Chapter 659
Zilan lived comfortably in Zhuangzi, and Cui Hao Muxiu or had free time to go up to Zhuangzi to see their grandparents.
Playing with Qing'er, letting his granddaughter ride on his neck, or riding a big horse on the ground, it can be said that he is spoiled to the extreme.
"Qing'er will be three years old after the New Year, I want to invite a grandmother to teach her the rules, teaching the child too late will be sinful, teach it early and suffer a lot."
Teaching etiquette rules when children are in the enlightenment stage in all aspects, and subtly infiltrating and changing a person's temperament is the most gentle means, and it will not make children too repulsive and hard.
Otherwise, when the habit is formed and changed, it will be a great hardship.
Cui Hao paused for a moment before remembering this stubble, "Oh, I forgot about this stubble, so you can ask Sister Wan to tell Sister Wan and ask a grandma to come back and teach Qing'er." ”
"Okay."
Zilan moved very quickly, and quickly sent someone to tell Sister Wan, but she didn't expect the prince to know about it, and the old lady in front of the emperor came a few days later.
"Yo! Why are you here, but what does the emperor command? ”
Zilan wondered, she had been ignoring things for many years, and she said that if she put it down, she would never pick it up, and it was time for her to enjoy life.
"Ask the county lord to make an an. The emperor heard that you wanted to invite a grandmother for your granddaughter, so he thought that the old slave was also old, and the emperor was kind and thoughtful, so he let the old slave come, and I licked my face and begged for a bowl of rice. ”
Mama Xu is the emperor's upbringing grandmother, and she is now older, but her health is still good.
"Oops! This is a big face, I'm embarrassed, my family Qing'er is only three years old, you don't dislike it is a blessing. ”
Zilan suddenly closed her mouth happily, the emperor's upbringing is flat, this level is naturally different, no one dares to say that the upbringing is not good.
"You have lifted me, and I am also a slave when I break the sky, and I can teach the eldest granddaughter of the Cui family, which is a little face that the emperor gave me."
"That's a good relationship, but my family Qing'er doesn't have much ambition."
Zilan opened her mouth cautiously, not wanting Qing'er to enter the palace.
"Don't worry, the emperor didn't mention this, he only said that he would find a place for me to retire from, you treat people kindly, let me teach my children well, it is also the blessing of old slaves, and did not say anything else."
Zilan smiled and nodded with a sigh of relief, "That's a good feeling, I will have a lot of peace of mind when you come, I don't ask Qing'er to have any Qingyunzhi, I just want her to be safe and happy." ”
"County Lord, these four words are more difficult than ascending to the sky, an outstanding person like you, didn't you have peace in your early years."
Mama Xu is the emperor's upbringing, and she takes care of her big and small, so she dares to speak like this with a little face.
Zilan didn't blame, but let out a long sigh, "Do I want too much, I always want the children to get it if I can't get it."
You said that I have been working hard for most of my life, and I have escaped death several times, and now I only want the safety and happiness of my children and grandchildren. ”
"That's right. But it's not easy, the old slave didn't mean to pour cold water on you, with the Cui family's family, it is impossible for the little master's marriage to be low. ”
Mama Xu said that she came to support the elderly, so she naturally regarded Qing'er as the master, and she was also happy to come, which is almost what others can't ask for. It's fragrant.
"yes, I know, hey! Let's take one step at a time, I can only hand over all my skills to her, hoping that she can be strong and brave to overcome difficulties in the future. ”
Zilan sighed, there are many restrictions in this era, there is not much she can do, she can only start from herself, she has the ability to have a strong and tenacious character, so she can survive no matter what difficulties she faces in the future.
"You're right."
"Help me take care of Qing'er, your good is indispensable."
Zilan smiled and told Mama Xu.
"Thank you, Lord for hanging the curtain."
Mama Xu bent down to thank you.
Mama Xu came to play with Qing'er, you have to cultivate feelings before you can teach skills, the child is too young, if you don't kiss her, you won't listen to you at all.
Mama Xu has taught the child, naturally she has some ability, and it doesn't take a few days to subdue Qing'er, all kinds of things, and a belly of interesting stories, Qing'er revolves around her, and sweetly calls her Grandma Xu.
changed Mama Xu's heart, but she still had to correct her title and change it to Mama Xu, otherwise it would be disrespectful to the master.
With Mama Xu's teaching, Qing'er has to take some time out every day to learn etiquette, starting with eating, sitting, and standing.
Temperament is not cultivated overnight, it takes time to infiltrate.
Zilan pondered that she wanted to find someone to observe and observe, and went back to Qing'er to ask for an enlightened master, she is currently a small child at home, and the Cui family school teaches all the children after enlightenment, this will not be.
I wanted Cui Hao to teach, but he was also busy, Brother Lu was even busier, and he had to take care of the clan affairs.
There's no way to find out first, so let's teach it for the time being.
She thought in her heart to find a famous master to come in and teach, it was better to be older, have experienced the world, and the experience of practicing is different, teaching children without too much utilitarianism, and having a peaceful mentality, such a person is suitable for children, especially Qing'er is a girl.
Zilan took the child to live in Zhuangzi until it was not too hot in August, and then returned home with the child.
At the same time, I heard that the chief of the academy on the road had retired, and he had found a successor to take over the position of the dean, and went home to retire.
She personally brought gifts, visited three times, and finally invited people back to teach Qing'er enlightenment.
The people in the capital smacked their tongues, does this really love their granddaughter, or do they expect her to have Qingyunzhi?
Probably only those who understand Zilan understand that she just wants to find a good master to teach her granddaughter.
Even the Yang family was a little incredulous, inviting such a big man just to enlighten his granddaughter? Isn't that overkill?
But people are grandmothers, what's wrong with hurting children, the Yang family only has gratitude, how dare they say more, and also told their daughter Yang Wen, don't make your own decisions about Qing'er, you must ask your mother-in-law, she really loves Qing'er.
Yang Wen was pregnant, and Zilan took over the clan affairs and asked her to concentrate on raising the baby.
also looks forward to this child being a son, not that she is patriarchal, but that Qing'er is not protected by her own brother, and it is inevitable that she will fall into a layer in the future.
The mountain chief has been teaching all his life, this level is not comparable to Zilan, teaching Qing'er is simply holding a handle, Qing'er has experienced the joy of reading in learning and entertainment.
The reason why the mountain chief can come is also very simple, a little selfish for the sake of his grandson's future, I hope Zilan can give it a hand.
The second is that he is idle and has nothing to do, his children are old, he doesn't need to worry about it, and he doesn't have enough energy to continue to be the dean.
But it's not boring to be idle, it's still okay to teach a little girl, and there is no strife and intrigue, and it's nice to have cute and innocent children with you.