It's a good idea to live in a different place.

After listening to Lin Yanqiao's method, Yang Ling felt that life suddenly seemed to have hope again.

"I'll tell you, it's good that I'm here to chat with you, otherwise I'll really be depressed at home, my parents are tired from watching their children every day, and they have to take care of my emotions in all aspects, sometimes, I look at my mother's appearance and I really feel guilty."

"Guilty of what?"

Lin Yanqiao patted Yang Ling: "Auntie and uncle are definitely the best in the world about you, they are the ones who love you the most, watching you hold back every day, you might as well vent it, imagine that Qing'an will not say anything to you in the future, and no emotions will be vented in front of you, always hiding by yourself, are you distressed and angry, will you sigh and say, oops, this child is really sensible?" ”

"Surely not."

"That's not it, so think about it, when you try your best to hide and not expose any emotions, what do uncles and aunts think, they feel sorry for you, but they don't dare to say you, because your emotions are already tense now, and they are afraid that if you say a few more words, your string will break."

"You say that, it does make sense, in fact, I look at them every day, it's better for us to quarrel thoroughly, but you think this idea is very good today, I have to go back and discuss it with them, but if my mother doesn't agree, I guess we don't have to think about any tricks, after all, my parents ran from Wuhan so hard, this door, was said by my mother-in-law, and I was sitting in confinement, my mother-in-law came to make trouble, I'm afraid in my parents' hearts, The Ling family has been rejected by them, and now I want to take Ling Feihao to live in Wuhan with me, and I feel that most of them may not work. ”

In fact, parents are all for the good of their children, hoping that their daughters can live a happy life after getting married.

If they are not happy, they would rather have children for the rest of their lives.

Lin Yanqiao actually thought about it, if she had a daughter, she would not have a good time in her mother-in-law's house, would she be compromised, no!

She thinks very clearly, under any circumstances, she will not let the child be wronged.

Seeing that Yang Ling was just a little brighter, it became dim again.

Lin Yanqiao comforted: "In this way, you think clearly first, do you want to continue to be with Ling Feihao, if you think that Ling Feihao followed you to live in Wuhan, no matter how your mother-in-law made a fuss, you insist on taking Qing'an and them in Wuhan together, Auntie, I will help you convince, after all, children are also very important, Qing'an is still so young, if she can't live with her father, this will also cause a shadow on the child's psychology, from this aspect, You and Ling Feihao have a hundred reasons to reconcile, Auntie will definitely understand, big deal, I'll take my personal experience to talk about it. ”

"Okay, let's experience it for yourself, do you think your experience is good?"

"It's because it's not good that you can convince and move people."

Yang Ling thought about it, and it was.

"However, I really should think about it, when I was very angry before, I thought that I would never see Ling Feihao again in the future, and I wouldn't let Ling Feihao see Qing'an again, but every time I look at Qing'an's simple sleeping face, I can't bear to let my child live with his father at such a young age."

"Yes, I deeply understand your feelings, Hitomi was also that kind of mind when I was a child, every time I look at the child's quiet appearance, when I look at Hitomi staring at someone else's father, I feel very guilty in my heart, at that time I always think, why should I listen to my mother, divorce Luo Zongjin, if there is no divorce, maybe because of this child, Luo Zongjin will be better to me, at least I won't let the child suffer with me, when I first arrived in the United States, I asked myself countless times in this way, but laterI realized that if I hadn't left like that, I wouldn't have transformed into a better version of myself at all. ”

Saying that, Lin Yanqiao found that he was off topic, and hurriedly said: "But, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that the experience of experiencing pain will transform into the best version of yourself is very good, I mean, if you can let the child enjoy complete love from childhood to adulthood, the impact on the child's life is very far-reaching, you look at Hitomi, although he looks very cheerful now, but in places where no one can see it, he still has some quirks, for example, you can't turn off the light when you sleep at night, and you must wash yourself when you take a bath, There are some habits that I have tried to correct, but I have found that I can't correct them at all, because it is not a habit problem, it is a problem in the child's heart, we can't help it, and the child can't do it. ”

"That's right, Hitomi seems to be innocent and cheerful, but there are always some flaws in her personality, as long as I think of Qing'an can't live with Ling Feihao, and I can't enjoy my father's love since I was a child, my heart is like a pinprick."

"That's it, then think about it, and see if Ling Feihao can move in with you, if not, it's a big deal that you and Ling Feihao will take their children to live in the city, his Ling family has a lot of things to inherit, but what about your eldest brother and second brother, if you leave, your sister-in-law and second sister-in-law will probably be very happy."

