At the end of the day, a woman needs someone to accompany her, and that person can be her husband or her own children.

I sat on the bed with my knees folded and began to understand why so many women only care about their children after marriage and ignore their husbands, because children take the place of husbands, and children can stay by their side faithfully and without any choice.

I decided right now that I wouldn't be that woman.

Early the next morning, I encouraged Ah Dong to continue to go on a blind date. Ah Dong agreed.

"Don't be perfunctory to me!" I said, "Everywhere you go, how can you always look like you're rejecting people thousands of miles away?" Feelings need to get along, you will never have a chance if you don't get along, you have to give others a chance, and give yourself a chance. ”

Ah Dong responded, and the servant said that Ah Dong did not worry about finding a daughter-in-law, and she wanted to marry him if she was a few years younger.

These words made Ah Dong's face crimson.

"And," I said to Adong, "I'm almost out of confinement, and it's time to find a reliable babysitter." ”

Adong's eyes widened in surprise. Said he didn't agree with that.

"Most of today's young people have no responsibility, and after giving birth, they are like crabs that have thrown off seeds, throwing children like burdens to their parents or nannies. If a nanny or grandparent can replace their parents, then what do they need their parents to do? ”

"What then? You and I both have to go to work. ”

Neither of us paid attention to each other's words, but Bladeface and the servant quickly exchanged glances, and we realized that there was something wrong with what we had just said.

"Besides, you little uncle, we can't bear to delay you." I hurriedly remedied.

Adong is not stupid, and he is also busy seeing the wind and making the rudder.

"No matter what, the two of us have the same surname, how can I not care about my brother's biological flesh and blood!"

"In this case, I'll figure it out." He said.

Adong's next blind date was not very smooth, it can be said that it didn't go well at all, he was even notorious in the blind date world, all kinds of non-cooperation, so that I offended all my so-called female friends, no one was willing to care about his business anymore, which gave me a headache.

Fortunately, the long confinement period is coming to an end, and on the end of the day, Adong is going to make him a full moon wine, these are all things they are busy with, and I don't have to interfere or worry at all. I was very happy to finally be able to take a shower after the confinement period, but this month has made me fat enough, and I complained to Ah Dong that I could no longer wear the clothes I used to wear.

Ah Dong looked at me and smirked, saying that he didn't think I was very fat, so it was just right, I looked thin-------

Then he stopped, and I knew very well the second half of what he was about to say, and that second half of the sentence was: Touch the flesh.

What is the ...... It's a little ambiguous, and I used my face to warn Ah Dong not to say such things in the future, especially in front of people.

He was a well-informed man after all, and he went out with the child in his arms, and then obediently shut up all day, panting in front of me as if he was cautious. So I began to blame myself again in my heart, thinking that he would pay it back

It's young, open-mouthed, and there's really no real malice.

I said I want to lose weight, Adong smiled and said that he supported, so the responsibility of taking care of the child was on his shoulders, I wondered that he didn't feel tired, I see that many young or middle-aged mothers are complaining that they are single parenting, which makes them very tired and confused, not only feel that they are married to the wrong person, but also feel that the whole life is not right.

Men should join the parenting army, which will not only give women more time to take care of themselves, but also make them feel loved and valued by their husbands.

That's the point.

But I feel that sometimes I am spoiled by men like Ah Dong, because I find that I am more and more lazy, and I start to rely on and count on him for everything.

This is not a very good sign. But on the other hand, I inexplicably look forward to such a day without stopping.

After all, the full moon wine didn't do it, because Gao Tiancheng was not there, I don't want everyone to ask questions, and the combination of me and Adong will definitely lead countless people to reverie, the imagination of the Chinese people and the things that can be done after eating enough to do nothing I know very well, I don't want to talk about them after dinner.

The process of losing weight was not easy, I was hungry all the time, and it was not easy to endure hunger. Ah Dong said I don't have to suffer.

The nanny still didn't look for it, we went to work with a knife face, and then added a small bed in my office, and the child became everyone's public toy, in short, anyone could come in and hold him for a while or tease him for a while, of course, the most hugging him was Adong.

Ah Dong even took him to talk to a client once, and the client was still a woman, so he signed a large order to him because of this.

Ah Dong came back and talked about it, and there are countless girls in the company who regard Ah Dong as a male god, and they often come to my office, or go to Ah Dong's office, especially during the lunch break, I think Ah Dong's office is about to become a Lichun courtyard.

