As soon as she heard Lin Yanqiao's words, Yang Ling walked over and picked up Rong Rong, put her on the baby cradle, and handed the teacup to Lin Yanqiao: "Don't think like that, otherwise I won't do anything today, let's go to the hot springs in the afternoon, okay?" ”

"Hot springs?"

"That's right, let's go to the hot springs, the child let the confinement lady take it at home, and the two of us haven't been so relaxed for a long time, so let's go out to relax, and I'm always so irritable."

"Okay, okay, forget it, I'm not suitable for hot springs, I still want to sleep here when I have time, I didn't sleep well last night, and if I don't sleep so well, I guess I'll go crazy."

"Well, you also know that if you don't sleep well, you'll go crazy, call me to see, you are now a resentful woman, you say, your relationship with Luo Zongjin is so good, Luo Zongjin's business is developing so smoothly, the two of you now have both children and daughters, the only problem is the problems of the old lady and Liu Hanyi, but the key thing is, hasn't Luo Zongjin already said that he will deal with it for you, in that case, you don't have to think so much, you are comfortable as the president of your finance department, Wouldn't it be nice to see who was uncomfortable, so let them roll up and get out, go home, play with the two children, and help Hitomi with her homework? ”

Yang Ling couldn't figure it out, why Lin Yanqiao always made himself so tired, and it would not be good for anyone to go on like this.

"Who doesn't understand what you said, I also understand, you also know in your heart, but it really comes to you, it's really not that simple, I also think I'm a little disease-free moaning now, but who can stop it, it's like obsessive-compulsive disorder, I tell you, when I was pregnant, I thought, when I gave birth to a child, my obsessive-compulsive disorder will definitely get better, but who would have thought that after the child was born, the obsessive-compulsive disorder is getting more and more serious."

"Won't it?"

Yang Ling looked at Lin Yanqiao, and then remembered that every time she entered the door, the place where Lin Yanqiao was going to sit would smack by herself, but it was not a cleanliness fetish, but an obsessive-compulsive disorder.

"I'll tell you, you have to correct this habit, obsessive-compulsive disorder is really powerful, if you let it go like this, when your obsessive-compulsive disorder becomes more and more powerful, it is estimated that you will not be able to control it, you know what, so you must take care of it, if it continues like this, it is estimated that Luo Zongjin and Hitomi will not be able to stand you."

"But I think it's about hygiene, you said that I cleaned up the house, and everyone was comfortable, isn't it good, isn't it?"

"It's good, but if you force everyone to live your way, then I feel very guilty, if you don't believe it, you can go home and ask Hitomi what Hitomi thinks."

"Did that little guy tell you something?"

"It's not that I told me, it was said to Luo Zongjin, and then, Luo Zongjin said to Ling Feihao, no, Ling Feihao passed it to me."

Yang Ling said, took a sip of tea and said: "Hitomi said, when I go home, I have to wash my hands and change my clothes immediately, and I have to change my clothes and take a bath when I go out to eat a skewer, I feel that my mother has a cleanliness habit, but I don't dare to say it, I can only live in your way, and the pupils who make it are now said that they are too lazy to go out, because they have to clean up for a long time when they go out to come home, and sometimes they are very tired and tired when they come back from going out to play, and they have to take a bath and change clothes, and they can only sit after they are all cleaned up." ”

Listening to what Yang Ling said, Lin Yanqiao was also a little nervous: "Is that really what Hitomi said?"

"Of course, otherwise there are still fakes, but sometimes I wonder what you think when we go to your house, when we sit on your sofa, do you have to wash all those sofa cushions and everything after we leave?"

Hearing Yang Ling's words, Lin Yanqiao pouted: "What do you say, I don't dislike anyone who dislikes you, you are all very clean, I know, otherwise I wouldn't have come to your house, right?" ”

"Cut, we are all very clean, in fact, you said that children, always have to come into contact with some bacteria, some children are also thrown to the mound to play, absorb a little rustic, say that the body will be better, you guard the two children like this, when your obsessive-compulsive disorder is more powerful, do you have to get them a sterile warehouse?"

Actually, Yang Ling had wanted to say these words for a long time, and now that she had the opportunity, Yang Ling felt that she had to say everything she wanted to say, and let Lin Yanqiao adjust it as much as possible.

