Chapter 570: Shrewd Ling Mother
Mother Ling has arrived now, even Lin Yanqiao and Zhong Xiu are in front of her and say how good Yang Ling is, how she shouldn't worry about Yang Ling.
But Ling's mother has always had only herself in her mind, and she feels that she is an elder, so Yang Ling should let herself do everything, even if she is wronged and bullied, she should not resist.
Let's ask where there is still that kind of well-behaved daughter-in-law in this era, and it is not in feudal society.
Zhong Xiu looked at Ling's mother and still didn't waver, thinking that since they had wiped their faces for a few days, they couldn't return in vain, thinking about it, Zhong Xiu also spoke, ready to use the same mentality to persuade Ling's mother.
"Mrs. Ling, actually, you see, I am the same age as you, on the way over, I also thought, if I were you, if I had a son, I also don't want him to marry a daughter-in-law and forget his mother, once he gets married, he listens to his daughter-in-law for everything, and all the focus is on the daughter-in-law of the sub-plan, as if he has completely forgotten my mother, before, the child will only circle around himself when he returns home, and once he gets married, he is a daughter-in-law when he opens and closes his mouth, and when he comes home, the two of them also get into the house and don't come out. I have actually thought about such a lonely and such a gap, but unfortunately I don't have a son, and I can't feel that gap personally, but Mrs. Luo, you believe me, I can really understand your feelings. ”
As soon as she heard Zhong Xiu's words, Ling's mother immediately nodded in agreement: "Yes, yes, you can understand me, I thought like that when they first got married, I don't think my son is mine anymore." ”
"But actually, it's not like that at all, you know?"
Zhong Xiu listened to Ling's mother's words and glanced at Lin Yanqiao, simply speechless.
She said patiently: "You are the mother of two children, you tell me, what are we most looking forward to as parents, isn't it that the children can form a happy family and live their own happy life?" ”
In Zhong Xiu's view, the most important thing is that the children get married and live happily, if their parents will become a stumbling block, she would rather not live with them and live alone.
If she hadn't been sick at the beginning, seeing Luo Zongjin reconcile with Lin Yanqiao, she would really have moved out to live by herself, but now she has a serious illness, thinking that her daughter must not be allowed, and even if she really moves out, she has to worry that they can't take care of the child.
If conditions like Ling's mother are like this, she can't wait to live alone with mountains and rivers, and none of them should bother herself.
"Why isn't this the case, you see Feihao now, for Yang Ling, this family is not going back, he came back last night, do you know how he came back, because I said that I was not feeling well, I was sick, so I hurriedly came back to see me, if it wasn't for the fact that I was sick, he would definitely not come back to see me, you know?"
After listening to Ling's mother's words, Lin Yanqiao really felt sad for Yang Ling, and felt pity for Ling Feihao, there was such a mother, since she wanted her children to go home to see her, but she always did that kind of thing that people didn't understand.
"Mrs. Ling, do you want them to come back to see you happily?"
"Of course."
"Then why do you use that kind of extreme behavior? Why don't you want to be nice to them and let them come back to see you on their own initiative, instead of using this forced way? You force them, will you be happy, or will they be happy? ”
Zhong Xiu was really speechless, and naturally he couldn't talk to Ling Mu in a normal tone, but after thinking about it, if he didn't talk to Ling Mu well, it was estimated that he would come in vain today.
After thinking about it, she softened her voice again: "We are all people of this age, do you think, if you can treat Yang Ling well, will Yang Ling be happy alone?" Won't your son be happy, won't you be happy? In fact, I say this, not to say how much you lose your self-esteem as a mother-in-law, but I hope to say that you can make your family happier, you are a mother, you should have made a lot of sacrifices for Fei Hao, I heard that Fei Hao was sick when he was young, that was in exchange for your life, in that case, then you say, you exchanged your life for the child, don't you just want him to live a healthy and happy life, he is not happy now, what do you think is the value of you paying so much? ”
Zhong Xiu tried hard to convince Ling's mother with empathy, but Ling's mother seemed to have reached a dead end.
"If I say that, it will only make Yang Ling happy."
"You're wrong, if you do that, Yang Ling will only think that you are truly repentant, she will happily take care of Qing'an, and she will treat your son happily, they are in a better mood, and your family's environment will be better, you know?"
In fact, it's all very simple things, but Ling Mu has gotten into it now, and she can't get out at all.
