Someone else's child
Someone else's child. This is a puzzle that has been surrounded since childhood, why do your parents always like to say how good other people's children are, you have to learn such words from him?
I remember a time when I was a good friend in the Gang of Five who played with me. Once her grandmother said that she could learn who and who, she was angry at the time, and yelled directly: It's useless for you to like her so much, she can't be your child, then you go and cook for her to support her, you don't have this blessing, I am your granddaughter!
I still remember this very clearly, because I think what my friend said made a lot of sense. But despite this, we were greeted by just another comparison.
In elementary school, what is excellent? The teacher remembered her name, and many parents knew about her existence when they held parent-teacher conferences, and they were the first or top three in every exam.
。。。。。 None of this has anything to do with me, but that person has something to do with me. She was the president of our class, and we met in the old school district, and she was a veritable child of someone else's family.
I've been to her grandfather's house, I've been to her grandmother's house, and we've been out of school together a lot, and when we've been in elementary school, we've been in a group.
But it's not just the two of us, there's one of the Gang of Five that I hate right now. Maybe at that time I should have chosen to stay away from that person, alas.
。。。。。 Forget it, let's talk about this top student. Her name is also very good, her surname is Zhang, and her name is Shi.
Before she told me how to write my name, I always thought it was Si of Love. Later, after I found out that it was not, I felt that this name was too literate.
Sure enough, her grades were not ordinary, and he was the class leader later. One thing I remember very well is that there was a weekend holiday, and we were walking on the road as usual, it must have been spring, because I remember walking and walking we saw the black lumps in the fields, and when we got closer, we saw that it was tadpoles.
We stopped there to take a closer look at the little tadpoles that swam around freely, were they looking for their mother, these tadpoles all looked exactly the same, would their mother still know them?
We didn't know any of these doubts, because we seemed to have ruined the little tadpole's wish to find its mother, and we packed the tadpole in a bottle and brought it home.
On the way, the squad leader said, "Why don't we build a big pond like adults raising fish in the future?"
I wondered, "Are you going to raise fish in the future?" ”
"No, let's build a pond to raise tadpoles, and when they grow up, they will jump out to protect the fields, frogs are not beneficial insects." I also forgot what the expression was at that time, confused?
Glad? Envy? But I definitely think it's a cool idea, but now I'm like, "What do tadpoles eat?" Are they also all they need to have water? Don't need to drink your mother's milk? "Hahahaha, am I still stupid, the same as before.
At that time, we seemed to be holding hands together and saying, "Okay, let's build three pools" (because it happened to be the time when the three of us were walking together).
Now you must think that although we haven't built three pools, we should have a good relationship. Hahahaha, no, then junior high school was in the same class with the person I hated, and the class president went to the best class.
And then I don't know why, I started to say hello when we met, but then I acted like I didn't know each other, or I chose to avoid it, which has something to do with what I experienced in junior high school, alas.
If someone asks me if I regret it, how do I answer? It's a pity, it doesn't seem to be, because she was still very good later, but I didn't seem to be bad, and later she was also the motivation for me to strive for.
We are in the same school in junior high school and high school, and every time I take the big exam in high school, I will work hard in her direction, not because of jealousy, but because she is someone else's child that I have envied since I was a child.
Don't worry, you may also be a very good and sensible baby in the eyes of others. If you have a very good person to be your friend, don't feel inferior, don't be jealous, you have to take her as your role model, and it is a beautiful thing to work hard with a good friend.
Because together you will go further, you will be stronger together!