After listening to Mingzhu's words, everyone began to have some vague ideas in their hearts. Jiang Bowen couldn't help but say: "But in this way, aren't we people who specialize in taking children to play?" ”

Mingzhu clapped his hands: "Yes, you are right now." We're the ones who specialize in bringing kids to play! But it's not just about playing, otherwise I'd just let the maids go? Why bother to set up a kindergarten with great fanfare, and invite excellent Guozijian students like you?

Remember the first question of your written exam? Some of those six words are right for you, but some of them are not completely correct.

First of all, "caring" and "protecting" are very clear, that is, caring for their lives, emotions, and diet. Protect their health and keep them safe. These are relatively simple, and everyone can basically answer them correctly. Let's talk about the remaining four.

One is "believing", sometimes you see a child doing something wrong, but when you ask, he says no. Usually everyone thinks that the child is dishonest and then stops believing in him. But actually, the first thing you have to do is to find out if there is really something hidden in this matter. If not, you have to believe that this child is not trying to deceive you. It's that he himself knows that he has done something wrong, and when he says he didn't, he actually means that he wishes he didn't. At this time, you have to understand what he did wrong and why he was wrong. And to prevent him from avoiding his mistakes, and to make it clear that he can redeem or compensate for his mistakes. When something else happens in the future, you can't judge right or wrong based on what has happened before. Mingzhu paused after finishing speaking, giving everyone a time to digest.

And it does take time for everyone to digest, because there are a lot of contradictions between these and what they have experienced before. But when I think about it, I feel surprisingly convincing.

After a while, Mingzhu spoke again: "Then there is 'understanding', for children, many people think, "What do children understand?" In fact, three-year-olds know a lot more than you think. For example, a child gets his clothes dirty. It's certainly rude, but if you ask him closely, you'll probably know that he inadvertently got dirty because he wanted to do something for his elders. At this time, it is necessary to pay attention to how good the child's starting point is to do something, rather than whether the result is really perfect. ”

When they heard this, the other eight people all had "I see" expressions. If it weren't for the fear of missing Princess Mingzhu's teaching, I am afraid that I would have gotten up immediately to find a paper to record it.

Then there's "respect", because children are still very young, so they often do things that seem ridiculous to adults. It is not uncommon for people to make fun of them in person, but of course, this situation is just funny and amusing to children. But often for children, this kind of teasing can seriously hurt their self-esteem. He is likely to have a lot of negative changes because of your teasing. For example, the rebellious mentality says, "Don't you think that's funny? Then I'll make you laugh enough!"; or will have low self-esteem or even autism, and will not talk to others from then on; Or revenge, maybe his revenge is also ridiculous, but after it appears, it is actually very serious in itself. When Mingzhu said this, he unconsciously became much more serious.

The few people who listened couldn't help but look solemn.

In fact, not only children, but even adults, are often in an unrespected living environment, and in the end, there will be various psychological imbalances. It's just that some people can self-regulate, while others can't; Some people can be warmed by others, while others can only sink in the cold. Those who can't be adjusted and finally sink......

Mingzhu retracted some unpleasant thoughts and continued to explain her words: "The last word is 'equality,' but this word is often the most overlooked. Let's recall, when you were young, did you often have some little secrets with your friends that you couldn't tell adults?! ”

As soon as this question came out, everyone in the classroom had some smiles on their faces reminiscing about the past.

Mingzhu is the same: "Of course, out of "respect", if these little secrets are not necessary, we better not ask them. However, if we usually communicate with them, we can squat down and gently look at each other face to face with the children. When you speak, don't be condescending. Well, maybe next time they will be willing to share their little secrets with you quietly. And what you say, they are willing to listen carefully. Just like when you listen carefully to what they say.

That's all, think about it first, and have a cup of tea. It is said that the period from the age of three to the age of three is the key to determining the character of children throughout their lives. I want you to understand the weight of your responsibilities.

In a little while, we'll need to talk about the admissions charter, and you'll have to give your opinion, which is a priority. As for the specific work, we can just run in slowly in practice. Okay, let's disperse first. ”

After saying that, Mingzhu got up and went out and walked to the pantry next door to the classroom. After arranging some more snacks for the people in the classroom, I went to the storage room in the previous room......

Waiting for Mingzhu to go out, the eight people quickly found a pen and paper, picked up each other's missing pieces, and began to record the key points that Mingzhu just said.

Xueba is a Xueba after all, and soon recalled everything almost word for word. After waiting for a copy, Tong Siyuan sighed and said, "I thought it was just a simple way to take the child and enlighten the child." I didn't expect there to be so much knowledge in it. ”

Zhang Fengfeng, who loves to talk and laugh, felt pressure with a sad face at this time: "Yes, being told by Her Royal Highness the Princess, I am really worried about whether I can do a good job." If you do something wrong and teach the child crookedly, this sin is really big! ”

The most transparent is Shao Qi: "I think it's good if we do our best, who isn't the first time?" Think of it this way, if there is no kindergarten, those children are definitely more likely to grow crooked than in kindergarten! After all, the examples that Her Royal Highness just gave are really common in life. ”

Tong Siyuan nodded hurriedly: "Yes, yes, I am in the teahouse, and I often listen to those people who are often the Li family's short, making fun of children, and making fun of children's things as jokes, almost every day." ”

Shao Qi continued: "That's it! Therefore, this kindergarten sponsored by Mingzhu Gong is really good for children, if only I could study in such a kindergarten when I was a child. ”

These words made everyone present express their deep feelings.