Chapter 66 Rejection and Disappointment
When Ding's mother thought about it like this, her face became unsightly, and she said lightly: "This Yuan Ben is actually a fatherless and motherless? If something happens to the family in the future, won't there be no one to help them? Can they only fight their own? ”
Mrs. Zheng still politely accompanied the smiling face, without any contempt and impatience, and explained diligently: "These words are said again, can there really be perfect things in the world?" If it weren't for the fact that he could only rely on himself since he was a child, he would be able to mix so well and work so hard now? If you want me to say, as long as he is capable and ambitious, this man can get married! ”
Ding's mother frowned slightly, and said lightly: "I really can't be the master of this matter, I have to wait for my eldest girl to come back and ask her what she means." ”
Mrs. Zheng smiled dryly: "Sister-in-law Ding, look at what you said, aren't the children's family affairs all the words of the matchmaker ordered by the parents, how can you ask the children what they mean, isn't it a joke?" ”
Mother Ding didn't mind the meaning of Mrs. Zheng's words, she shook her head very calmly, and said bluntly: "The situation of my family is not the same as that of other families, and you also know that my family is now supported by the page, so everything must be made comfortable first, otherwise our family will not have a good life." ”
Of course, Ding's mother's words are exaggerated, which is also because she understands in her heart that Yuan Ben is not a good match, and she will not want Ding Page, so in front of Mrs. Zheng, it is better to say ugly things in front.
Mrs. Zheng nodded clearly, "It's okay, then I'll come back in a few days to have a look, you can ask your eldest girl what she means first." To tell the truth, that Yuan Ben is really a good boy, he will have a bright future in the future, if your eldest girl follows him, she will definitely enjoy it in the future. ”
Mother Ding barely squeezed out a smile on her face, and politely sent Mrs. Zheng out of the door.
God knows how angry she is in her heart!
No matter how capable that Yuan Ben is, what's the use? Let's not talk about the death of his parents and no sisters and brothers, just because he is a subordinate of Haofu, which makes Ding's mother dissatisfied. Although there was no legislation in the court saying that slaves were not worthy of good people, the people who sold themselves into slavery were shameless no matter how they spoke.
Of course, Hao's Mansion is not the same as other mansions, Hao's family has a big business, and the treatment is indeed good. If it were put on the ordinary small family, it would indeed be considered a good family affair. It's just that Ding's mother faintly felt that this marriage would definitely not be in the eyes of Ding Page.
At near late afternoon and evening, Ding Yezi and Xiaohu finally came back, and all the tofu flowers made at noon were all sold, and the business seemed to be getting better and better in the past two days, and both of them had a smile on their faces that could not be concealed.
Ding's mother was waiting in the shop outside early, and when she saw Ding Page coming back, she said to her: "Put down the things first, I have something to tell you." ”
Ding Yezi looked at her mother with a serious look, as if it was an important matter, so she hurriedly put the flat burden and bucket on her shoulders next to the well in the yard, and they were all to be washed later, and then followed Ding Mu and walked to the east house.
Xiaohu was very sensible, and did not follow Ding Yezi into the house, but stayed in the yard and slowly brushed up the buckets and basins and other things used today.
"Sit down." Ding's mother sat down on the edge of the bed, patted the position next to her, and asked Ding Page to sit down.
Ding Page obediently sat beside Ding's mother, and asked with a smile: "Mother, what's the matter?" Look at how serious you look. ”
Ding Page didn't say the scenes that let Ding's mother make her own decisions about everything, this family is still based on her ideas in everything, and Ding's mother will ask her what she means when it's a little bigger.
"That's the case," Ding's mother said slowly: "Today, there is another matchmaker in our family, and I will be a matchmaker for you." What about that kid, he is a small servant under the housekeeper of Haofu, it is said that his parents are dead, and he has no sisters and brothers, but he is not bad, he has a bright brain, and he is also very reliable, so the housekeeper of Haofu is preparing to report to the masters and promote him, and I am afraid that he will also be a good master in the future. What do you see? ”
After speaking, Ding Mu carefully observed Ding Page's expression to see what she meant.
Ding Yezi was speechless when she heard this, what kind of matchmaker was this made for her? None of them are reliable! Could it be that she is now in the eyes of matchmakers, in the eyes of the world, and can only match these unreliable people?
Of course, she doesn't mean that orphans are bad, orphans also have the difficulties of orphans themselves! She herself was an orphan in her previous life, and she had to rely on her own efforts to fight for everything. Even when you encounter failures and setbacks, you can only carry it by yourself, knock out your teeth and swallow blood, no one can help you, and no one can even comfort you.
She had tasted all those pains, those pains, so, if possible, she didn't want to live like that again in her life.
