Chapter 491: Gu Chenyan's Confession
"Miao Miao, don't envy others, we look very good."
Gu Chenyan could see what Wang Miaomiao was envious of, now he didn't want his women to envy others, who made him such a temper all the time, he didn't want his women to yearn for other people's lives, he just wanted his people to live the happiest life in the world.
Wang Miaomiao didn't want to pay attention to him, there was nothing good about this kind of life, it was a mess.
But Wang Miaomiao didn't know that his attitude towards Gu Chenyan was no longer so repulsive, so at this time, the flowers of the two people were like flirting in Aunt Liu's ears, and their attitude was like being angry and not being angry, which made outsiders a little confused, but fortunately, Aunt Liu stayed in this family for so long, until the personalities of these two people.
"Everyone has their own way of life, these lifestyles determine the yearning for the future, in fact, different people's requirements are different, for example, I think you are happy with you now, there is no need to envy others, there are many people in this world who really love each other, but in the end they still can't go together, this kind of life is not suitable for everyone, so you have to know what you really want, you know that this life is not suitable for you."
Aunt Liu said meaningfully, she hopes that after saying this today, they can think clearly, really don't waste the good time, otherwise there is really no fun to live like this, Aunt Liu will think about when the things of this day should start, when to end, and when will the relationship between the two masters be able to return to the previous state.
Wang Miaomiao and Gu Chenyan listened carefully, the words of the elders always have more truth, these truths are all realized by them in their lives, so even if it is ugly, it is best to listen carefully, lest in the end it is really not to listen to the old man and suffer in front of him.
"Aunt Liu, what do you think is the most comfortable state for two people to be together, or how to judge whether two people are suitable."
Wang Miaomiao raised questions about her life, and now she is wondering what she wants and what these things will eventually metamorphose.
"Sometimes two people may not want to love, but often in the end they will get used to the existence of another person, this existence is a special existence, he will make you feel at ease, let you find the direction of life, and the result is that this feeling will become love. There are many ways to express love, the love in your young people's mouth is nothing more than more external or internal appreciation, love at first sight is of course beautiful, but after a series of life baptisms such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, you will realize that not all love at first sight will have good results. ”
Aunt Liu is like a person with a story, and what she said made Wang Miaomiao feel a little depressed.
"Aunt Liu, how did you and your lover meet?"
Wang Miaomiao was a little curious, Gu Chenyan was also attracted by Aunt Liu's words, although they are not very young at this age, it is rare for them to say such profound words, and it is possible to say such insightful words only after they have personal experience.
"Me and him, it's not the love that you young people call it, I and he were introduced by my parents."
Aunt Liu's expression fell into memory.
Wang Miaomiao and the others didn't speak, not wanting to disturb Aunt Liu's memories at the moment.
"I didn't meet him before we got married, and we didn't have any emotional foundation between us."
Wang Miaomiao was a little surprised, she never thought that she would live with a completely strange man, she couldn't stand such days, when she married Gu Qing, the two of them didn't have any contact in their private lives, otherwise Wang Miaomiao would definitely not be able to stand it, if it weren't for her little girl, she wouldn't have been able to swallow her anger and stay in the Gu family's old mansion for so long. Endure everyone's humiliation, she can endure the rest, but if it touches her bottom line, she will definitely not agree.
Gu Chenyan didn't react much, he had already seen the warmth and coldness of the world, he knew how cruel it was in that era, all the warmth and coldness of people were not reflected at all in that era, everyone was just for survival.
Aunt Liu's situation was no surprise at that time, because everyone was generally influenced by that era, and these things were very feudal, so now they are free in love and free in marriage, these things are hard-won, and they are also the desire of everyone's hearts, and they don't feel how worthy of respect was in the feudal times before.
It's just that there used to be a good habit, that is, what is broken is to be replaced instead of replaced.
"You may not have too intuitive feelings, your grandmother's situation is only a minority, in that era, only powerful people can control their own destiny, we ordinary people can't play and control their own lives at all, only let people take control, such a fate is no one can contend with."
Wang Miaomiao had only heard Aunt Liu happily talk about her life before, could it be that this kind of life is what Aunt Liu is pursuing?
Wang Miaomiao didn't understand, it was clear that Aunt Liu's state was not like she was miserable before, but she was more satisfied than her, but now she told her that her marriage was completely involuntary, and she hadn't even met before marriage.
"Then you are living so happily now, did you meet the right person?"
Wang Miaomiao was very curious, she and Gu Chenyan had such a deep relationship and now encountered such a thing, could it be that Aunt Liu's life was so beautiful and harmonious.
Aunt Liu looked at Wang Miaomiao, she knew what Miao Miao was thinking, she just smiled gently, these questions sounded like the kind of youth that she had a long time ago at her age, love, this thing is an ethereal thing, such a thing does not exist really, everyone does not know what love really looks like, and their definition of love is not the same, what kind of love is the love in people's hearts.
"Miao Miao, what does love look like in your mind, do you think that just the feeling of falling in love when two people meet is love?"
Wang Miaomiao didn't know the answer to this question, and she didn't know how to answer it, such a question was like asking her, what kind of love the relationship between her and Gu Chenyan belonged to, and it was difficult to explain the relationship in words.
Wang Miaomiao was silent, Gu Chenyan was also silent, such a question full of life philosophy is really difficult for them to answer now, if it were before, maybe they would answer this question very firmly, but now that so many things have passed, it is no longer possible to explain it clearly in a few simple words.
"I don't know."