Section 525 Three-year-old looks old
The person in charge of the supermarket smiled politely when he saw that the woman was playing tricks again.
"Madam, our employee is at fault for leaving her post without permission, and it is wrong to speak loudly to customers, so the supermarket gives her a ticket. She has been duly punished. But are you not wrong per se? Is there nothing wrong with your child? ”
The person in charge of the supermarket paused for a few seconds and said: "Now even a baby about a year old knows the things in the supermarket, and you can't open the package without paying, doesn't your child understand?" If he doesn't understand, it's not your fault. ”
The woman waved her hand and said arrogantly: "Don't tell me that those are useless, my child is at fault, it's not a reason for her to intimidate my child, today she must apologize, and your supermarket must also fire her." Otherwise, I wouldn't have given up. ”
The waiter saw that the woman was so arrogant, and said coldly: "Manager, I apologize for causing trouble to the supermarket, you don't have to be embarrassed, I resign myself, but I want me to apologize for this kind of thing, get out of your way." ”
"Hey, look, look at it, the quality of this supermarket waiter must be poor, not only talking loudly, but also swearing. People like you don't want to find a satisfying job anywhere. The woman yelled as she craned her neck.
Among the onlookers, an old man said: "Okay, you have to be merciful and forgiving, what do you want to do if they have been fined, and this matter is obviously that you have not taken care of the child." ”
At this time, everyone's eyes were focused on the old man, and they felt that what the old man said was very reasonable.
When the woman saw that everyone thought that what the old man said was right, she retorted unhappily: "A handful of old people, what do you care?" ”
Among the onlookers, a seventeen or eighteen-year-old boy said in disgust: "Then what do you let everyone see, do you see how ugly you are?" ”
"Who's ugly, you say again?" The woman pointed at the boy, who looked fierce and vicious, and was indeed ugly.
"Whoever answers, he will say whomever he answers." The boy rolled his eyes in disdain.
"You little brute, believe it or not, I'll kill you." The woman's face was hideous, and her fingers pointed at the boy very uncivilized.
The boy frowned and said angrily: "If you point at me so uncivilized, and your mouth is not clean, I will sue you for intimidation and slander me." Everyone heard it, and she cursed and threatened to beat me to death. ”
The woman didn't expect such a young man to be so bloody, and her face was constipated in shock.
Then among the onlookers, someone said: "If this child were my child, I would have gone up with a big mouth, and there are no basic rules." ”
The woman glared at the person who spoke, and said angrily: "Even if my child is at fault, I have education, and I don't need others to meddle in their affairs." ”
The boy who spoke before had a feeling of collapse, and said with disgust: "It's just quite unreasonable, and it's not a little ugly." The mouth grows on other people's faces, and it is not your turn to care what people want to say. ”
The decibel of the woman's voice suddenly increased N times: "It's not okay to yell at my child." My child is still so young, if something is scared out of something, who is responsible, you? ”
The boy's face was black, and his expression was very unnatural, what kind of thing did he say, 'Only the governor is allowed to set fires, and the people are not allowed to light lamps'?
The old man who spoke before said lightly: "Since you don't want to be cleaned up by others, then educate yourself, otherwise, one day someone will replace you as a mother to educate him." Just like the prisoners in the prison, they certainly didn't go to prison voluntarily, nor did they say that their parents would educate themselves and then be released. ”
Among the onlookers, someone said: "What this uncle said makes sense, instead of shouting here about who to deal with, it is better to lose money quickly, and then go back to educate the children well." There is still a long way for children to go in the future, don't be ruined by your arrogance and unreasonableness. ”
The woman yelled unhappily: "I want you to be nosy." ”
The speaker sneered disdainfully, but did not speak.
Seeing this, Chen Liangliang suddenly lost interest, and after simply selecting the items he wanted to buy, he moved elsewhere.
