Chapter 467 To be soft-hearted to others is to be cruel to oneself

"Yes, these days, every family is very tired, but some people will say it, some people don't say it, if you have to compete with others, it will be really tiring, I won't tell you those fake words, when I first married Ling Feihao, I hesitated, I thought about it, the two of us have such a big difference in family, after we get married, can we get used to each other's family environment, can we live a good life, my parents were against us being together, I feel that the gap between the rich and the poor between the two families is too big, and if it goes on like this, the two of us will definitely not be able to get by, but later, Ling Feihao's attitude is really good, and my parents agreed to let us get married, but unfortunately, life after marriage is not like what you imagined at all, it is not a fairy tale at all. ”

"yes, we've been watching TV dramas before, and the sparrows in the TV series are ......"

"No, no, no, ma'am, I was wrong."

As soon as the two words of Yuesao's sparrow came out, she immediately changed her words: "No, I don't mean that, I mean those fairy tale-like plots on TV, they are all lies, I look at you now, I really feel that it is not easy." ”

"It's not easy, it's not easy, you don't understand the hard work at all, but some things are really not like that, they look glamorous on the surface, but in fact they are just a pile of scum."

Yang Ling said, and waved her hand: "Okay, don't say so much, some things are not something we can say clearly, let me tell you, these trivial things in life are really a person's opinion, we feel that my mother-in-law is inappropriate, maybe outsiders will think that we are not filial enough and do not respect the elderly." ”

"Yes, in fact, I told you, I didn't get along with my mother-in-law at the beginning, we quarreled every day at the beginning, my husband was also very partial to my mother-in-law, thinking that my mother-in-law raised him, it was very hard, I married into their family, I should listen to my mother-in-law, I have to do what they ask me to do, but in fact it is not like that at all, my mother-in-law is such a harsh person, that is, she is not harsh on her son, and she is simply a servant to her daughter-in-law, I didn't know that I thought I was marrying a daughter-in-law, and I thought that my mother-in-law had hired a servant, but later, I came out to work myself, and I told my husband that I had to move out to live, and he wanted to take the child home during the New Year's holidays, and I wouldn't stop it, but I wouldn't live with my mother-in-law and them anymore. ”

Speaking of this, the confinement lady breathed a sigh of relief: "Fortunately, now I have moved out, my mood is good, I can also take good care of the children, our life is also getting better a little bit, later, I took a gold medal confinement certificate, no, after a little progress, the emperor lives up to his heart, I have become the confinement lady of your family, you and Mr. are so good to me, in fact, I am very emotional, this woman must do her own master, you have to do what you want to do, If you don't want to do something, you can't do it, you can't wronged yourself, you can't compromise on everything, and the final result of wronging yourself is that you can only make yourself harder, more wronged, we originally married to the in-law's family, there is no benefit. ”

People say that the daughters raised by others with hard work and marry into their in-laws' families, it is really like selling their daughters, and some of them have to be wronged when they get to their in-laws' families.

After listening to the words of the confinement lady, Yang Ling suddenly felt that she and the confinement lady were even more in love, if it weren't for the relationship of identity, she thought that she might be able to be friends with the confinement lady.

"Yes, I felt quite pitiful and aggrieved at first, although the situation in my family cannot be compared with the Ling family, but my parents are also pampered and raised me, why did I come to the Ling family, I have to be wronged, I have to be treated harshly by them, it's just a card, I don't want to worry about them, I think, the relationship between me and Ling Feihao is important, since the two of us are so affectionate, then everything can be changed, we can work hard to make life better, let our lives be better, to cover up those bad things, but until the back, it's useless, I'm also quite congested, since I'm pregnant, things at home have become more and more little by little, and the contradictions between me and my mother-in-law are also increasing. ”

"Actually, madam, I'm not afraid of your jokes, and I'm not afraid of you saying gossip about my master's family, since we've all talked to this point, I'll tell you, from the first time I saw the old lady, I found that the old lady and my mother-in-law are very similar, but there is still a difference, the difference is that my mother-in-law has no money, and the old lady is a rich wife from a wealthy family, but the kind of thing between the eyebrows of the two people, when the old lady looks at you, she looks at me the same, so, Now it seems that there are some things that we really can't say clearly, these things are not something we can change, and we don't want to change, after all, the things of this person's life, the character has long been formed, not any of us can change, since we can't change it, then we can only change ourselves. ”

Originally, Yang Ling didn't want to talk about it with the confinement sister-in-law, but after talking about it, she felt that her mood became heavier and heavier, she directly packed up Qing'an's things, and went out to find Lin Yanqiao with the child.