"Mother," Ding Yezi looked at Ding's mother complainingly, "What do you think of this family matter?" ”
Ding Yezi's expression was so clear, if Ding's mother hadn't understood it, so many years would have been in vain.
She immediately straightened her countenance, and said categorically with righteous words: "Of course it's not good!" If you really follow such a person, if something happens at home in the future, and you don't even have a helper, how will you live? Without elders in front, it is difficult for the young couple to live a good life! The world always says that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, but if there is no mother-in-law, that day will definitely be more difficult. As the saying goes, if there is an old man in the family, it is a treasure, which makes sense. ”
Ding Page bowed, this is about the same.
"Then mother, do you mean to refuse?" Ding Page asked tentatively.
Ding Mu nodded again and again, "It's not possible." I told the matchmaker at the time that this marriage was not going to work out, and she asked me to ask you what you mean, no, you really didn't agree. ”
Looking at Ding's mother's pretended serious and serious appearance, Ding Page laughed in his heart. has been with Ding's mother for so long, she doesn't know what kind of person Ding's mother is, what matchmaker begged her to ask, it is obvious that she thinks it's okay.
But it's not bad, Ding's mother still knows what she means, taking into account her feelings, and doesn't make decisions for her privately, so it's fine, and you can't ask for too much else.
Ding Yezi stretched out his hand to hold Ding's mother's hand, and said with a light smile: "Mother, I also know that I am a little old now, and it is not as easy as those younger sisters to find my mother-in-law's family, but in addition to Xiaohu, my family is sisterly with Rou'er, and if I marry badly, it will inevitably affect my mother's family and Rou'er's reputation in the future." Let me ask, if I marry a little guy in the future, which good family is still willing to treat Rou'er well? You say, don't you? It's not a solitary matter, it's all about the whole body. ”
Although Ding Yezi said that the situation is a bit serious, it is not unreasonable.
When Ding's mother heard this, she thought about it carefully, and suddenly realized, patted her thigh and said, "Look at my old wife and son, I am confused, and I haven't thought clearly and understood as your child." ”
Ding Yezi smiled: "Mother, if you care, it's messed up." ”
In this way, Ding's mother can be regarded as having a number in her heart, and subjectively she has rejected the family affair that Mrs. Zheng said.
At night, Ding Yezi and Ding Rou lay down to rest, Ding Rou was very concerned about the progress of today's matchmaking, so she asked in a low voice, "Sister, have you slept?" ”
Ding Yezi had just turned off the lights and lay down, so there was no reason to fall asleep immediately, so he responded: "Not yet, Rou'er, do you have something?" ”
Ding Rou nodded, and remembered that Ding Page was sleeping on the other side, and she couldn't see her movements at all, so she said, "Well, there is something I want to ask you, but I don't know if I should ask or not." ”
"Is there anything else we sisters should ask that we shouldn't ask? Say whatever you want, but just say it. Ding Yezi said as if he didn't care, but his heart was winding, and he began to guess what Ding Rou meant.
Ding Rou gritted her teeth, her heart was crossed, and she whispered: "Sister, isn't there a matchmaker in our family to be a matchmaker for you today?" What do you think? Did my mother tell you what the situation was? ”
It is said that Ding Rou is different from her, Ding Rou is an authentic ancient small family jasper, and knows that marriage is decided by her parents, and she can't help herself at all. Of course, she's a modern-day freak, and that's another matter.
But now Ding Rou actually took the initiative to ask about the progress of her marriage, what does it mean? Could it be that the little sister's heart to be married is unbearable?
Ding Yezi pondered for a while, and decided to tell her the truth, "My mother has already told me, and I didn't agree, so let's just do it." ”
Ding Rou immediately asked, "Why?" Could it be that he has a bad brain again? ”
Ding Yezi said: "Of course not, but it's about the same, it's a person whose parents are dead, there are no brothers and sisters, and it's still a little girl in Haofu, I'm afraid it won't be good in the future." ”
"Oh, that's how it is, I can't accept it." Ding Rou's disappointed tone was unabashedly revealed.
Ding Page thinks that Ding Rou is already fourteen years old, and there are many girls of the same age as the two sisters on this street, and it can be said that almost seventy percent of them have a good marriage, only the two sisters have not yet decided.
Although Ding Rou has just reached the age where she can talk about family affairs, as long as her eldest sister is not married for a day, Ding Rou will have to drag it out for another day, and she can't think about family affairs at all.
Alas...... Thinking about it this way, it is no wonder that Ding Rou cares and is disappointed. Woman, don't you just want to marry a good husband, she is now blocking Ding Rou's future, no wonder she feels uncomfortable.
I have to say that Ding Rou's temperament has really changed a lot, much softer than before. If this matter had been put on hold before, Ding Yezi had no doubt that Ding Rou would be the first to taunt her when she heard that she had rejected another family matter, rather than just a faint melancholy.