Chapter 343: Teaching by Word and Deed

Saying this sentence in a particularly joking tone seems to be a lot more natural, love can really change a person a lot, at least change Ji Yan a lot. He has become less smearable, it has become very humane, he knows how to interact with others, instead of blindly waiting for others to take the initiative to communicate with him, even if others take the initiative to communicate with him, he is also solving the problem simply and rudely with the least number of words. And now he can communicate with others, is good at some social issues, and can better promote some people's feelings. That's the change. Love really, really makes a difference. Ji Yan's will be especially obvious, because his personality was extreme at the beginning, because of the extreme of coldness, so that now it can be seen that the change is very, very big.

"Grandpa, have you always lived here?" At this time, Ji Yan even inquired about other people's family affairs. It can't be said to be a family matter, and there will be some gossip at that time. It's surprising that he will take the initiative to ask some questions.

The old man was surprised, he didn't expect the young man in front of him to ask such a question. His years of cognitive rubbing have tested that this young man should be a relatively cold person. And it looks very familiar, that is to say, it is very likely that some, the CEO and the like, think that the other party should be a cold person. I didn't expect to take the initiative to ask questions.

"yes, I've been living here for a while. Witnessing groups of residents, there are also many who will feel that this place is too quiet and relatively far away from the city, so they will leave. I said that my grandfather likes some quieter places when he is old, and he can't stand the noisy environment, so he has been living here. "Grandpa is also a person who is good at communicating and is more willing to communicate with others. Therefore, he will take the initiative to tell his own things and stories with others, and he is very willing to share them with others, and it is this kind of sharing that can better promote the relationship between people.

If everyone is like Ji Yan before, then that world will be very powerful, so powerful that the communication between people is usually solved within five words first. There will be fewer and fewer recruits, and the feelings will become weaker and weaker, that is, with the old man and Ji Yan, two extremely enthusiastic and extremely cold people, in order to have a better attitude and better promote the communication between people.

"Does Grandpa know the residents of 102 and some of her usual habits? For example, go out early or something. "Ji Yan feels a little far-fetched to ask this question, if a master like you wants to be related to him, why should you pay attention to her?

The old man pretended to be reserved, or he was sincerely procrastinating for time, not speaking, as if he was thinking, and as if he had already earned the answer, he sincerely had to wait a while before speaking, to test the patience of this boy and this young man. "Ask me, you can be regarded as asking the right person, my old grandfather, every day I like to get up early and walk around or something, every time I walk back, I can always see the little girl going out. It can't be said that it is very early, but it is not very late, that is, at seven or eight o'clock. "What the old man said seems to be very specific, and it can be regarded as a time in vain for Ji Yan to come over to inquire about the information.

"I can see that you young man still cares about that little girl. Tell me how you made people angry. And it looks pretty serious. "The old man still has a gossip heart in his heart. It's still a lot of gossip when I asked this sentence, I want to know the truth a little bit, so I can help them solve it, it's more gossip, it's more curiosity.

Ji Yan said simply, but he didn't drag it all out, after all, it was really difficult for them to think about it carefully. From. At. Told their story many, many years ago, it has really been many years, and it stands to reason that such a relationship should be very unswerving, but now that so many years have passed, there will still be misunderstandings, and they will even be jealous of each other. There are even some people who don't believe in each other, and it's really undeserved. "This kind of thing is at fault for both of you, and neither of you can calm down and talk to each other about your mistakes. But seriously, if you want to maintain the relationship between the two parties, you really have to pay a little more, young man, and what about women, they are unreasonable creatures, and if you want to maintain a very friendly relationship with them all the time, you must learn to admit your mistakes first. It doesn't make sense for you to keep being arrogant like this, according to your appearance, your identity, there should be many girls chasing you, and they don't care about your character, will you want to find them? Will this make the little girl feel insecure? And to choose not to believe in you? He doesn't believe it, maybe he just wants you to show that you care about her, not that he really doesn't believe you. ”

Based on his years of experience, the old man summed up these words and sent them to Ji Yan. I have to say, this is indeed true. "Then grandpa, you know so much, you must be very affectionate with grandma." Ji Yan thought about it carefully, and found that what his grandfather said was still quite reasonable, but sometimes he really couldn't do his character, and he was able to talk to the other party very gently, so he had already done his best, and it took a lot of effort to calm down and talk to Wei Yangyang, and this kind of thing still needs to be worked hard little by little, so I don't think about it for the time being. However, Ji Yan has been thinking about it all the time, Wei Yangyang may really leave, not with any man, but by herself, because she has been disappointed.

Ji Yan at least just listened to the old man's foot count, and asked what he just said, it really belonged to the kind of sudden inspiration, sudden thought, and then asked it, it didn't seem to go too far through the brain. "Me. My wife left early, this house is the only token of love between me and her, I couldn't afford it at that time, but now I can afford it, but she left. "When the old man talks about this, it can be shown that there are not so many words, but very, very indifferent. He didn't say a lot, but he described the whole thing very clearly, so that others could understand it at once, and they would know it at once.

Ji Yan especially wanted to ask, that grandma left early, why don't you look for another grandpa? But he didn't say why, he probably thought of the old man's reply.