After listening to Li Yan and Su Yunyue's descriptions, the doctor carefully looked at the evaluation report, and then said thoughtfully: "Actually, judging from the report at present, I can't see anything serious or hereditary autism. It should be a short-term, stressful response, and parents should pay attention to it and give their children a sense of security. ”

Security? Su Yunyue and Li Yan looked at each other, and they understood why Tong Bao liked to stick to Li Yan and Li Lin after he came back, did this mean that he thought that male elders would make him feel more secure?

Li Yan asked tentatively, "Is this because during his imprisonment, the person who imprisoned him was a woman?" ”

"Not necessarily." The doctor shook his head: "It doesn't have much to do with men and women. Does the child hate his mother? ”

Su Yunyue shook her head: "I don't have this symptom, but I don't seem to know it as close as before." It just feels like he likes his dad more and likes his grandfather. ”

"Where's Grandma?" The doctor asked.

Li Yan thought about it for a while: "It doesn't seem to have changed much, it's almost the same as before, except that I don't like to talk." ”

Su Yunyue felt a little anxious: "But there is indeed a change in the treatment of my problems, that is, he really doesn't like to talk so much, and it seems that sometimes when I talk to him, he is not as obedient as before." ”

The doctor thought for a moment: "Is that when he had an accident, you weren't around?" Or didn't give him enough comfort? "When a person is in trouble, if the character he desires most is not around, it is true that the tourist may cause subconscious resistance to this character.

Su Yunyue covered her mouth, she could imagine how helpless and desperate Tong Bao was at that time, and how much she hoped that her mother could be by his side?

But at that time, only Li Yan, Li Lin and Wei Huiling encouraged Tong Bao and supported him in front of the phone every day! No wonder Tong Bao will be estranged from her when he comes back.

Seeing Su Yunyue's sad duck, Li Yan also felt a little unbearable: "You go over and look at Tong Bao, I'll tell the doctor." ”

The doctor saw that Su Yunyue was very sad, and also persuaded: "The child is like this, slowly heal his wounds." The family redoubles their love and creates a good environment for him, so that he can slowly reverse some of the child's misunderstandings. ”

Su Yunyue nodded: "Thank you, doctor." ”

After Su Yunyue left, Li Yan raised his own question: "Doctor, I won't tell you, my son was kidnapped some time ago. After the kidnapping, he became a little unpleasant. ”

"Kidnapping?" The doctor nodded thoughtfully: "Then it's no wonder, in that kind of closed environment, children may have some self-protection and defense mechanisms, that is, self-protection mechanisms in an unfamiliar environment." ”

"Is it related to threats and intimidation?" Li Yan was a little worried: "Is it being abused or something?" ”

The doctor shook his head: "Judging from his physical condition, it seems that he has not been physically abused, but verbally it may not be. ”

"I have one more question." After Li Yan was sure that Su Yunyue hadn't noticed this, he asked, "Theoretically, in this situation, in the face of the person who saved him, generally speaking, will the child be particularly dependent, trusting, or grateful?" ”

The doctor nodded, "Your son should be in this case." Because he has developed a fear of this environment, there will be a way for the person who rescues him to worship and be grateful. ”

Li Yan nodded a little confused: "But my son's situation is a little abnormal, but he hates the person who saved him very much, even to the point of disgust." Don't let him touch it, and don't buy him his favorite toy! It's about completely resisting. ”

"It's relatively rare." The doctor thought for a moment: "That must mean that something may have happened in the middle that you don't know about. However, I recommend that such factors do not appear for a long time, and let the child avoid these factors for the time being, and talk about them slowly later. ”

Li Yan nodded: "I think so too, thank you, doctor." ”

This is great, at least he has enough reasons to convince his family not to let that Yang Yuli stay at home all the time. Seeing that brazen woman swaying around the house every day, Li Yan was angry.

Speaking of which, Tong Bao's incident is indeed a little strange. Why would he be so disgusted and disgusted with Yang Yuli?

Li Yan and Su Yunyue returned home, and Li Yan told the whole family about the doctor's words, especially the one about Yang Yuli: "The doctor said that it is recommended to block out all the things that Tong Bao may be afraid of now, so that Tong Bao can slowly adapt and familiarize himself, and it will be better to slowly return to the rhythm of his previous life." ”

As soon as he said this, the whole family immediately agreed, and Li Lin was very blunt: "I have never seen someone who likes to run to other people's houses so much!" Is she that familiar with our family? ”

Wei Huiling also doesn't like Yang Yuli very much: "This girl's mouth is quite sweet, but we Tong Bao don't like it, so thank her later." Yunyue, don't you say? ”

Su Yunyue was inexplicably embarrassed at this time, in fact, she had already felt that the whole family didn't like Yang Yuli, and only she would accept and entertain Yang Yuli. Now that she has picked up the words, and it is for Tong Bao's good, Su Yunyue must fully support it: "I absolutely agree." I've seen that I've been going to work for a few days, and if she wants to find me, she'll go to Su's to find me. ”

Li Yan raised his eyebrows, go to the Su family? Su Yunyue's brain doesn't remember? Aren't you afraid of being provoked by those strange relatives around her?

When Wei Huiling saw her son's expression, she knew that there must be no good words in his mouth, and she hurriedly looked at Su Yunyue: "I said daughter-in-law, you are good at everything, but this heart is too soft." Although I don't know how to do business, I think it has to be done by ruthless people like your father and Li Yan. As for you, you used to be too soft-hearted, and you were coerced by those relatives to have an accident, so you can't go the old way. ”

"No, it won't." Su Yunyue was really embarrassed at this time, she looked around, it seemed that Li Lin and Li Yan's expressions were also this meaning, and it was even more embarrassing: "I just feel that she sent Tong Bao back no matter what, but I won't have any business dealings with her, never again." ”

Li Yan seemed to be a little unconvinced: "The Su clan is yours, if you are tossing, I don't think the Su clan will last long." What we say, whether you really listen or not, but this woman will definitely not be able to appear in our house again. While Tong Bao recovers, I don't want this woman to cause any negative impact. ”

Li Lin seemed to be quite impatient: "It's not simple? Say hello directly to the doorman and stop outside a few times to know the severity. There is also a period of time when our family is not entertained and does not entertain. Whoever makes a noise to Tong Bao will get out. ”