"But it's really a headache for you, having a child at that time was also an accident, and choosing to be born was also a decision at that time, but in the body, the first period of time after that was really difficult, after all, I never had a child, but it was only later that I slowly got used to it."

For Xiao Nizi, a person who has never given birth to a child and has never brought a child, if a child suddenly comes, the original opportunity for the two of them will be broken in the life between her and her fiancé, plus it is the first time to be a father and a mother without much experience, it is inevitable that there will be some nervousness.

"But the headache now is that neither of you has the idea of having a child at all, if you get pressure from the family, and the two of you suddenly have a child, it will also disrupt your original rhythm of life." Mo Xialan knew very well that when a child first came to this world, it was a little difficult to bring.

You know, a small child doesn't understand anything, and if he is a little older, he doesn't understand right and wrong, so it is very likely that what is right in the world of children is that in the world of adults, he thinks that eating something unreasonable is to eat something.

In addition, Xiao Nizi's career is thriving now, if this game is popular, then Xiao Nizi's popularity will be pushed out a lot, and then there will be more and more projects in this company, and then it will be too busy, in such a situation, if you have children, you will really be helpless.

"Yes, the reason why I'm worried is that I'm afraid of having children, and the original life plans of the two of us will be disrupted in the future, plus I have a company now, if I have children, does it mean that I can't come to work in the company and have to take care of the children at home."

As long as Xiao Nizi thinks about going home to take care of the child when the child is born, it is a special headache, after all, designing games is her only hobby. This hobby was finally regarded as unemployed, and no matter how you say it, you have to give full play to your true strength.

But this has just started a company, and it hasn't really reflected its strength, so do you have to go back to take care of your children? For Xiao Nizi, this is unwilling to say that, at home, the children have also spent some time, and they have spent some time in the company, so it is better to use some of these times to play their true strength.

"I'm just starting out in this career, and if the two of us had children at the peak of my career, wouldn't it be even more regrettable?" When I said this, I thought that the expression on your face immediately became a little nervous, after all, it was extremely difficult for her to get to this point.

If you give up all of these words because of a child, it is a pity for Xiao Nizi, but everyone says that during this period of time when the child grows up, it must be the fastest time for the parents, so between the two, you will hesitate to think of this kind of thing, and I don't know what to do.

Therefore, when she thinks of these things, Xiao Nizi's mood will become particularly anxious, since there are so many things to worry about, why should she get married? But if you don't get married, you can't do it, after all, Xiao Nizi especially wants to marry Shi Sheng at this time.

When she saw Xiao Nizi so anxious, Mo Xialan touched Xiao Nizi's head with her hand and then looked at you and said gently: "I want to leave my job, in fact, I can fully understand what you said, after all, you have never been a mother, but from my experience, I actually think that career and family are both very important." ”

"Sister Xia Lan, of course I can know that both of these are very important, but if you want to think that when the child is born, how can I still have the energy to take care of my career? In addition, this company has just started, if I have it, won't this company be in my hands? ”

Speaking of this, Xiao Nizi really can't imagine how things will develop next, if you have to take care of the children and the company, then these two things are not good at doing anything?

"It looks like your main mind now is still on your career, so it's better to have a showdown with your family as soon as you two get married, tell you when the two of you plan to have a child, talk to everyone, discuss it with your family, and then make future plans for you."

Mo Xialan has been able to know by now that in fact, having a child is not a matter for the two of them, it is a matter for the two families, but now Shi Sheng's parents are no longer in this world, so now it has become a matter of Xiao Nizi's parents and the two of them.

You know, if Xiao Nizi gives birth to a child, the parents who want to leave the job will be very happy, and will help with the child, after all, it is her only daughter who was born, and the child will definitely be loved.

"Yes, my headache is whether to have children now, it's not up to the two of us to have the final say, it's up to my parents, if my parents have to have a child between the two of us, it's impossible for the two of us to refuse. That's why I'm having such a headache at this time. ”

In fact, Xiao Nizi and Shi Sheng had talked about this topic together, and at that time, the idea of the two people was to want to have a few more years in the two-person world, but although both of them wanted to live in the two-person world, but Xiao Nizi's parents did not necessarily have such thoughts, maybe her parents wanted to envy the two of them to have a child quickly.

So whenever Xiao Nizi thinks of this, she will have a special headache, at her current age, most of what she wants to protect is her own career, and she has always had a wish that she hopes to restore the past glory of the Ning family, originally the purpose of her first entry into the Leng Group was to restore the glory of the Ning family in the past.

Now that I have finally climbed to this position, how can I say that I will give up? Besides, if you give up this rare opportunity now, it will be difficult for you to start a business again in the future, after all, the times have been advancing, and you will not stop waiting for her.

When she heard Xiao Nizi say these words, Mo Xialan couldn't help but laugh, she really didn't expect that when she first met Xiao Nizi, she was just a little girl who had never been in love, and she was about to get married in a blink of an eye, and even began to arrange to have a child.