It's better for people to live a little selfish, if they always think about others, their lives will always be very miserable, so selfish people live very comfortably, and people who always consider the feelings of others always live very aggrieved.

"Yes, be selfish, there's nothing wrong with it, and no one will blame it, there are so many of them now."

"Yes, when you told me to be selfish, I thought about it, there's nothing wrong with being selfish, it's good, at least there aren't so many things to block up in my life."

"Yes, since that's the case, don't pay attention to other people's opinions, how comfortable you are, how to care about other people, it has nothing to do with us, how can you be comfortable."

"Yes, how to be comfortable, that's what I think now, I'm comfortable, I'll just do it like this, as for other people, I don't care what they think, the only thing I care about now is what my parents think."

"Hehe, uncle and aunt? Do you think that uncles and aunts don't care about your thoughts, they care more about your thoughts, your mood, your mood affects their lives, auntie has been calling me a lot recently, all of them ask about your situation, every time I say you are very good, but every time I say that you are very good, I have a weak heart, and then my aunt will continue to talk to me, say and say, and in the end, my aunt will smile and say, Yanqiao, your state does not seem to be very similar to before, you must remember, If Lingling's life is not going well, you must be the first to tell your aunt, and your aunt will go with your uncle to bring Lingling and Qing'an back, although life is not so rich, but you don't have to worry about eating and drinking. ”

Lin Yanqiao said, Yang Ling's eyes were red, Yang Ling always felt that she rarely answered her mother's phone and rarely contacted her parents, so she could cover her ears and steal the bell, and she could make them feel that they had always lived a very happy life, but in fact, it was not like that at all, the more she concealed it, the more uncomfortable the old couple became.

"Okay, don't be sad, what I mean by this to you now is that you don't always blindly hide anything from your uncle and aunt in the future, if there is anything that is not too serious, they will give you advice and spit out after listening, it's always very good, you don't always think that they are careless, where are parents who don't worry about it Now you and I are both mothers, do you say that we can still not think about the sake of the child, now we are full of thoughts about the child, Auntie, they all think of us, so don't always think that you can hide everything, don't always think that you can hide everything, they are not stupid, they all eat more salt than you eat rice, do you think you can hide from them? ”

"Of course not, I never wanted to hide it from my parents, I just felt that when the matter was resolved, I always had to find a way to tell them slowly, I had to tell them all these things, I knew in my heart that some things really couldn't be hidden, even if I could barely hide it, there were no impermeable walls in this world, they would always know, and I also knew that they would often call you to care about my condition, but Yanqiao, do you know, When my life is really not going well, I really don't dare to answer my parents' calls, I am worried that I want to cry when I talk and talk, I cry, they are far away over there, isn't that more worried about me, so every time I hang up hastily. ”

Every time, Yang's father and Yang's mother called, sometimes Ling Feihao was really around, and it would be a direct video, which happened to let the two old people take a look at Qing'an, if Ling Feihao was not around, Yang Ling simply said a few words to them, and then hung up the phone, and the video was rarely opened, because he was afraid of being seen through by his mother.

This mother and daughter have been two for so many years, and Yang Ling is almost thirty years old, an expression and a look come out, and Yang's mother can naturally understand it, so Yang Ling generally doesn't let her mother see it.

"I understand, I understand, I am also a mother and a daughter, how can I not understand your mind, I understand, I just think, everyone is smart, uncles and aunts are also professors, their IQ is not low, don't always hide them, they know that you have been hiding it, if you don't want to say anything, what will it be like in your heart, do you say yes, you think about it carefully, when Qing'an grows up in the future, no matter what he will tell you, on the contrary, he is willing to tell his classmates, what will you feel in your heart, do you feel that it will be very uncomfortable for a child to grow up but not want to tell him anything, not to mention that uncles and aunts already know that your relationship with the Ling family is not very good. ”

"Well, I know, it's because I know that my mother understands in her heart that I don't have a good relationship with my in-laws, so I can't tell nonsense in front of them seriously."

"Well, okay, don't be wronged, when you have time, I'll video with your uncle and aunt, let's wait for the matter to be resolved, otherwise I'll take my uncle and aunt over for the New Year, and the two of them will definitely want to spend the New Year with you.";

"Forget it, don't be like that."

