Chapter 345 Dealing with people

Shishi took the cup in Zilan's hand, and then made tea, the slow movement made the atmosphere quiet and peaceful quickly, and the incense burner of the wrong Jinrui beast in the corner of the wall was lit with plum blossom fragrance, the taste was light and fragrant, and it was the taste that the girl liked.

There is also a double-sided embroidered landscape screen in yellow rosewood in the house, and the three girls are huddled on the soft couch of the concubine and leaning together to talk intimately, but they have made up a picture of a beauty.

He Xiang thought about it for a while before saying, "Ruyun has a sister-in-law who is not very sensible, and she is a little too pampered, her family is just an ordinary family of four-grade officials, and the background is not so thick."

The sister-in-law is also engaged, a little greedy for money, and feels that Ruyun has a lot of dowry, so she always complains to her mother-in-law and brother, saying that her dowry is less, and she also says that the eldest sister-in-law Ru's mother should help her.

Ruyun's husband is not bad, he didn't pay attention to these, but the mother-in-law loves her daughter, so she hopes that Ruyun will take the initiative to fill in more dowry for her daughter, Ruyun has been repeatedly hinted that she is a little hot in her heart, pretending not to understand, it doesn't matter if it's not good.

The sister-in-law can't get what she wants, and always excuses her to make trouble, and her mother-in-law thinks she is outgoing, relying on herself to be a girl from a big family, a little arrogant and unpleasant, quite complaining, and making trouble is not very pleasant. ”

Zilan put down the dried fruit in her hand, and suddenly felt that there was no taste in her mouth, and her face was not good.

"I remember I asked my mother to send some gifts, but I didn't receive them? Why didn't you say it when you came back? ”

"Received, for those gifts, I made a lot of trouble, the things you gave have always been top-notch, her sister-in-law saw it, she liked it, she didn't want to ask, she took it away without asking, just like the clouds are not there. I didn't know until I came back, but I didn't leave her a little.

Ruyun also lost her temper and rushed to her sister-in-law's house to ask for something, and the two quarreled at that time.

As a result, the master came back, and felt that Ruyun shouldn't beat people, and after a few words, Ruyun was angry, so he asked for something back, rolled up a few things, and ran back to leave.

In the end, it was the grandmother who persuaded the grandfather to take it back, but he also apologized, and the seventh uncle was very unhappy about this and didn't see his brother-in-law. ”

He Xiang 1510 said the reason for the incident.

The things that Zilan gave her sisters were all made by herself, clean and sincere. The same product in the incense shop is very popular, almost every month is out of stock, and the goods are naturally recognized.

"I didn't expect to send a little something and get her into trouble."

Zilan sighed, she didn't know what to say, this eyelid was indeed too shallow, how could she rob it alive.

"It has nothing to do with you, it's because she didn't handle the relationship well, and it has something to do with what her sister-in-law did wrong. Ruyun, big temperament, temper crutch, some things can be done without such handling, sister-in-law just loves to be cheap.

It's okay to give a little benefit and then a little bit of pressure, she just didn't give an inch, which made the situation so unbearable, even her husband felt that she was too cold and hard, why bother. ”

Shishi spoke very objectively, although the sister-in-law and her mother-in-law were not right, but Ruyun didn't handle the relationship well, a little girl is just greedy, is it so difficult to coax, you can't coax a half-old girl who has no heart, who will suffer if you don't suffer.

"If you want to say that it is not easy to be wronged, it is easy to say that Gui Feng and other sisters are easy, the family has a lot of mouths and miscellaneous things, and the seven aunts and eight aunts can talk about people by saying a word.

But I haven't seen any sister who is having a bad time, and every time she comes home, isn't she radiant and happy, it's still a matter of personal means and ability. ”

He Xiang also disagrees with Ruyun's way of doing things.

"That's right, you don't have much contact with her, so I don't know, Ruyun often envy Guifeng and our marriage is good, they are all big families, and people are also educated, as if complaining that her marriage is not ideal."

Shishi made tea and handed a cup to each of her sisters before continuing.

"Always envy others for not looking at their own shortcomings, this is her biggest shortcoming. I don't have to worry about learning things, and now I can't get a good relationship with each other when I go to my husband's house, and I don't know what to do with my mother-in-law and sister-in-law in this house.

Don't talk about others, just talk about you, how hard it has been in those years, which of our housekeepers is a fuel-efficient lamp, but it is much more difficult to deal with than the sister-in-law who is greedy for money and has no knowledge, don't you also let you pick up the obedience, this is a personal ability, you have to recognize.

Don't keep saying unfair things, why can you get good relatives,, we won it ourselves.

Where is the fairness, the gentlemen can still go to the court as officials, why can't we go, where are we worse than the mediocre officials who buy officials, where is the fairness.

It's ridiculous to say unfair things, our family side branch is as new, Ruqing is not also married very well, although it is not as good as our family, but it is also a family with many people, and it is a thriving family.

The master is also down-to-earth and motivated, with a bright future, Ruqing's family is two sisters-in-law, isn't it also very good, how can it be her turn is unfair. ”

"That's right, we don't have any jealousy if you set the Cui family, Sister Gui Feng has set the Wang family, which is also second to none, and no one is blushing, everyone has their own ability.

What's the use of you thinking it's unfair, you have to be able to see that the man's family is willing to set you, it's never a one-sided thing to say that you're married.

You are the person designated by the Cui family, and other girls don't want to look at it, this is a personal ability, what's the use of jealousy, the Wang family picked Sister Guifeng at a glance, what else to say. ”

He Xiang also scoffed at Ruyun's method and attitude towards doing things, saying that it was not fair to say that the relatives were pro, this was a matter of mutual choice between the two parties.

The man also looks at the woman, the son of the big family can't look down on the little family at all, and when you send it to the eyes, people will laugh at your family for not having a good girl to introduce us.

When I first said that I was pro, my grandfather and grandmother didn't introduce other girls, but Grandpa Cui refused at once, and I specified that I wanted Zilan, I don't have to look at others, what do you do with the second grandfather and others, it's hard to plug it.

Zilan pursed her lips and sighed, "What did grandmother say, it's always a girl from our family, so I can't help but give my head." ”

"I must have given the head, my grandmother went to his house, broke for a long time, and gave her sister-in-law a generous gift, specially apologized to her mother-in-law, and even apologized with a hint of threat, her mother-in-law was also ashamed, this matter will be over, and the sister-in-law will get married next year, and she will not move the dowry."

The poem added.

"Ruyun shouldn't beat her sister-in-law, after all, her mother-in-law is still there, you can let the master talk about it, and talk carefully with her mother-in-law after all, it's not good to spread it, send some small gifts over, the girl is very coaxing, she is young and doesn't have too many eyes."

Zilan considered and spoke, things don't need to be dealt with so extremely, you can be tactful, the mistake has to be shown to the grandfather and mother-in-law first, it's easy to talk if you stand still, and if you beat someone, you will turn reason into ignorance.

After all, the mother-in-law is still dead, and it is not the sister-in-law's turn to teach the sister-in-law a lesson.