Chapter 538: The Three Views Are Not Correct
This Ling family does have a country to inherit, otherwise, who will the throne be passed on?
When Yang Ling listened to Ling's mother's words, she really felt a little like laughing.
What age is this, and I still have to use this way to force people to have boys
She never thought that in this era, this person's patriarchal concept is still so serious, especially in a wealthy family like the Ling family, Ling's mother is still like this, which is indeed too surprising and unexpected.
However, no matter what Ling's mother said now, Yang Ling was right to not hear it, she didn't see it, she didn't comment, she just didn't listen.
After all, in this world, everyone has their own worldview, values and outlook on life, what others think, they can't control it, and the only person who can manage it is themselves.
"I know, some of you may think that I am too feudal, I am patriarchal, but I think you can see the facts, if the Ling family is handed over to the girls in the future, then what will the Ling family be like in the future, just change the name and surname, I and your father don't want the Ling family to have such a thing in the future, so I hope you can all work hard, don't always feel that the future of the Ling family has nothing to do with you, and the future of the Ling family is inextricably linked to you. The future of the Ling family is related to your future, and this is also the result of the efforts of the ancestors of the Ling family, I know, you will think, why am I so superstitious, I am so patriarchal, and when you reach my stage, you will naturally be able to understand. ”
When Ling's mother said these words, the living room was very quiet.
Yang Ling seemed to be conquered by Ling's mother's sincerity all of a sudden, yes, this Ling family's big property, if her daughter marries in the future, and this property comes to share with an outsider, it is indeed a great loss, maybe she will think like this if she falls to the point of Ling's mother.
But at present, Yang Ling doesn't agree with that idea, and she can't support it.
However, since this kind of thing is incomprehensible to herself, what Yang Ling can do is not to speak out, not to support or oppose, whoever wants to have a child will give birth, she can't stop it, she doesn't care about the assets of the Ling family or anything, all she cares about is whether their small family can live happily together.
"I know, your mother said this, you may really think that your mother is too superstitious, too feudal, should not be that kind of feudal superstition to ask you, but you think carefully about whether these things are closely related to you, before, I don't want to care about these things, I think we all have to have some consciousness, in addition, as a father, as a father-in-law, it is not appropriate for me to talk directly to you as a daughter-in-law about those things, but I hope you know in your hearts, There are some things that we don't mention, you don't need to do it, the future of the Ling family is each of us, your mother and I are so old, and we won't live for many years, and we still have to rely on your own in the future, so you must not let us down. ”
The words of Ling's father and Ling's mother are set one after another, and no matter how they sound, it makes people feel as if they are telling a story.
When cultural people speak, it's all a set, and no matter how you listen to it, you feel that this is preaching, but what, do you have no way to find fault, because what they say is reasonable.
Yang Ling sat over there and didn't make a sound, just leaned over there and took over Qing'an from Father Ling, all these things of the Ling family, she regarded them as evil sidelines, and all of them turned a deaf ear, in fact, it was also good, at least she didn't have to participate in those messy disputes.
Just looking at Han Xiaoyun's previous behavior, Ling's mother's decision has not been officially notified, this Han Xiaoyun has begun to provoke the relationship between herself and her second sister-in-law, this is now officially notified, it is estimated that Han Xiaoyun can wait to kill the two of them directly, it can be regarded as a trouble-free.
"Tell me, what do you guys think?"
Talking about this kind of problem openly, as a daughter-in-law, naturally she doesn't know what to say, no matter what they say, it is all from a serious family, and some things should not be said, if you want to say it, it will only be said after careful consideration.
Therefore, after Father Ling's words came out, including Han Xiaoyun, he didn't say anything. Love me
As the boss, Ling Feiyun spoke: "Parents, I know that although our three brothers have also had children over the years, they are all girls, and I also know that you also love your daughter very much, but the reality is here, if there is no boy in the Ling family here, it is really not good, then again, I also feel very ashamed, if we can work hard at the beginning to think of such a distant thing, then you don't have to worry about it, we are not doing well, as the eldest brother, Should I urge him early in the morning, let them think more about the future of the Ling family, don't worry, as the boss of the Ling family, I will definitely take on the responsibility of being the eldest brother in the future, and don't let the two elders worry about it anymore. ”
After Ling Feiyun learned of his parents' decision, it seems that it is also very good now.
