Chapter 736: A Mature and Steady Pot
"It's not a matter of whether you fall in love or not, the main thing is that the other party is too young, and he is still a child, what kind of love is it with me. If he doesn't fall in love, he is still my most powerful friend at work. But when it comes to falling in love, I'm afraid that in the end I will lose even this work partner. Lan Xin, I'm different from you, after all, you haven't been married or experienced married life. Moreover, you and Qian Yusen, you have a deep relationship with each other, and you have been together for so many years and know each other. Whether it is in life or emotionally, it has been 10 minutes of running-in. I'm different here.,Because it's not a relationship that can be casually in love.,So you can't fall in love casually.γ β
Luo Zijia also has his own difficulties, even for so long. has always been pursued very seriously, but he doesn't dare to talk about this love easily, for him, the meaning of this love is completely different from what it contains. has such a good subordinate, he doesn't want to lose it, if he loses this subordinate, Luo Zijia will also feel pity.
It's not that there are no other people in the company, but other people can't do that well at all.
When Jiang Yingyue heard this, she understood more or less. Although he hadn't seen that person yet, what he looked like, and he didn't know much about character or anything like that. However, it should be good to make Luo Zijia trust his work ability so much.
"Senior sister. I think you might as well listen to Sister Xin's try. Whether this kind of thing is suitable or not, you still have to experience it yourself to be more convincing. Besides, you've been empty for so long, do you want to stay single? Senior Brother Lu has a new love in his arms, but people have never thought of turning back, so you might as well dispel the idea and start a new life. β
"Oh, look at what you said, I don't have any thoughts about Lu Zifeng at all, I've already thought it through. and Lu Zhifeng, they can't be husband and wife anymore, if they can, it's better to meet and be friends. β
For the last relationship and marriage, Luo Zijia really saw it clearly. I've already let it go, what else can I get if I continue to struggle? Can it make Lu Zifeng change his mind? No. And now he doesn't want Lu Zifeng to turn back. Now that they are all divorced and have lost enough people, there is really no need to turn back now. Turning back is not a good thing for them, and maybe another disaster. Life is so short, how much time can be wasted on these disasters?
"Who said Lu Zifeng? Aren't we talking about this Luo Feng now? β
Lan Xin pulled the topic back again, no one can go off topic if they want to, and now they are talking about this serious topic.
"Gee, does he have anything to talk about? Now for me, he is just an employee of the company, and he is a subordinate of mine, so I never thought of falling in love with him. β
Luo Zijia was also very distressed, the other party almost had an attitude of chasing after her, but she had no way to respond, on the one hand, she felt that it was inappropriate, after all, the age gap between you and herself could not be crossed over the past gap there. On the other hand, he also felt that perhaps for himself, he needed a mature and stable man to join his life. In this regard, Luo Feng has no advantage.
"Didn't you really want to be with him? The last time I went to pick you up for dinner, I saw with my own eyes that you accepted the roses he gave me. β
Lan Xin directly exposed the old bottom, and there was no way to see it with his own eyes, and he couldn't deny it.
Luo Zijia was also depressed, and he didn't know what to say.
"Yes, yes, I did accept the roses, which cannot be denied. But there is a reason for receiving this bouquet of flowers, isn't that Women's Day, Luo Feng bought a lot of them and gave a bouquet to all the female compatriots in the company. You say that the roses in this case, if I refuse, what will it be? After all, other female colleagues have accepted it, and if I don't accept it alone, wouldn't it seem too special? I didn't want to be that special being, so I accepted it. β
"Oh, it's Women's Day, a special gift. How can this seem like an ordinary gift to you? In my opinion, this is a well-intentioned, long-planned job, and even did not hesitate to buy flowers for other female colleagues for you. If you were willing to honestly accept his roses, would he still give them to the female colleagues in the company, and no one would buy a bouquet? And I also bought that kind of red rose. The kind of words that look like an expression of love are too obvious. Hey, Lao Luo, what can you do? Even this kind of thing, you have to pretend to be stupid, this is too disappointing to others. β
"It's just a guess on your part, not necessarily the truth."
Luo Zijia was actually a little weak when he said this, after all, he was able to understand Luo Feng's good intentions for him.
When Jiang Yingyue heard this, she laughed suddenly.