Lin Yanqiao said and took Yang Ling's hand: "Moreover, let me tell you, now many people do not live in the city they are used to, but will choose a city they like and move their families to the past, when the time comes, the emperor is far away, you can come back if you want to come back during the New Year's holidays, and if you don't want to come back, let Ling Feihao come over with Qing'an, your mother-in-law just wants to find trouble, and she has to go all the way to find you, and when the time comes, as soon as your uncle and aunt retire, they will also move in to live with you. Isn't your family living a very happy life, in fact, the conflicts caused by family reasons are not only divorce. ”

Just like Lin Yanqiao said, if many things are thought in a different way, the result will be completely different. new world

Yang Ling has always wanted to use divorce to solve the problem, and Lin Yanqiao has always wanted to let them leave before, and Ling's mother in the province is stirring up trouble in the middle every day.

But last night, Luo Zongjin suddenly talked about Ling Feihao and Yang Ling.

At that time, Lin Yanqiao was still a little surprised.

Although Luo Zongjin and Ling Feihao are good brothers, but so many things have happened between Ling Feihao and Yang Ling, Luo Zongjin almost didn't mention it too much to Lin Yanqiao, and suddenly mentioned it last night, and also gave a set of solutions.

Lin Yanqiao thought about it carefully after waking up in the morning, and she felt that the solution should have been proposed by Ling Feihao herself.

Otherwise, Luo Zongjin would not bother to find a solution because of their emotional problems.

Since Ling Feihao has already given in to this point, if Yang Ling tries hard, it will really hurt the feelings between them, instead of choosing the worst way, it is better to solve the problem in another way.

Yang Ling was originally depressed, but now after listening to Lin Yanqiao's enlightenment, her heart became relaxed.

"Yes, what you said makes sense, it's not just divorce, I'll think about it after I go back, but don't tell Ling Feihao about this kind of thing first."

Listening to Yang Ling's words, Lin Yanqiao suddenly felt very cute: "What if I tell you that this proposal was made by Ling Feihao?" ”

"Ling Feihao?"

"That's right, last night, Luo Zongjin suddenly told me this method, you know Luo Zongjin, although he has a good relationship with Ling Feihao, but he has never disdained to care about the private feelings of the two of you."

"Cut, he's like the king of Yama."

"Hey, what are you talking about, we are kind enough to help you, and we have to be scolded by you, aren't you, you have too no conscience."

"How so, how come, I have a good conscience."

"Okay, then I'll keep telling you."

Lin Yanqiao glared at Yang Ling and continued: Luo Zongjin suddenly told me this method last night, I just want to say that this method is not something that Luo Zongjin can come up with, so it should be Ling Feihao, after Ling Feihao came up with it, he told me through Luo Zongjin's mouth, and then let me tell you, this long march, my words have also been conveyed in place, as for what you think, you should think about it yourself. ”

"The idea is very good, but you know my mother's temper, if you want to convince my mother, it is estimated that you will spend a lot of tongue and effort, but let me tell you, before I came, my father sent me downstairs and said many, many sensational words to me, I know that my father's love has always been very deep, and he doesn't say anything, but he hides it in his heart, and when I think about it, if it really doesn't work, I will talk to my father first."

"There's another thing."

Lin Yanqiao glanced at Yang Ling as he spoke, and sighed: "You say, this Qing'an is also full moon, how can the Ling family say that it is also a family with a head and a face in the mountain city, I heard that when Qing'an was born, many people in the mountain city knew about it, and the Ling family has never given their children a full moon wine, Luo Zongjin told me that many people in the mountain city are also talking about this matter, because you have been angry, so Ling Feihao probably has never dared to discuss with you, you have to think about it, although what the Ling family did was not quite right, But this kind of thing still has to give them some face, after all, the impact is not small, Qing'an is also innocent, she should enjoy the blessing. ”

"Actually, I've thought about this question, my dad asked me before, saying what to do with the child's full moon wine, I didn't say anything at the time, after all, the full moon wine is all done by my grandparents' family, they haven't told me at home, and I can't rush to ask, so let's do it, you help me tell Ling Feihao, I don't object to the full moon wine for the child, they can do it how they should do it, but after the full moon wine, how to deal with things or how to deal with it, just like in the future, I and Qing'an have been alone, How should he see Qing'an, I won't stop him, just like you said, the child is innocent. ”

"Hey, what you said, didn't you just say that you want to go to a different city life with Ling Feihao, why do you need me to send you a message from the middle of this kind of thing now?"

"Then do you want to talk about it?"

"Tell me, say, isn't it okay?"