This obsessive-compulsive disorder is nothing, it may just affect life, but after a long time, what will be affected is family harmony, or if it is more serious, Lin Yanqiao's own psychology will have an impact, don't make a neurotic at that time, it will be over. 228 Literature Network

Seeing that Lin Yanqiao was silent, Yang Ling continued: "Qiaoqiao, in fact, I am also a person who has just become a mother, and I also know that we are mothers just to protect our children, so that the children are not affected by any outside world, and they are healthy and healthy, but you must know that there are some things that we cannot interfere with, think about it, Hitomi was like this when she was a child, when Hitomi went out, didn't she touch anything outside, when Hitomi was in school, couldn't she contact her classmates, was it once contacted, You have to wash your hands immediately, then the child doesn't want to get along with his classmates at school, he makes a separate classroom, plays by himself, and washes his clothes as soon as he touches something. ”

Listening to what Yang Ling said, Lin Yanqiao did feel that it was a bit exaggerated, but sometimes she didn't think like that at all.

"Actually, I just think that I don't want things outside to touch my home, and it's not as exaggerated as you think."

"Why don't you exaggerate, let me tell you, don't you still understand, since Luo Zongjin has told Ling Feihao now, it proves that Luo Zongjin must be patient with you, these children have grown up, and their immunity is getting stronger and stronger, besides, we won't touch Rong Rong and Qing'an with our hands that touch many things outside, isn't it, children are not as fragile as you think, we have many bacteria in our own human bodies, doesn't this mean that the bacteria outside are all infectious diseases?"

Yang Ling just wanted to try her best to persuade Lin Yanqiao to stop being so exaggerated.

"Okay, okay, I know what you said makes sense, I'll be honest with you, many times I don't want to do that, but sometimes, I just can't control it, I can't control myself, I do it like that, and I will try to restrain myself in the future."

"Well, it's great if you're willing to do this, from today onwards, Hitomi will go home, as long as you wash your hands, you should do whatever you want, and you don't have to take a shower right away, besides, Hitomi went to a private international school, and the children in it are all clean, there is no problem, the most important thing is that you open your heart knot."

"Okay, okay, got it, don't say it."

Lin Yanqiao knew that it was indeed wrong for her to do that, but in her heart, if they didn't do that, she would feel uncomfortable psychologically, and she would feel very uncomfortable all over her body.

But now that the child and Luo Zongjin have been affected, they can't stand it anymore, and she can't force them to do that anymore.

Otherwise, do they really think of themselves as patients?

She didn't want to do that, she still wanted a harmonious family.

In fact, many times, when she washes her hands and feels that they are not clean, she will wash them again, and then she will miss her free self before, and no one knows that she has been tormenting in her heart.

After drinking a cup of tea, Lin Yanqiao remembered what happened when he saw Liu Hanyi yesterday, and he started talking.

Before Luo Zongjin's idea was finished, Yang Ling shouted in agreement.

"Hey, be quiet, don't wake the kid."

"Oh, yes, you can't wake up the kids."

Yang Ling smiled, leaned over to Lin Yanqiao and whispered: "I agree with Luo Zongjin's idea, why do you have to treat them specially, let me tell you, some things don't have to worry about so much, no matter what Liu Han says, you don't have to act, they want to send you, you just say it's inconvenient, don't care so much, don't wait until the end and make it as if what you did is inappropriate, what outsiders see jokes, those people outside who eat melons don't care what you do, how good you do, They all know how to read jokes, let me tell you, there are some things, you don't have to do it according to them, how can you be happy, why do you make yourself so tired? ”

Listening to Yang Ling's words, Lin Yanqiao couldn't help but smile: "How do you feel that you are thinking about things so openly now, I don't know what is wrong with you, I really don't look like the Yang Ling I know." ”

"What's wrong? I think what's wrong with thinking about things, you can talk about it, my life is very good now, Ling Feihao is good to me, what about my mother-in-law, I can do it it doesn't matter, let me tell you, I went to eat hot pot that day, my mother-in-law was not angry, originally, my sister-in-law wanted to embarrass me, but then I was told by my mother-in-law that I should eat well when I came to eat, don't talk about those messy things, I guess it was either my mother-in-law who really did it last time, my mother-in-law was moved, Either my mother-in-law is jealous of me now, after all, last time, my father-in-law and Ling Feihao were biased towards me, no matter how strong my mother-in-law is, she has to take my father-in-law in her eyes, right? ”

"Isn't that, your mother-in-law's person is indeed relatively strong, but no matter how strong she is, it is also a member of the Ling family, she always has to give your father-in-law's face, this means that you are not lucky, you are also very lucky, you met an unreasonable mother-in-law, but there is also a reasonable father-in-law. You said that if Ling's father and Ling's mother's three views are not correct, how uncomfortable you are living these days, fortunately, your father-in-law's three views are very correct, and you have burned high incense in your last life, be content. ”