Looking at Ling's mother's appearance, Lin Yanqiao sighed: "Auntie, what my mother said is actually quite simple, you are good to Yang Ling, Yang Ling will naturally be good to you, think about it, when you used Yang Ling as a servant before, Yang Ling had this attitude towards you?" ”
"Of course not." Bashan loves
"That's right, isn't that just waiting for you to really show it on the surface, since Yang Ling gave birth to a child, Yang Ling began to ignore you, isn't it, so when people do things, they are all heart-to-heart, you are good to her, she will naturally be good to you, you are not good to him, she will naturally not be good to you, Yang Ling and I are good friends from college to meet now, I especially understand Yang Ling's mind, if Yang Ling believes that things, it will not be wrong, and I tell you, Yang Ling is very, very measured, she is also a very filial person, when we go to college, she often goes to help the poor households near the campus after school, and gives her living expenses to those old men and aunts, she is really a very good person. ”
In Lin Yanqiao's heart, Yang Ling is indeed imperfect in some places, but she is indeed a kind person who is truly filial.
After all, no one in this world is perfect and has no shortcomings, and Yang Ling's shortcomings are exactly what most people may have, which is acceptable.
She didn't understand why Mother Ling had to magnify her daughter-in-law's shortcomings infinitely like that, in order to cover up the things she had done, or if she had other ideas, in short, she felt that Mother Ling was quite strange like that.
It's a pity that as a friend, no matter how good Lin Yanqiao said Yang Ling, in Ling's mother's opinion, it was Lin Yanqiao making excuses for Yang Ling, and in Ling's mother's eyes, Yang Ling was always bad.
So, Ling's mother said; "You are friends, you naturally think that Yang Ling is very good everywhere, but I don't think so, in the eyes of us outsiders, not only myself, but many of my friends think that this daughter-in-law is not good."
Zhong Xiu and Lin Yanqiao were simply crazy when they heard Ling Mu's words, and they were now a little suspicious of why they had to tell Ling Mu so much.
Lin Yanqiao glanced at Zhong Xiu, and his eyes were full of words: "Mom, let's go back, don't ask for hardship here." ”
But Zhong Xiu, I think it is better to persevere, and if it is soft, it will be hard: "You can't say that, if the things in this family are spread out to outsiders, outsiders will only see jokes, they will think that the worse your daughter-in-law is, the more chaotic your family will be, in that case, it will naturally affect your family harmony, they will only watch jokes, do you think outsiders will have the same heart as you, outsiders are waiting for what news your family has, spread it and spread it, look at your jokes, Only your own family is single-minded, can really help you, you know, if it is someone else, how can it be, it's too late for people to wait to see your jokes, so ah, as a peer, I kindly remind you, don't force your son to be in a hurry. ”
Or Zhong Xiu knew Ling Feihao, and when he went out with such a sentence, he obviously looked at Ling Mu's expression and changed: "What do you mean by this?" How could my son be pressed by me? ”
"Why won't you be in a hurry?"
Zhong Xiu smiled and looked at Ling's mother: "Let me tell you, if you have been acting like this, your son will be forced by you, it will be sooner or later, if you don't believe it, then wait and see." ”
Mother Ling listened to Zhong Xiu's words, and the more she listened, the more confused she became: "You explained it to me clearly, how could my son be more anxious than me?" I don't understand. ”
Having said that, they didn't know if Ling Mu was really stupid, or if she was pretending to be stupid and pretending not to understand.
As the current hostess of the Ling family, if her comprehension ability was so poor, it is estimated that she would have been replaced by someone from the outside long ago.
However, looking at Ling's mother's appearance, Zhong Xiu continued to say patiently: "You should know that your son likes Yang Ling very much, and they have children now and have their own small family, you can think about it, since you had a conflict with Yang Ling and they moved out, how often did your son come back to see you?" ”
"It's not very often, or do I still need to pretend to be sick?"
"Isn't that obvious?"
Zhong Xiu was helpless and continued: "Your son rarely comes back now because you always have trouble with Yang Ling, and that's because your son thinks that what you did is also problematic, and what you want is a harmonious and happy home, not something you fight for." ”
After Zhong Xiu finished speaking, she quickly stood up, she felt that if she stayed for one more minute, she would be out of breath, she got up and said quickly: "I'll go first, you are busy with yours." ”
After saying that, Zhong Xiu walked outside.
Looking at his mother's hurried appearance, Lin Yanqiao knew that he was about to be stunned by Ling's mother.
She also stood up, not saying goodbye to Mother Ling, she felt that it was unnecessary.
A person who doesn't understand others at all and only thinks about her own selfishness, she doesn't bother to deal with it at all, it's really pitiful for Ling Feihao, there is such a mother.
Seeing them leave without saying a word, Ling's mother was still a little unhappy: "Eh, you look at the mother and daughter, if they come over without notifying me in advance, they won't let them enter the door, it's really rude!" ”