Lin Ying and Cheng gradually are actually from the same town, but they have never crossed paths before.

"I'm not, I'm just different from you, I want to live my life step by step, I've thought about what to do at what age, how can you be sure that the person you marry in the future is the person you like now? In case the door is not the right household in the future, and there is a difference in three views, it is difficult to maintain the marriage. ”

Lin Ying and Zhong Xiaoman glanced at each other, Lin Ying suddenly opened his eyes, and continued: "I just found out, how do you give people a feeling of seeing through the red dust? Why are you still so conservative? The right door? Is it okay to be free to marry and love now? ”

"Wrong!" Cheng is not an argumentative person, but on this issue, she insists on her opinion, "Although the door is very conservative, it is very important, although modern marriage is free, but think about a girl with a new Chinese background marrying into a doctoral family, what is her situation in this family?" ”

Zhong Xiaoman thought for a while and said: "From two aspects, the doctor's family is either poor and white, and the son is smart and hard working to become a doctor, and the other is a doctor who has been trained by the family environment. ”

"From the perspective of the relationship between quantitative change and qualitative change, girls are ignorant, inferior, less knowledgeable, have a small vision, a small pattern, men are knowledgeable, confident, more informed, have a broad vision, and a large pattern. When Lin Ying thought of this, he suddenly felt like an initiation.

"So, imagine that a man and a group of elites speak fluent English, and a woman can only chew dialects or even non-standard Mandarin on the side, if you were that woman, even if you liked it again, would you marry that man?" Cheng asked after gradually summarizing and giving examples.

"No!" Lin Ying and Zhong Xiaoman replied in unison.

"Therefore, in the future, I will find a man with the same education as me, the same three views, and the right person, instead of wasting time here now. Those people in the TV series who were originally excellent but gave up a good future for each other, I think it's too stupid! If you become good enough, the other party will die, but you give up yourself to achieve others, and in the end he and others will fly together, but you can only nest in the corners, why bother? And there is no such person in reality. ”

At this time, they realized that Cheng gradually did not have too high IQ and emotional intelligence, but that she always understood what she wanted and had been working hard for it.

In contrast, he is the stupidest person.

I didn't like to fall asleep in the bed at all, and I was already in tears at the moment.

She didn't know why she was crying, but thinking back to those words just now, and then linking herself and Gu Yiran, she felt more and more that she and Gu Yiran were true portrayals.

Gu Yiran is destined to be extraordinary, he will go to university, graduate school, master's degree, doctorate, or even higher, and himself, if he can't get into a good university, he can't find a good job, and in the end he can only be a workman who does nothing, and struggles for a house, a car, and a family all his life.