Li Ning smiled bitterly, "Love may only be a momentary thing, but if a person wants to fully understand another person, even psychologists can't do it, and the understanding between lovers also takes time to run in and understand." Can you fully understand all of Shao Hua's actions? ”

Wang Lili frowned, thinking about Li Ning's words in her heart, but did not respond for a while.

Li Ning continued to persuade with kind words, "Don't try to let the other party fully understand what you think, if you really want him to know, just say it so that he can hear it." When two people are together, they should communicate and be inclusive, not play a guessing game. ”

"So you're saying I'm doing something wrong?" Wang Lili asked uncertainly.

Li Ning shook his head, "There is no right or wrong in emotional matters, it is nothing more than who is willing to be more tolerant of each other." After a pause, Li Ning asked, "Actually, you don't really want to break up with Shao Hua, do you?" ”

Wang Lili did not respond, but her noncommittal was tantamount to acquiescence.

"Lili, I still say the same thing, if you love him, and Shao Hua is willing to work hard to be with you, then don't say this kind of thing easily, communicate well between you, and things will always be resolved. And I think that the starting point of everything Shao's mother does is also because of her love for Shao Hua, and your starting point is the same. Li Ning reassured.

"But I'm afraid that if his mother is really impulsive and does something irreparable, then I won't be able to face Shao Hua for the rest of my life." Wang Lili had palpitations.

Li Ning didn't have any idea at the moment, and she didn't dare to say anything about this kind of thing, so she hesitated for a moment and said, "That's it, I want to find a way to talk to Shao Hua about this matter, maybe ask Shao's mother to meet and talk about it." I don't think his mother is like an unreasonable person, maybe this matter is just angry, and it is inevitable that she will drill the horns. ”

"Doctor Li, are you going to talk?"

"Of course, if you find it inconvenient, then I can also not interfere in this matter. I just see that you and Shao Hua are depressed about this matter, so I want to try to see if I can help. ”

Wang Lili immediately explained: "I didn't mean that, I just thought it was our private matter, but I wanted to trouble you." And you should also be able to give birth with peace of mind now, and you shouldn't bother with it. ”

Li Ning lightly held Wang Lili's hand, "We are not only colleagues but also friends, as friends, I don't want the two of you to be unhappy." And the people in our department are very optimistic about you, and everyone is still waiting to eat your candy. ”

Wang Lili pursed her lips and smiled, but at the same time sighed helplessly.

"Okay, don't think about it yet, if you really feel uncomfortable, you can take a half-day off to adjust your mood."

Wang Lili took two deep breaths, then shook her head with a smile, "Doctor Li, rest assured, private matters are private affairs, work is work, I know how to do it, it will not affect my normal work." ”

"Okay, come and tell me anything at any time, and I'll talk to him about Shao Hua later. But you don't have to impulsively mention any breakups, some things can't always be said, and they will come true when they say it. Li Ning admonished.

"Listen to your Dr. Lai." Wang Lili bowed her head in response, and then got up and walked out of the office.

Li Ningwu sighed to herself, and couldn't help but sigh when she saw the matter of Wang Lili and Shao Hua, but in today's society where love is free, there will still be some families who have to face this so-called gateway restriction.

At the same time, she was also very glad that the people she met were Old Madam Shen and Shen Muzhi.

Although the Li family is also a wealthy family, it has been declining when her family gave Shen Muzhi, and even in the heyday of the Li family, it is far from the Shen family, and even maybe in Shao's mother's hierarchy theory, it can be regarded as a wrong household.

But Old Madam Shen never minded this, even if Li Ning didn't have any dowry when she got married, she still never mentioned it.

Now it seems that her marriage with Shen Muzhi is really simple, a wedding alone married Li Ning into the door, and since then the husband and wife life of the two have begun.

Although Li Ning was full of reluctance at that time, he is now very grateful for all this.

Maybe these things between her and Shen Muzhi are called fate, all the inevitabilities that seem to be coincidences, guiding them through the ups and downs of this road, and then meeting happiness.

In the afternoon of the same day, Li Ning took advantage of Shao Hua's unbusy time to call him to the office alone.

"Did you have a good chat with Lili today?" Li Ning poured a glass of water for Shao Hua and handed it to him.

Shao Hua shook his head, "We are all a little busy today, and the time has been staggered. ”

Li Ning bowed his head slightly and said directly: "In the morning, I chatted with Lili for a while. ”

Shao Hua took a sip of water, his eyebrows frowned slightly, and the word helplessness was written all over his eyes.

"Lili also said, in fact, she doesn't want to break up with you, but it seems that you have been caught between her and her parents too much, so she wants to help you solve the problem in this way, not to force you to make a statement."

"But what I want is for us to find a way to solve the problem together, to find a way to convince my parents to agree to our marriage, instead of breaking up to avoid the problem."

Hearing this, Li Ning couldn't help but laugh, "I can see that the biggest problem between the two of you is the lack of communication, she thinks you should know her thoughts, and you feel that there are some things that don't need to be said, both of you should know it." In the end, although you are both thinking about each other, you can't understand what the other person is doing, but instead cause misunderstandings, but you only think that everything is because the other party doesn't know you well enough. ”

Shao Hua's brows tightened a little, and Li Ning was silent for the time being, giving him time to think alone.

After a long time, Shao Hua raised his eyes to look at Li Ning, "I understand what you mean, Doctor Li." ”

Li Ning smiled, and saw that since he understood, he didn't say more, and asked instead: "Auntie doesn't agree to your marriage, is there any other reason besides because Lili is from the countryside?" ”

Shao Hua shook his head, "They want to find a daughter-in-law with an outstanding family background and a good face when she says it, not someone I like." ”

When the words fell, Shao Hua couldn't help but sigh deeply.

"Most parents in China are like this, thinking they are doing it for their children's good, but they ignore what their children want most," Li said. But you can't say that they are bad, after all, their starting point is also for you, but they may be used in the wrong way. ”

Shao Hua sighed again: "My mother is also knowledgeable, but this matter is very stubborn, I have been persuading for many days, but it still has no effect." ”