Ran Xuemei smiled bitterly: "Misunderstanding? It's all up to that extent, what else is there to misunderstand, if she didn't really go too far, could someone hire someone to splash her with sulfuric acid?

Fortunately, she hid quickly that day, escaped to the car in time, and closed the door so that she was not splashed. The car door was burned with sulfuric acid to look like that, if this was splashed on the face, how could it be done?

But even so, she doesn't learn her lesson, the more she plays cross-country, you and Uncle Chen really have no way at all. ”

I don't know much at persuasion, when Ran Xuemei said this, I listened quietly, trying not to interject, and I really didn't know what to say.

Ran Xuemei wiped her tears and continued: "Actually, my daughter was quite cute when she was a child, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, white and pure, whoever sees it in the village will praise a few words, even if the passers-by you don't know see it, they have to take a few more looks, saying that they have never seen such a likable little girl, don't be the seven fairies in the sky running down."

When we were in elementary school, we often went home to get awards, and the teachers praised her every day, saying that she had strong organizational skills, and she was asked to be the class leader every year.

Having such an outstanding child, I naturally have a light on my face, although in the village, many people think that it is okay not to have a son, but my daughter is so competitive, and I have never felt that I will be inferior in front of those who have sons.

The neighbors all said that I had accumulated virtue and done good deeds in my previous life, so I could have such a good child in this life.

I'm not afraid of your jokes when I say it, when we Xiaoya didn't graduate from junior high school, someone in the village came to the door to propose marriage and wanted to marry us. ”

When she said this, Ran Xuemei seemed to have returned to the happy and warm days before, full of sunshine, laughter and praise, and a gentle smile appeared on her face.

But I have to say that the woman's storytelling is really procrastinating, and she has been talking for a long time, and her daughter has not graduated from junior high school.

Seeing Ran Xuemei's haggard and melancholy face, there was a rare hint of color, and I didn't dare to urge her, just let her immerse herself in the past happiness for a while.

No matter how unsuccessful their children are, parents can always remember their best moments, just like when I went to high school, my grades were worse day by day, but my mother was still so intoxicated when she mentioned my glory in elementary and junior high school.

Ran Xuemei recalled for a while, and continued: "But since she entered high school, Xiaoya has changed, she has become vain, she has begun to compare, and she has begun to complain that the poverty of this family makes her unable to raise her head in front of her classmates.

Then she started to put on makeup, she started to skip school, she started to be with some people who were not self-motivated, and when we persuaded her, she actually said that we don't deserve such a good daughter.

said that her father and I were more unmotivated than those gangsters, and after so many years of knowing that we could drive a broken car, we could only nest in the village, and we couldn't even afford a house in the city.

Saying that we are patriarchal, that we don't work hard because we didn't have a son, that we don't earn money well, that we were like when she was born, that we were like when she was eighteen years old, not only did we not make any progress at all, but we regressed.

Said that if she was a boy, we would have worked hard to earn money in order to marry a daughter-in-law for our son, but she was a girl, and the two of us would be lazy, and we would live day by day when we were full and dark.

said that she worked so hard and hard since she was a child, and made unimaginable efforts, but she still couldn't get the respect of her classmates and the recognition of her teachers, just because she had a pair of parents who couldn't do it.

said that we did not help her at all on the road of her life, but dragged her back everywhere, did not provide her with a step to step on the way up, but dug a pit behind her.

It is really pitiful and funny to say that we want a house without a house, a car without a car, a deposit without a deposit, and a driver who has been old for more than ten years, and he doesn't even have a car.

She put in the effort and took the pressure, but we just sat back and enjoyed the glory, and instead of feeling guilty, we felt that everything was taken for granted. We don't deserve compliments, we don't deserve to be praised because we don't give anything more than other children's parents.

Heaven and earth conscience, we really never think that she is a girl and do not value her, she is the treasure of both of us, the glory of both of us, this has never changed in our hearts.

We don't know why our well-behaved, cute, smart and sensible daughter suddenly became like that.

Her father and I are not highly educated, and we can't say a word when she robs us.

Her father was very angry and scolded her, she left in anger and didn't go home for half a year, I went to school to see her a few times, and her attitude has been cold.

I asked her if she was missing anything in school. She said that she lacked nothing but money, and that as long as she had money, she could buy anything.

I gave her money, but I could tell from her expression that she was very dissatisfied with the amount I gave, and even felt that the money was really pitiful, and that it was embarrassing.

But I really don't have much more to give her, our income is not high, her father and I still have to live, and she has to go to college, which must cost more than high school, so we can't help but save up in advance.

I also went to her homeroom teacher and asked the teacher how the originally good child had become like this in their school.

As a result, the teacher also counted me down, saying that I would not educate children, and now he didn't dare to let those students with good grades get too close to Xiaoya, for fear that Xiaoya would bring those good students badly.

I was really desperate at the time, I also understand the truth of the red and the black of the close to the ink, our Xiaoya is not bad in nature, she is just angry with me and her father, the teacher and classmates take her in a better direction, she will definitely be able to change back, but the teacher actually treats her as a piece of ink, afraid that she will dye others black, and let her be with those scum doors who have no future and no hope all day long, how can this child not be destroyed.

The child still has to go to school in other people's schools, and I can't do anything about her homeroom teacher, I can only say a lot of good things, hoping that she can help Xiaoya, Xiaoya is really not a bad child.

But the teacher was just perfunctory to me, and when I went to see Xiaoya for the second time, I found that she was still in the bad boy's dormitory, and the seats in the classroom were still in the corner of the poor students, and none of the students next to her were willing to listen carefully.

I went to the teacher again, hoping that the teacher would make adjustments, but the teacher still said that he was afraid that Xiaoya would affect other students.

I asked the teacher, what about my child, is it just like that?

As a result, the teacher said that he didn't want any student to be left behind, but he also had to take care of the overall situation, the essence of every child is not bad, every parent wants their children to be more cared for by the teacher, and hopes that their children are surrounded by the best students, but there is no way to take care of everyone in the school, and the teacher's energy is limited.

If you want to make progress and change, you have to let the teacher see the determination of the child and the parents first, and the teacher is willing to give any student a chance, but will not waste time and energy on those students who don't know how to cherish it.

I asked the teacher, in his eyes, is our Xiaoya the kind of person who doesn't know how to cherish? In his eyes, is our Xiaoya already hopeless?

The teacher said that I know what a child is like.

When I wanted to argue with the teacher again, the teacher said that he was going to class and asked me to go back first, I said I would wait for him to get out of class, but the teacher said that it was useless for me to talk to him no matter how much I said, if I wanted to talk, I should spend more time talking to Xiaoya.

Xiaoya doesn't want to talk to me at all, how can I talk to her, how can I persuade her?

It dragged on like this, until the college entrance examination, fortunately, Xiaoya's foundation is good, even if she doesn't study well, she made do with being admitted to a school, her father and I didn't dare to pick and choose, and happily sent her to college, I thought that everything could change a little when I went to college, but as a result, this was the beginning of the nightmare. ”

I also just graduated from high school, I can understand what Ran Xuemei said, I have seen such students, I have seen such teachers, and I have heard of such parents.