Chapter 497: Old Things in Beijing
Gu Jinghuai said: "What kind of washing powder, isn't it just to see the truth in adversity, I understand what you mean, but you don't have to work so hard, if you don't want to take care of them, you don't have to take care of them, do I still rely on you to be promoted as a woman?" ”
He spoiled Shen Yuerong so much, letting her do what she wanted, but Shen Yuerong still wronged herself to deal with those people for her, Gu Jinghuai couldn't bear it, how many people are worthy of being friends with her.
Shen Yuerong swooped: "What's wrong with relying on me to get promoted?" It's not like I also rely on you to buy mountains to make money, husband and wife are one, I can rely on you, you can naturally rely on me, don't talk about me with that old thinking. ”
"Besides, if you see that none of the noble ladies and ladies in Qingzhou come out to socialize for the sake of the family's business, I don't believe that the women in Beijing don't need to participate in the revitalization of the family, and they eat fragrant and spicy food at home every day."
Shen Yuerong understood it, so she said Mrs. Yu, although most of the topics they talked about were the parents of their daughter's family, it was also the first step to build a good relationship, and then it was temptation, cooperation, and communication, which was not easier than the men in the shopping mall, and Li Rou was not the only one who went directly to inquire about the news, and they were all responsible.
Gu Jinghuai didn't refute, the situation in Beijing is much more complicated than here, Shen Wan is only a small soldier, and Li Rou is a young general at best, a powerful woman in Beijing, but she can kill people invisibly, sometimes she doesn't even know how to offend, and she has become a ghost under the knife.
He couldn't help but think of some of the past.
"Do you want to know why I don't pay attention to it at home?" Gu Jinghuai asked.
Shen Yuerong turned his head suddenly, but it was strange that Gu Jinghuai would take the initiative to talk about this issue, Shen Yuerong had always avoided it, for fear of making Gu Jinghuai sad, and Gu Jinghuai had never taken the initiative to talk about some things in the Hou Mansion.
"If you want to say that, I'll want to know."
Gu Jinghuai nodded and fell into deep thought: "My father and mother were originally very affectionate, especially after giving birth to my eldest brother, they had a better relationship, and my grandfather and grandmother were also very happy, but since I was born, it has changed, my grandmother wants a granddaughter, but my mother has caused irreversible damage because of giving birth to me, and she can't continue to give birth." ”
"In this way, my grandmother forced my father to take a concubine, and my aunt really gave birth to a sister, and my grandmother's concern for my sister was seen by my mother, so she had a dislike for my grandmother, and finally the relationship with my father deteriorated, and these ultimatums turned into hatred for me, so I ......"
Shen Yuerong hugged Gu Jinghuai's waist tightly, very distressed, she didn't expect Gu Jinghuai's life experience to be much more difficult than she imagined, she always thought that it was major and small at best, but she didn't expect it to be like this.
It's no wonder that he was always so cold before, growing up in such an environment, and being as enthusiastic as fire is the ghost.
"Okay, let's not talk about it, it's all over, as long as we live well in the future, we will treat them well when we have children in a few years, and we will never let them receive any unfair treatment."
Gu Jinghuai smiled slightly. Touching Shen Yuerong's hair: "It's okay, it's all over, now with you, it's just a story to talk about, do you know why grandmother has to have a granddaughter?" ”
Shen Yuerong shook her head, patriarchy is so serious in this era, don't they all want men? Why is it still a preference for women over men?
Gu Jinghuai scratched Shen Yuerong's nose: "As you just said, women in Beijing naturally want to socialize and contribute to the revitalization of the family, and as a man, it is difficult to match a wife with a stronger in-laws than their own family, but women are different, if a woman is beautiful and has good conduct, she will naturally be able to marry into a higher level, or even enter the palace, and then the power in the family will be different." ”
Shen Yuerong thought about it, it seemed that this was really the truth, Yao Xuan could marry Yu Xiang, and the people of Yu Mansion would agree to this family business, if Yu Xiang looked at what kind of broken family, even if he wanted to marry, he was afraid that the people in Yu Mansion would not easily agree.
In addition to the emotional factor of Yu Xiang's marriage to the Yao family, the Yao family will naturally not ignore the business of the father-in-law and the eldest brother in the future, and further on, when Yu Xiang really becomes the head of the house, then the nephews and nieces of his mother's family will inevitably have to bother to promote one or two, for Yu Fu, there is indeed no harm.
And Li Rou is dissatisfied with her family affairs, but she is afraid that it is because she is unwilling to marry, and these are only businessmen, if she goes to the official eunuch's house, she is afraid that it will be more serious, and the battle in the court is life and death in an instant, but it is much more serious than the shopping mall.
It's no wonder that when you have a son, you still want a daughter, just to make your power bigger and stand more stable in the court.
Shen Yuerong nodded: "Speaking of which, the women of this rich and noble family are not as free as those in the countryside, especially after getting married, the surname of the husband, no matter how much she does, she will make a wedding dress for a man, and in the end, let alone leave a name, it is difficult to leave a surname." ”
In this era of male superiority and inferiority, most women have become tools or victims, and the great thing is to live a life without food and clothing, and it is basically impossible to do anything.
Gu Jinghuai was not surprised that Shen Yuerong had this kind of emotion, after all, he had heard of the world where men and women were equal.
"What? Do you want to leave a name or a surname? Do you want me to give you your last name? ”
Shen Yuerong snorted: "You give me my surname, then I will have to call you Shen Zhifu in the future, hahaha, don't worry, when I make more money and become famous all over the country, when people mention me, they will not say that I am Gu Jinghuai's wife, but that you Gu Jinghuai are my husband Shen Yuerong." ”
Shen Yuerong is really afraid that Gu Jinghuai is not joking, won't Gu Jinghuai be poked in the backbone when the time comes, although Shen Yuerong is dissatisfied with this kind of thinking of male superiority and inferiority, but he will definitely not embarrass his husband, this is the inevitability of the society he is in now, and it is not his fault.
Gu Jinghuai couldn't help but laugh when he looked at his wife's ambitious appearance: "Okay, I'll just wait for this day to come, and then I'll wash my hands and make soup, so that you can go ahead and make money to support your family." ”
"Forget it, can you eat soup soup? Don't make a lot of money, and then be poisoned by you. ”
"What did you say?"
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The heavy topic finally ended in the frolic between the two.
On this day, Shen Yuerong teased Xiao Lu in Hua Rongyue's appearance, Xiao Lu is becoming more and more cute, and her round body is very pleasing.
"Young lady, it's not good, the makeup that several young ladies set before now say that they want to be returned." A little lady came very worried, she is an old employee, she has always been looking at the moon, the reputation of the flower is so good, this is the first time that someone wants to return.