087 Hard

At lunch, Mingzhu counted: "You, who are an uncle, are the same as her father, and you know how to get used to it all day long!" If you can't get married in the future, you will have to worry to death! ”

Nan Zhao took a bite of food and had a drink with Wei Ci. Very disapproving: "If our daughter is still worried about getting married, there is nothing in the world that can be married." ”

Mingzhu felt right when she heard it, but she thought that she still couldn't be too indulgent: "Okay, it depends on whether you plan to let her marry someone in the future, or blame others." Anyway, if my Gillian doesn't have a good time in the future, I can't rely on you, uncle?! ”

"Blame someone?" As soon as Nan Zhao heard this, he knew the crux of Mingzhu's anxiety recently. Then he said: "Mingzhu, Gillian is only two years old, and you will start to worry about her future life after marriage." People have a long life, so you can't keep worrying? Days are out? He turned his head and faced Wei Ci again: "Ah Ci, you can also bear her like this?!" ”

Wei Ci glanced at his wife, thinking about her recent mood swings. gave her a comforting and affirming look: "Mingzhu is very good." It's just that the children have been a little naughty recently, and she has to be busy with the house, so she began to get used to saying a few more words. Everyone in the family is spoiling the children, but fortunately, she can take care of it. Actually, Mingzhu is very hard. ”

Swallowing an inexplicable sourness, Mingzhu blinked vigorously and his eyes were a little red.

Since the baby was one year old, Mingzhu began to take charge of the house. Even with Mama Li on the side, the original ease of use still disappeared all at once. Although she is not the wife of a big family, speaking of which, the masters of the Zhenguo Mansion include two small ones, and there are only six people.

But there's a lot of business! First of all, there are more than 100 subordinates in the house and the big and small affairs in the house, and then there are various industries in the public middle school and dowry.

These are nothing, what makes her Muggle the most is human contact! This pair of her, who is accustomed to the weak affection between people in her previous life, is simply hellish difficulty! You must know that in her previous life, she didn't even handle a simple mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, and her emotional intelligence was actually average.

And in this era, we pay special attention to the sophistication of human feelings, and the courtesy is still exchanged! Just a simple gift in return made Mingzhu learn for several months. There are too many things to consider when returning a gift, such as: the reason for the other party's gift, the situation of the two parties in the past, the recent changes in the relationship between the two families, what secrets and taboos the other party has, and the change of the other party's position and identity......

Even though Mingzhu has studied very seriously, she still makes several mistakes.

For example, there is a distant relative in the Zhenguo Mansion, and it is said that the relationship between the two parties is also very frequent. When he received his family's New Year's gift, Mingzhu found that although the other party's gift was very simple, it was very attentive. I thought about helping the other party in the return gift, so I prepared some delicate, beautiful and practical gold and silver bills as a return gift.

As a result, at the beginning of the year, the other party did not come to the house to pay New Year's greetings, and he no longer interacted.

Later, Mama Li told her that although the relatives were poor, they were hard-boned. The return gift is too heavy, so I am embarrassed to cling to it. For this reason, Mrs. Tai was alarmed, and she personally sent someone to invite someone to her house, and made up a lame excuse for someone to give the wrong gift, and then she went back.

Mingzhu doesn't understand it, does it feel like it's a bit hypocritical? But there is no way, people think that this is normal.

Of course, there are those who have this kind of hard mind, and there will be a few who like to take advantage of the autumn breeze.

For this kind of person, Mingzhu was directly driven out. As a result, he did something wrong again inexplicably, so that Mrs. Tai stuffed some more silver. Mingzhu was angry, and Mrs. Tai told her that although this person was hateful, he was of high rank. People are too old and do whatever they want. Anyway, I can't come a few times a year, and it's not that I can't afford it. Why do you want to do something that has a bad reputation?

......

The list goes on and on. I can't complain to anyone, after all, most of the noble girls around me are like this after they get married. Look at my cousin Su Yuling, a large family of dozens of people, all of them have to be handled by her. As a clan wife, she has to deal with a lot of clan affairs. Wouldn't she be able to live comfortably too? Compared with this, Mingzhu's busyness is really the same as playing at home.

Therefore, Mingzhu is becoming more and more bored, and every time she sees Gillian's carefree and naughty mischief, she will have a sense of anxiety that "Gillian will face these things after all, and if you don't prepare well now, I'm afraid you will suffer in the future". Probably similar to the feeling of not wanting your child to lose at the starting line.

Thinking of these, Mingzhu was extremely grateful to his wife and brother. If they hadn't chosen such a good husband for their predecessor, she probably didn't know what to do at this time. (I forgot that she could just let it go as long as she wanted, and who could force her?) It's just that I have a stumbling block now. At this time, after listening to the conversation between Nan Zhao and Wei Ci, Mingzhu realized that his emotions still worried the people around him after all.

hugged Gillian to his knees and said, "Okay, it's my mother who thinks too much, so you can get used to it in the future." Gillian giggled. Mingzhu glanced at Wei Ci embarrassedly, he was the one who had suffered the most from his emotions recently.

Wei Ci received her apology, looked at her dotingly and smiled, and put a piece of her favorite cabbage into her bowl.

The Queen Mother had a good appetite and let her serve a bowl of rice.

Emperor Nanzhao was just bored with a lemon.

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After lunch, Gillian and Po took a nap. The Mingzhu family took their leave.

Out of the palace gate, the carriage did not return to the house, but drove to Mingzhu's maternal grandfather's house, the Wenguo Mansion.

Generally, the Venerable Master's house goes to the New Year in the morning, and if it is delayed until the afternoon, it is a kind of neglect. Of course, between close relatives who have deep affection and frequent contacts, there is naturally no need to talk about these false courtesies. The two-compartment poop (bìan) is appropriate.

When he arrived at the gate of the Wenguo Mansion, he put Gillian and Bao down, and before she could be reported, Gillian ran inside with a familiar car.

"Taigong! Wife! It's comingβ€”"

When the group arrived at the main courtyard, there was already a large crowd of people inside.

"Grandson-in-law/Mingzhu gives New Year's greetings to my grandfather and grandmother, and wishes the second elder a long and healthy life."

Gillian and Bao also remembered to confess at this time, and quickly climbed down from the knees of the grandparents. According to the rehearsal, he began to kneel and salute: "Gillian / Bao to the grandparents, uncles and aunts, uncles and aunts to pay New Year's greetings." ”

In order to remember the words of Cining Palace and the current New Year's greetings, the two little babies spent several days. It's all running out at this point.

Lao Wenguo stroked his beard and laughed with his wife: "Good, all good, come to the prince to give you red envelopes." ”

After a lively greeting, everyone began to chat.

Mingzhu smiled at her cousin-in-law Qin Huaiyu on the side: "Why don't you play more at your mother's house today?" This is a rare opportunity to be lazy. ”