Ever since she heard about those things from the old lady's mouth, Ling Feiyun has been thinking about it, if her parents can't do the qualities that Ling Feihao fancies, then she won't really be favored by her parents in this life, and now that he has an opportunity, then he has to let his parents feel that his eldest brother is still useful.
"Well, you should have thought like this a long time ago, you are the eldest brother in the family, and you need to worry about many things, and you will be responsible, instead of letting us be the two old men who are parents to be responsible, don't you say?"
"Yes, Mom, don't worry, I will take on the responsibility of being a big brother in the future, so that you can worry less and worry less."
"What about Feihai? Feihao, what do you guys think? ”
When asked, they had to speak even if they didn't want to.
Ling Feihai smiled and said: "Mom and Dad, in fact, I knew early on that this matter is very important to our Ling family, but I have discussed it with Jingjing, and we are enough for Xiaohan to have one child now, what about the two of us, now we are both working in public institutions, and Feihao also gave me a lot of assets before, and I now let professional managers take care of it, and our family of three is now living a very nourishing and comfortable life, so Jingjing and I are not going to have children for the time being. At least we don't plan to ask for it in the past two years, it's up to the eldest brother and Fei Hao, we naturally cherish and love the Ling family, but the matter of having a child is a big deal, and it is also related to the future, I hope you can respect the opinions of the two of us. ”
After listening to Ling Feihai's opinion, Cao Yijing nodded and echoed: "Yes, parents, we have all thought about it, the matter of having a child was actually revealed to me by my sister-in-law before, and we have discussed it carefully these days, the two of us don't plan to have children for the time being, we just want to train Xiaohan to grow up and become a pillar, and when she grows up in the future, she doesn't require her to be promising, just take the entrance examination to a good university, have a good job, and find a motivated, smart, responsible and responsible person to live. This girl actually doesn't ask for so much, and we now have enough money for our family of three to live a good life, I think as long as we don't squander, the money will definitely be enough to spend, so this time we have to live up to our parents' kindness to us. ”
In fact, at the beginning, Cao Yijing was very concerned about this, she often gave advice to Ling Feihai, saying, why these two brothers are older than Ling Feihao, but the Ling family handed it over to Ling Feihao.
In the first few years, Cao Yijing couldn't figure it out, until the last time, Ling Feihao distributed assets to them so generously, which made Cao Yijing discover why her father-in-law and mother-in-law liked Ling Feihao, Ling Feihao's pattern was indeed different from the other two people.
Listening to Cao Yijing's words, Ling Mu's eyes widened: "What are you talking about?" I have worked so hard to raise you, is this how you treat me now, I let you have a boy, are you so unwilling, I know you all want to live a comfortable life, I don't want to live a comfortable life with your father, we also want to live a comfortable life, but since you are a member of the Ling family, you must take on the responsibility and responsibility of being a member of the Ling family, the matter of having a child is not anyone's business, but all of us together, you can't retreat like this, I let you compete like this, that is, I want you to think more about what this Ling family needs in the future, but who knows, you actually refused to me directly. ”
Listening to Ling's mother's words, Yang Ling especially wanted to pour another basin of cold water on it, but for the sake of Ling Feihao's face, Yang Ling held back, but what she never expected was that Yang Ling held back, but Ling Feihao didn't hold back.
After listening to Ling Feihai and Cao Yijing's words, Ling Feihao said: "Parents, in fact, my second brother and sister-in-law have the same idea, the matter of having a child itself is our small family's own business, we not only have to consider the Ling family, but also have to consider the feelings of the boss, we know that as a member of the Ling family, it is inevitable and appropriate to think of the Ling family in the future, but some things are not done with such rewards, I believe that everyone here hopes that the Ling family will get better and better in the future, Instead of thinking about who we squeezed each other down, I think our Ling family shouldn't be like this, everyone wants to go to Mr. and Children, to compare, to hurt each other? Besides, Lingling and I have no plans to have a second child for the time being. ”
Saying that, Ling Feihao took Yang Ling's hand, sighed, his eyes swept over everyone, and said: "Lingling suffered a lot of sins when she gave birth to Qing'an, and now her body has not recovered well, so she must not have a second child now, even if we have plans to do so in the future, it will be a few years later." ”
Ling Feihao's words simply spoke Yang Ling's heart.
Those were all what Yang Ling wanted to say, she didn't expect that at this time, Ling Feihao would speak out like this to defend herself, she looked at Ling Feihao gratefully, and didn't say anything.
At this moment, any words are pale.