When these two people met, Luo Zongjin was still taking a scarf to Lin Yanqiao.

Looking at their affectionate appearance, Yang Ling was sour: "Tut-tut, look at the way the two of you are affectionate, these are all old husbands and wives, and they are so numb, I am an outsider who looks at it and has goosebumps all over my body." "Bibi e-book

"You have it, we didn't see it when you and Ling Feihao were numb."

After Lin Yanqiao finished speaking, he explained a few words to Luo Zongjin: "You remember to pick up Hitomi from school, and then eat with us at night, call Ling Feihao together, and my mother will go to Uncle Liu's side at night, saying that the two of us have reconciled, and we don't have to worry about it." ”

Before, Zhong Xiu and Lao Liu had a temper tantrum because of a jade bracelet, but after Lao Liu came back, Zhong Xiu immediately became less angry, and now the two of them reconciled.

After going out, they covered Qing'an with a quilt, and Yang Ling didn't forget to gossip: "Didn't you say that your aunt had a temper with your uncle before, but now that the two of you are reconciled?" ”

"Yes, these two people are older, who tossed up, of course, it is easy to reconcile, is it possible to get angry because of the 20,000 yuan thing, it must be impossible, but it is 20,000 yuan, the two of them are reconciled, but I also said Uncle Liu, I said directly, my mother is used to spending money, 20,000 yuan is not a money at all, so we all don't care, if Uncle Liu thinks that my mother's consumption concept is not very correct, what will my mother see in the future, Just let him buy it himself, you said that these two people are so old, and their personalities and consumption concepts have also been developed, if they both feel inappropriate, if they don't like it, don't be together at first, and now two people want to correct each other's words, it's just wishful thinking. ”

As soon as she heard Lin Yanqiao's words, Yang Ling smiled: "I'll tell you, I especially agree with what you say, I just talked about this matter with my sister-in-law, we all talked about my mother-in-law, you said that they are all so old, and their personalities have already been formed, which naturally can't be changed, so when my mother-in-law came over, I saw her person, I didn't feel anything anymore, I don't care, do you know, my mother-in-law just came over and told me a lot of things, saying this and that, In the end, all kinds of how I was wrong, in the end, I still want to move back to live with Qing'an, in that case, the family is like a family, otherwise, how can this family be gossiped about, where do you say I can manage so much. ”

"Yes, if we care so much, how many wrinkles do we have to grow in advance, the things in this house are not something we can handle, and now we can't do it, we don't have to think so much, save ourselves too fast, have time, or take a look at us more Qing'an, how happy."

Lin Yanqiao said and teased Qing'an with a smile: "Isn't it, Qing'an, our Qing'an is really getting better and better, it's really good to please Auntie." ”

"Alright, stay away from us, you've got a cold."

"Hey, Yang Ling, I found that since you reconciled with Ling Feihao, you really have some intention of crossing the river and demolishing the bridge, and you always pestered me to say this and that, but now, just let me go away, then you can take Qing'an to buy things yourself."

Hearing Lin Yanqiao's words, Yang Ling smiled again: "Oh, okay, okay, don't be angry, I'll just say it casually, I still have a lot of things to tell you, don't be angry, don't be angry." ”

After the two of them got into the car, the driver was Lin Yanqiao's own person, and after getting into the car, the two of them began to complain again: "Let me tell you, after Ling Feihao gave those assets to their two brothers, he didn't thank them directly, and now it seems that those two people really don't have any conscience, I knew that if I knew that, I really wouldn't let him give them to them, so now I'll tell you, it's not what Ling's mother revealed on the surface, and if there is anything else in the Ling family in the future, I will definitely not care about them." , If there is anything to happen to the Ling family in the future, I will definitely not be soft-hearted, in this world, soft-hearted people will really suffer, once we are soft-hearted, it is to let ourselves suffer, why let others have a good time, let yourself be soft-hearted, isn't it, there is no such reason in this world. ”

"Yes, if people don't do it for themselves, heaven and earth will be destroyed! Hahaha, you're right to think like this, in fact, I tell you, people really have to think about themselves. ”

"That's not it, if you don't think about it, the consequence will definitely be the life of being bullied, we all have hands and feet and abilities, why let people be bullied."