"Senior sister, you are usually so smart, and you can be regarded as a person from the past, so you don't know anything about this kind of thing. Since one is to send flowers through the festival, and the other is to accept this bouquet of special meaning through the festival, it has reached this point, so it is better to just be together. Why waste time and let each other suffer? β
After listening to those words, Jiang Yingyue can be regarded as grasping the key point.
Luo Zijia's face turned red suddenly, and he was a little embarrassed.
"I'm really much older than her, so what's the use of liking it, what's the use of liking it? Other people also have families and parents, what will the parents of other people's families think and think? It's not a young girl who has just come out of society, I also have to take into account these problems, rather than being troubled and anxious by these things later, it's better to consider these problems as early as possible now, and avoid these problems from happening, isn't it better? β
After all, she has already experienced a marriage, and after all, she is no longer a young little girl. As a mature adult, Luo Zhijia feels that these problems must be taken into account. With these issues in mind, it is also possible to avoid future troubles as much as possible. Otherwise, when the time comes, Luo Feng's family will run out to accuse him and hate him. But he had to passively bear everything, and he didn't want to get to that point, so now he had to control his emotions.
"Senior sister, no one can take one step to complete the next 10 steps, the problems you may consider will naturally become a problem, but it may not become a problem. It was his parents who were open-minded and let him make his own decisions emotionally. Or what do you do if they support you? Do you have to give up the happiness that should belong to you at this time? β
Jiang Yingyue's words have to be said to have moved Luo Zijia very much.
He's been single for a while, can he not crave love? He not only longs for love, but also longs for a happy family, for single people, there is no doubt that Luo Zijia is timid.
It's not that he doesn't love or dislike, and it's not that he hasn't been moved by Luo Feng, but because he has experienced everything, so he is even more afraid, and he is no longer a young girl who can accept it, but he can't lose it calmly.
"Yes, your words are very appealing to me. But there are so many joys in life, there are always too many. Hardship is not something we can get by easily. β
Luo Zijia said helplessly.
After eating lunch, Luo Zijia's mood was heavy.
It's about love, about what he's met so far. has made him not know what to do, on the one hand, there is also a strong desire to pull him to accept that relationship, on the other hand, he also takes into account various practical problems. He didn't feel that his current state could defeat all practical problems, and he was desperate to fall in love with Luo Feng.
It is precisely because of maturity and stability that I am more considerate about this aspect of things.
Sometimes he feels that being a mature woman is a kind of beauty. But at this time, he also felt mature, which was really an annoying thing, and if he was a little more naΓ―ve, maybe he wouldn't have to think about it so much.
On the way back, Lan Xin and Jiang Yingyue couldn't help but discuss this matter.
"Have you seen Luo Feng?"
Jiang Yingyue has been at home during this time, but she has never seen this person, but she thinks that Lan Xin should have seen it. Luo Zijia's consulting company and law firm are also very close, and Lan Xin should have seen it.
Lan Xin drove the car and said, "Of course I've seen people, and they look very good." Tall and handsome, and humble and gentlemanly and courteous. I think it's a good choice out of 10, and if I can be with her, I shouldn't be too sad in the future. But the problem now is that it's a sure thing that people like him, and I can see some signs that he likes others. But he didn't want to accept me, and he never broke it, and he didn't agree, so it's a matter of dragging it out like this. β
"So that's the case, it's rare to meet such a good marriage, he should hurry up. However, the problems he considered were indeed real, and he couldn't completely ignore them and ignore them, after all, if they were really together in the future, the senior sister would also need to get along with the man's parents, which would be a problem. She was right, but it was a pity. If there's a better option, no problem. I'm not in a hurry, at this time and a half. β
"What's a better option? Now it's a matter of choice? Now she's in love with someone else, okay? That boy was really good, and it was to be expected that he would be able to take a fancy to others. The problem is that he likes it, but he doesn't accept it. Even if there was a better choice, would it be better than if he liked this one? β
"Has it all come to this point? If it has come to this point, then why bother twisting and pinching, just be together. β
Jiang Yingyue also felt that Luo Zijia was really thinking too much, it was already this situation, and if they were together, it would be okay for everyone to face other issues together.
"Alright, we're just outsiders, just watch. No matter how much you persuade her, you can't change his mind, and you know that he is very stubborn. Fate is something he can't run away, and if it's not his, he can't force it, so let's worry a little less and let them think for themselves. β
Jiang Yingyue smiled, but too.
This kind of thing, after all, is like a person who drinks water and knows it. It also has to be Luo Zijia himself to know whether there is a way between them to go on. No matter how much others say, it's useless.