Chapter 211: Should You Refuse a Marriage Proposal?
Xia Zhi saw that Bai Qiulian suddenly came to his senses, and sighed helplessly: "I don't think I should agree, so I don't want him to propose." ”
"Why don't you say yes, aren't you two pretty good? It's been almost half a year, he's in his early thirties, and of course he's thinking about getting married. Bai Qiulian didn't just think so, she also felt that with her flamboyant personality, if she really decided to get married, she must love Xia Solstice very much.
A well-known playboy in the circle, he got married, and this is a good story.
He Zhangyang's age is there, and Xia Zhi also knows it, but she doesn't have a bottom in her heart: "His family doesn't seem to like me very much, he didn't go home with me during the Chinese New Year, and his family seems to be angry with him." ”
A marriage that is not blessed by the family, the summer solstice does not dare to enter.
Bai Qiulian has a special say in this matter, when she married into the Bo family, the Bo family didn't like her. Although I don't care on the surface, I still feel a little uncomfortable in the dead of night occasionally.
A person with a big heart like her is still like this, and a delicate girl like Xia Zhi is afraid that she is more worried.
"Then what are you going to do to just reject him? You also know He Zhangyang's character, if you reject him, I'm afraid it will be the end between you. Bai Qiulian and He Zhangyang are not familiar with each other in private, but He Zhangyang's character is enough to deduce what kind of person he is.
It's good for Xia Zhi to dig out his heart and lungs, and the marriage proposal was rejected, but he can't stand it, not to mention that person is still how flamboyant.
Xia Zhi didn't know what to do, so he could only sigh: "Let's talk about it then, maybe he won't propose marriage either." ”
"Running away is not the way to go, I think you should have solved this sooner rather than later. It's best to talk about it after work today. "Bai Qiulian is not a character who likes to escape, there is something to solve directly, and he is positive. When this kind of thing happens, the solution she can give is to face it head-on.
"I don't dare, and I don't know how to tell him." Xia Zhi knew that if he said it, he probably wouldn't be able to survive Valentine's Day.
Bai Qiulian asked, "Then do you want to marry him?" Family problems can be overcome if one wants to. ”
The He family is so big, there is no need to get married. And He Zhangyang's character is well known, and marriage is absolutely impossible. He Zhangyang's parents should have known this for a long time, so they haven't forced He Zhangyang for so many years.
If He Zhang Yang is willing to get married, the He family is actually willing. It's just that He Zhangyang cares too much about the summer solstice and ignores the He family, so the He family will be dissatisfied with the summer solstice.
"How do you overcome that? You know, I'm not good at dealing with my family. "Xia Zhi is very difficult, she has no parents for a long time, she lives alone, and she doesn't know how to get along with her family.
It is because of this that He Zhangyang did not go home to accompany the summer solstice during the New Year, He Zhangyang did not want the summer solstice to be alone at such a lively time.
Now Bai Qiulian is also a seriously ill father, and he is still far away in a foreign sanatorium. Dealing with this kind of thing in the family, Bai Qiulian is not very good.
Ouyang Chuchu walked in and wanted to find Bai Qiulian to get some information, but when he saw Xia Zhi's cloudy face, he couldn't help but ask, "What happened?" ”
Seeing Ouyang Chuchu, Bai Qiulian smiled and said, "You can learn from Sister Chu Chu, Sister Chu Chu should be very good at dealing with her family." ”
If he is not good at dealing with his family, Ouyang Chuchu should not be able to marry into the Li family.
"What to deal with the family? What happened to the summer solstice? Ouyang Chuchu didn't figure out what was going on for a while.
It wasn't until Bai Qiulian told Ouyang Chuchu about the summer solstice that Ouyang Chuchu figured out what was going on.
Ouyang Chuchu also sat down and said to Xia Zhi: "You don't have to worry about this, the most important thing is that He Zhang Yang loves you, and you love him too." If you love someone, you will definitely give something for him. I have dedicated my entire youth and career to my husband, and now my husband is also very supportive of what I am doing now. ”
Xia Zhi didn't understand what Ouyang Chuchu wanted to express, and showed a puzzled look.
"What I mean is very simple, you really love each other and can overcome all difficulties. There are some things you don't try, and you'll never know what the outcome will be. My suggestion is that if He Zhangyang proposes to you, you agree first, after all, you don't get the certificate right away. When the time comes, if the He family is not satisfied with you, you can face it with He Zhangyang. Ouyang Chuchu said.
Bai Qiulian also nodded: "He Zhangyang must be on your side." ”
"I'm just afraid that he will be on my side and have trouble with his family." Xia Zhi was very embarrassed, and she didn't want He Zhangyang to be unhappy with his family for her.
Ouyang Chuchu held Xia Zhi's hand and said earnestly: "In a relationship, never be afraid to cause trouble to the other party. If one day you really don't cause him any trouble, it proves that you can't go on with this relationship. ”
Bai Qiulian's body stiffened, she didn't like to trouble Bo Jingyan, but she still always troubled Bo Jingyan.
"I see, I'll try." Xia Solstice seemed to have made up his mind and smiled.
Seeing that the persuasion was almost over, Ouyang Chuchu said to Bai Qiulian: "On the first day of work today, everyone seems to be a little unaccustomed to it, and the progress is relatively slow. I have drawn up a list of the things you said about the sub-group before the year, and I will send it to you by email in a moment. ”
When it came to work, Bai Qiulian immediately entered the state: "I want to divide into two groups, and now our personnel are limited. By the time April comes, I'd like to bring in a few more people and divide them into three groups. June is the graduation season, which happens to be the recruitment season, and when the time comes, a few more people will be recruited to fill the three teams, and this year's staffing should be like this. ”
"I have now drafted two teams to come out, and let An Xiaoxiao and Du Ruokang be the leaders respectively." Ouyang Chuchu said. These two people are people that Ouyang Chuchu is very optimistic about, so he wants these two people to be the team leader.
Bai Qiulian has a different opinion: "I don't have any opinion on An Xiaoxiao being the team leader, I think Du Ruokang can be the deputy team leader in An Xiaoxiao's group." Although Du Ruokang has made great progress, I still find instability in him. This kind of instability, I don't think he is qualified for the position of team leader at present. ”
When Du Ruokang will be able to overcome this problem of unstable performance, Bai Qiulian intends to promote Du Ruokang.
Because Du Ruokang likes not only his strength, but more importantly, his personality. He has been a squad leader since he was a child, and he has a good set of management methods. It will not offend anyone, and it will be easy to make others obedient.