As soon as she heard that she was going to pick up her parents to come to celebrate the New Year, Yang Ling hurriedly waved her hand and refused: "Don't, what about this New Year, if they can join us, they will naturally be very happy, but what, do you think my parents can be happy when they come here?" As far as the Ling family looks like now, my mother-in-law probably hasn't figured it out yet, and when my parents come, the two families are still unhappy, in that case, it's better not to come, I think so, after the first day of the new year, Ling Feihao and I took Qing'an home to visit my parents, and didn't come back until fifteen or sixteen, in this way, it can be regarded as compensating them, Ling Feihao is not a big deal in the company now, let's go back to live for a while, and wait until that time, I can tell my mom everything. "Romance

"Well, that's fine."

After listening to Yang Ling's arrangement, Lin Yanqiao nodded in agreement: "It's really good for you to be like this, it's good, how do you plan to go back, tell me too, if it doesn't work, we will also go over with Hitomi and Rongrong, anyway, my mother is not at home during the New Year, and there are only a few of us at home." ”

"Where's Auntie?"

"Of course, I went to the United States with Uncle Liu, I said over there a few days ago, saying that Uncle Liu's son didn't have time to come back for the New Year, and I hope that the two of them will celebrate the New Year together, no, Uncle Liu misses his son, and wants to go over to accompany his son for the New Year, my mother didn't follow the past, in fact, you said, why should my mother follow others to join in the fun, how good it is to celebrate the New Year with us at home, two children, the confinement sister-in-law has been busy for so long, and she hasn't had a holiday, this is the New Year, I can't always let people go home, naturally I want to let people go home, so Luo Zongjin and I will be miserable, originally I wanted to go to the United States with my mother, but I didn't let go, I guess we were too annoying, and we were finally free for a few days. ”

"Hahaha, if you say so, then don't go to Wuhan with me, I can't stand it, when the time comes, these three children, we really can't see it, but there are so many servants in your Luo family, isn't it okay to transfer one temporarily, why do you have to work so hard?"

"Transfer one? One was transferred from the Ling family to show you the child, are you willing to rest assured? This month's sister-in-law I use it very handy, taking care of the child is still very professional, I don't want to be someone else, after all, Rong Rong is still so small, if it is replaced by someone else, I worry every day, it is better for me to take care of it myself, although it will be more tired, but fortunately, I can rest assured, is it, of course, the child born by myself is still raised by myself. ”

"Anyway, there are many choices, if it really doesn't work, you coquettish let your aunt accompany you here for the New Year, I can't, then the sister-in-law will also have to take a vacation, just me and Ling Feihao two people to watch the child, the first day of the Chinese New Year's Eve will definitely go back."

"How embarrassing is that?"

Listening to Yang Ling's words, Lin Yanqiao couldn't help frowning: "You said, the matter of the hostess of the Ling family hasn't been said yet, if you go back like this, wouldn't it be too embarrassing, when the time comes, your mother-in-law and sister-in-law won't give you a good face, so what's the point of you going back?" ”

"No, I think so too, I told Ling Feihao, I said otherwise, let him take Qing'an home, I stay alone, isn't it just a Chinese New Year's Eve, I don't worry that I will be too lonely, but do you know what Ling Feihao said?"

"If you don't go home for the New Year, you must go back, and the New Year should be a time when the family is lively and lively together."

"You're so smart."

After listening to Lin Yanqiao's words, Yang Ling was excited and had to be convinced: "What you said is exactly the same as what Ling Feihao said, Ling Feihao said so, he said that he must go back, and I don't want everyone to be unhappy during the New Year, so I can only agree, but Ling Feihao promised me that he would definitely let them agree before the year, in this way, I became the mistress of the Ling family, and my sister-in-law didn't dare to show off her power in front of me, and my mother-in-law probably wouldn't give me a look. Then this year's New Year is when I have a long face, although let's say, I don't rarely take care of those things of the Ling family, but if I take care of it, I can make my mother-in-law more restrained, and let them all take me seriously, wouldn't that be good? ”

"Of course, that's great, there's nothing better than that."

"That's fine, since you've said so, then I'm relieved, but there's one more thing I have to tell you, at first, I didn't want to talk about those things, but now I feel like it's time to say it, if I don't say it again, I guess I'll be crazy."

"Crazy what, is there anything else going to happen here?"