Chapter 587: Deliberation
Father Ling's mind is good, and it is also for the good of their little couple.
In other words, Ling's father's three views are correct, and the original intention of being a parent has never changed, and what has changed has always been Ling's mother.
In fact, before Ling Feihao got married, the Ling family was very normal.
During the period when he got rid of the eldest and second child and went home, Ling Feihao got along with his parents very happily, as if he was the only child.
Ling's mother's attitude towards Ling Feihao was even more warm and loving.
But since Ling Feihao got married, this Ling mother seems to have suddenly changed as a person, at the beginning, Ling Feihao was still very considerate of his mother, but in the back, seeing his mother becoming more and more excessive, losing herself more and more, Ling Feihao couldn't understand it.
So much so that now the trouble has reached the point where it is now, in fact, if both sides give in to each other, things will definitely not develop into the way they are now.
It's just a pity now, it's too late.
The damage in Yang Ling's heart has been caused, and the contradiction between father and son has been formed, and these things are really not so easy to resolve.
Seeing that Yang Ling and his son agreed, Father Ling sighed: "To be honest, as a father, watching the family become like this little by little, I am really unhappy to be a father, but I also know that I am responsible, I should pay attention to this issue from the beginning, if I pay attention to it from the beginning, things will definitely not be to the point where they are now, I have also been angry with your mother in the middle, I have also quarreled with her, called her, and even moved out of the house, but every time, Your mother's attitude to me is that I will never do that in the future, but every time I break my promise, since this is the case, it will always make your mother pay some price, otherwise, this price will really be broken up, and in the end it will be a joke for outsiders. ”
Father Ling is a very face-saving person, and there are a lot of gossips that he has heard outside during this period of time, and they have even spread to the unit, just because of his official position, no one dares to talk about it in front of him, but there are not many rumors.
Listening to his father's words, Ling Feihao's heart was more like a stone, and he was a little out of breath.
After a long time, Ling Feihao sighed slightly: "Dad, the family is like this, except for Yang Ling, each of us is responsible, as a son and husband, if I can make a difference at the beginning of the conflict, things will definitely not come to this point, so you don't have to blame yourself, it's all my problem." ”
Yang Ling watched their father and son all compete to admit their mistakes, and frowned: "I also have a problem, if I can be more tolerant of my mother, I will definitely not be like this, I blame my previous personality for being too impulsive, if I can endure more, it will definitely not come to this point." ”
Now at this time, everyone is talking about their own mistakes, if you can think about your own problems like this from the beginning, things will not get to this point, which also reflects Yang Ling's thoughts.
In fact, Yang Ling was wronged, but in Yang Ling's current case, it is not like that.
It also fully reflects Yang Ling's thoughts, this matter is indeed true, if they give one step, Yang Ling will let many steps, this is Yang Ling's heart, and it is also the tutor of the Yang family.
When Father Ling heard this, he smiled: "Yang Ling, your child is still the same as what I said before, very kind and well-behaved, and he really doesn't have any thoughts in front of his elders, your mother is like that to you, and you still think that you have a problem, this kind of mentality is good, it's good." ”
"Dad, this is the reason why I like Yang Ling, she is like that, she doesn't like to care, it's just that my mother is too strict and harsh on Yang Ling on weekdays, but I believe that if you protect Yang Ling in the future, Yang Ling will definitely not be wronged."
"Well, yes, I'll tell your mom about it, don't worry, but it can't be today, you know?"
"Well, we understand, don't worry, Dad, we all know in our hearts, it is indeed not appropriate to tell our mother directly at this time, we also understand in our hearts that this kind of thing is not a day or two, and it is not for us to have the final say, we just came to discuss with you, I didn't expect you to think the same as us."
Listening to Ling Feihao's words, Yang Ling also nodded and said: "Well, that's true, in fact, I was a little hesitant at first, I know that this is not just my mother's problem, we all have a reason, so we also understand you, if you tell your mother directly now, it will only deepen the conflict between us." ”
"Well, that's right, it will only deepen the conflict, as long as you can think so, then I can rest assured."
"Well, Dad, don't worry, Yang Ling and I are not in a hurry for this day or two, but I hope my mother doesn't think too much, don't think that I forgot about you when I got married, and I will live up to your parenting, I will definitely not do that kind of thing."
"Well, I understand, your mother will understand too, after all, this is a child raised by the two of us, we raised you, we know your mind."
"Well, that's good."
The three of them discussed here, and in order to avoid Ling's mother's suspicions, Ling's father asked Yang Ling to go away first.