Xing Xianyi pushed the shopping cart, raised his eyebrows and smiled, "Why don't you look at it." ”
Chen nodded slightly, sighed and said: "Alas, that little kid just now, it's really hard to say, three years old to see old, I agree with this sentence, but while he is still young, it should be too late to educate immediately." ”
Xing Xianyi smiled and said disapprerovingly: "Who knows." ”
Chen Liangli suddenly said with some emotion: "This person has a pair of eyes, looking at beauty and ugliness, seeing right and wrong, but basically, he looks at others with his own colored eyes, but he has never seen his shortcomings in the mirror." ”
"Are bear children hateful? Of course it's hateful, but are they born bears? Apparently not. The reason why they turn into bears must be because their parents have not guided them well. ”
Xing Xianyi nodded approvingly and said, "Well, many children are just spoiled. ”
Chen was silent for a few seconds, and then said in a little confusion: "But, sometimes it is not very easy to guide a child correctly, and some methods may be right for you, but others may not agree with them." ”
Xing Xianyi bowed his head slightly and said: "This is right, the children have different personalities, and the methods they naturally use are also different." ”
Chen recalled, and said lightly: "There is a little boy, every time he goes to kindergarten, he will bring some small toys, because he is a boy, he prefers those dinosaurs, as well as those cold-blooded reptile toys." At one time he took two lizard toys to kindergarten. ”
As a result, the kindergarten aunt disliked that the toys he brought were too ugly and scary, and said, why do you always bring some strange and ugly things to school, don't use them to school to scary people in the future. He was very sad that his beloved toys were disliked, but he didn't dare to refute the aunt who disliked his toys, for fear that the aunt would give a small report to the teacher, and that the teacher would say that he was rude. ”
"When he got home, the little boy told his mother about the grievances in his heart, and the little boy's mother was a temperamental person, and she taught the little boy that if the aunt said something like that in the future, you should tell the lonely aunt that this is called a lizard, and it is not a strange thing, and if you don't know it, shut up."
At first glance, there is a taste of countering violence with violence and teaching bad children, and I feel that this mother is very aggressive, isn't it just saying that toys are strange? Is it necessary to teach children to say such disrespectful words? I feel that this way of reciprocating a tooth for a tooth and comparing baht may not necessarily bring benefits to the child. Therefore, it is not advisable to educate children in this way. ”
"And some bars will say, your toys are so ugly and so scary, is it because you like them, so I can't say it? Or, your child is so glassy, you can't stand it, why do you want to send it to kindergarten, why can't you bring it yourself? In this way, you don't have to run to the kindergarten to get angry. ”
"But what if you think about it differently? Your kindergarten aunt, not to say how high your level of education, but at least to be full of love, children are very sensitive, but because you don't like that kind of toys, so people are not allowed to take them to school, is it a bit too much. ”
"Maybe it's because I'm a person who will repay and protect his shortcomings, so I don't think the little boy's mother did anything wrong, I don't need to let myself compromise because of other people's dislikes, and the friends who play with me don't think the toys are scary, if you feel scared, you can choose to quit and not do it."
"Well, agree, sometimes, you have to learn to fight back, and blindly forbearance will only get worse." Xing Xianyi agreed, and sometimes, there is really no need to wronged himself. Because he is also a man who is very protective of his shortcomings.
Chen raised his eyebrows and smiled and said, "So, generally speaking, when I do things, as long as it is within my own ability, I will retaliate with a tooth for a tooth." And, sometimes, people just can't be too kind, because some people don't deserve your kindness at all. ”
"Daughter-in-law, why do you say it's within your ability?" Xing Xianyi felt a little uncomfortable in his heart, did he want his husband to eat dry rice?
"Because it's beyond my own ability, I'm physically and mentally exhausted when I do things." Chen explained.
"Daughter-in-law, where did you put me?" Xing Xianyi felt a little uncomfortable in his heart.
Chen smiled lightly, pointed to the location of his heart and said, "Of course it's here!" ”
The corners of Xing Xianyi's mouth rose, and the beauty in his heart was not wanted, and a small action of the little daughter-in-law pleased him instantly. "Daughter-in-law, your little mouth is getting sweeter and sweeter."
Chen raised his eyebrows and smiled: "Soaking in the honey pot made by my husband all day long, can it be sweet?" ”
The curvature of the corners of Xing Xianyi's mouth was a little bigger, and he quickly kissed the corner of the little daughter-in-law's mouth, and asked coldly: "Daughter-in-law, do you like children?" ”
Chen smiled and said, "I can't talk about liking or disliking." Do you like it? ”
"It's kind of repulsive." Xing Xianyi told the truth, he doesn't like children very much.
Chen was a little puzzled: "Why?" ”
"I don't know, I just don't like it very much. By the way, who is that little boy you're talking about? Xing Xianyi asked, with a hint of sourness in his tone.
Chen explained: "Oh, when I was in elementary school, the son of a math teacher, children would occasionally be naughty and make some small actions, but they were all harmless, not like the child just now, who did so excessively and scolded people. ”
Xing Xianyi raised his eyebrows and said, "Didn't you deliberately release the water because he was your math teacher's son, or didn't you dare to offend?" ”
Chen said calmly: "I haven't deliberately made concessions because of who he is or whose son he is, as for whether others have it, then I don't know." But at that time, everyone was also a child, so there shouldn't be so many twists and turns. ”