be the same when serving the master, that is, she is on duty in the middle of the night or sleeping in the house by herself, and she is not allowed to scatter her hair, and she must braid it.

Imagine what it feels like for a girl to stand at the head of your bed in a white undershirt and trousers in the middle of the night, with her hair scattered, and she is scared to pee.

Zilan heard it, but she didn't pay attention to it, and let Hongmei teach these little girls the rules, but it was not allowed to kick her nose in the face.

Mama Qi carried the warm bucket and placed it under the window, the shallow breeze can keep the warm bucket all night, the water is warm and convenient to drink when you are thirsty at night, and it will not cause charcoal poisoning if you put it under the window.

looked at Zilan and tucked the quilt for her again, and then went out lightly.

Agarwood quietly retreated after being reprimanded, and tonight was Rue Xiang's night duty, sleeping with her.

Zilan thought about whether to mention the two third-class girls again, Agarwood was too clever and smart, and someone needed to suppress her to follow the right path.

Thinking about it, I fell asleep in a daze, and when I woke up, it was already dawn.

Rue woke her up to freshen up and dress, "Is it okay for the girl to wear this red skirt today?" ”

She took a smoked red high-waisted skirt, the gradient color, which looked lively and pretty.

"Well, so be it."

"Yes, do you want to wear a palace flower, the day is getting hotter and hotter."

Rue Xiang took a few beautiful palace flowers on her head and gestured, not yet old can not bring hairpins, but can bring flowers, there are all kinds of palace flowers and grass velvet flowers, all of which are particularly beautiful and exquisite.