"You go talk to your mother, lay the groundwork first, and I'll talk to her." Thirty-nine
Let Yang Ling take the initiative to chat?
Isn't this letting Yang Ling bow her head first, it's too much.
However, since this is the case, since Yang Ling also expressed her thoughts to Father Ling, then it must be necessary to bow her head to Mother Ling, do you still want your face?
Listening to Father Ling's words, Ling Feihao subconsciously grabbed Yang Ling's hand, he glanced at Yang Ling, and sighed slightly: "If you don't want to go, don't force it." ”
Yang Ling herself was hesitating, but after listening to Ling Feihao's words, Yang Ling stood up with a smile: "How can you not be willing, just now I promised my father that I would treat my mother well in the future, why are you not willing to take the initiative to look for my mother to bow my head now?" ”
In fact, Yang Ling is empathetic, for the sake of everyone, for Ling Feihao, since they have sacrificed the best choice, then now go to Ling's mother to take the initiative to say something, what's not to do?
After Yang Ling finished speaking, she stood up, sighed slightly, and walked towards the sun room, in fact, Yang Ling was still a little hesitant in her heart, and she didn't know what to say.
Walking to the sun room and seeing Ling's mother sitting there drinking tea, Yang Ling was inexplicably a little worried, if she took the initiative to step forward to speak, she would be choked by Ling's mother as soon as she passed, or Ling's mother didn't pay attention to her at all, wouldn't it be too embarrassing?
However, since they all agreed, after thinking about it, she still walked in and coughed lightly.
When Ling Mu heard the movement, she snorted coldly: "Come in, come in, do you still need to remind me, I'm afraid that people won't know that you're in?" ”
Is this early known that I would come in?
Yang Ling was a little surprised, she just coughed when she came in, could it be that the resolution of her voice was so high?
Yang Ling thought that since she was willing to come over, then the purpose must be to do things well, and in order to do things well, she was willing to do anything.
After thinking about it, she walked over and said with a smile: "Mom, Feihao and Dad are talking about business over there, and I'll come over to talk to you." ”
"Talk to me?"
Ling Mu is a little yin and yang.
Listening to Ling's mother's tone, Yang Ling was still not angry, she still smiled and said: "Yes, you see that since Qing'an was born, we rarely see each other and rarely chat, how to say that we are all a family, I should chat with you more, otherwise, wouldn't it be too boring for you to be at home by yourself, isn't it?" ”
"Hmph, you still think you want to talk to me, you think I'm going to be bored, do you care about me, can I take it as true?"
"Of course it can be regarded as true, why not as true, Mom, I tell you, I am sincere to you, and I have absolutely nothing to say about your thoughts, I know, since I married Fei Hao, you feel that I robbed your son, so what, you have a bad attitude towards me, I think I am also greedy for the Ling family's money, you do all this for the Ling family, for the Ling family can get better and better, I know it, but there are some things I didn't understand before, So my attitude towards you is not very good, during this period of time, Fei Hao always said me at home, let me have a better attitude towards you, let me be more considerate of your thoughts, I know the feeling that the cabbage raised by myself was poached by others. ”
Yang Ling's metaphor is quite vivid.
Since Ling Feihao grew up so big, Ling's mother has indeed worked hard, every bit of it is for Ling Feihao's sake, and she has carefully raised Ling Feihao and admitted it, but now looking at her son but not biased towards herself, Ling's mother's heart is naturally very different.
And what Ling's mother was surprised by was that she was to Yang Ling, Yang Ling would actually take the initiative to come over to chat with her now and say sorry to herself, did she hear it wrong?
"What you say is quite true, but why did you always have that attitude towards me before? You said that I raised my son so well, and I gave it to you, what do you think about it, and you still have that attitude towards me, do I owe it to you? ”
Do you owe it to her?
I was also pampered by my parents, why did I have to treat myself like this when I arrived at the Ling family, wouldn't that be too much, Yang Ling was also very aggrieved in her heart, but now that she has reached this point with Ling's mother, and has reached that consensus with Ling's father Ling Feihao, she is too lazy to say that.
She was still patient, and said: "Mom, you don't owe me, after I gave birth to Qing'an, I also know your mind and your feelings, but what, you should know what I mean, I don't mean that you owe me, I married into the Ling family, and I don't want to rob anyone of anything, my original intention is to hope that we can live a good life." ”
The family lives a good life, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law laugh, that kind of life is very good.
She hopes that her mother-in-law will also be regarded as a mother, as if she was her own child, so that the family will not be estranged at all, and if she has a child, she will live happily and happily in the future.