Sometimes even I, the real mother, want to hug the child, but I don't have the opportunity at all, I can't intervene at all, and I can't even squeeze into the crowd at all.

What's more, Ah Dong will shout at me at this time, asking me to make up for a nap.

Make up for it!

I was resentful, but I couldn't do anything about it.

One day after work, I said, "Ah Dong, I think you're actually the most ill-intentioned."

He said what's wrong?

I said you were obviously using my son as a prop to attract those wild bees and butterflies.

He was silent, and the next day there were far fewer girls in his and my office, and in a few days the dawn was quiet in both of our offices, and I don't know what he was up to, and I was joking with him, I didn't expect him to be so serious.

It is said that he was talking to the girls with a tiger face.

I regretted it a little and told Ah Dong that he didn't have to, I was just joking.

He said that there were too many people, and that the makeup on their faces or the breath they exhaled could make the baby sick.

He said I was right, he shouldn't have taken that risk, at the time

It's that he's a little bit ill-conceived.

I said that there are also good girls in our company, such as Xiao Zhang, Xiao Zhao and Xiao Wang, you can consider it.

He didn't speak, he hit the steering wheel, and the car merged into the busy traffic like a tailfish.

One day, Ah Dong went out again after arriving home, and he was very depressed for a few days, and I felt that something must have happened, and I guessed that something had happened to the woman who had been bothering him.

If you can't love, people will want to get it more and more.

I understand him.

So on the fourth night, when he was going out, I quietly moved the child's cot from his room to mine.

He came home in the middle of the night and went to his room first, and then pounced on my room, he even forgot to knock on the door, and I was changing in my room, because the child had just soiled my clothes, I took a shower, thinking that he finally fell asleep, and I had limited time, how long would it take to change clothes? So three down five divided by two.

But at this time, Ah Dong broke in.

The clear moonlight poured in through the thin curtain through the window, he may have drunk, the lamp in the hall reflected his silhouette very clearly, I heard the gasp in his chest, and then he turned back and went out, and slammed the door shut, but this time he woke up the sleeping child, and he heard the child's cry outside, and I hurriedly changed my clothes, and I heard his footsteps outside, like a sleepy beast.

I walked to the door with my child in my arms, but I didn't have the courage to open the door, and I felt more and more that it was not a long-term solution to be alone in the same room, and I was afraid that the neighbors would gossip after a long time, and besides, the child would grow up day by day.

I'm a little upset.

Then he finally couldn't help it, and asked me in a loud voice outside, "Okay?" ”

I said, "Okay." ”

He pushed the door in, took the child, nursed him, and put him to sleep, and when he fell asleep, he pushed up the little bed without saying a word.

I held on to the edge of the cot and said that it would be better for him to sleep in my room in the future, and I could. And, can't always count on you, you have your own life.

He said, no, my life is him.

I said that's not going to work, you're still young. You have your own ------ life.

When he saw that I insisted on my opinion, he didn't force it, and went back to his room by himself, and then he came back and sat on the edge of my bed, and he said, "Chen Baihe is dead." ”

"Dead?" I almost screamed.

He looked down, "After separating from me, she chose to continue to be the mistress of the top boss." Maybe only in this way can she be anesthetized and let her forget the pain of frustration in love, and later, she was pregnant with a child but she didn't know that outside the uterus, when she was sent to the hospital, she was no longer dead. ”

Ah Dong cried.

I don't know how to comfort her, such a vivid life, I can't believe it's gone.

I finally knew what he had been busy with and what he was sad about.

He's going to blame himself!

He put his elbows to his knees. "The man was a brute, and she told him that his stomach hurt, but he still untied himself

Own trouser belt. He just plays with her, and uses her as a tool for venting and adjusting. ”

"Adong."

I stood across from him and put my hand on his seemingly broad shoulder, and he finally let out a low whimper, then wrapped his arms around my waist and buried his whole head in my arms.

"Adong."

I say. Gently stroking his hair, Chen Baihe's face became clear in front of my eyes, and it became distant, I remembered the last time I saw her, her long hair, and her white little face was more and more delicate by the long hair on both sides, such a girl.

"It's not all your responsibility."

I say.

His tears soaked my clothes. It took a long time for him to look up, he stood up, he was much taller than me, he looked down at me, and then, with his head down, pushed me away, and walked straight out of my room.

But after a while, he pushed the door open again and came in, and he said that he couldn't sleep by himself, and I didn't insist anymore, and he pushed the child out.

A few days later, Ah Dong told me that he helped the bastard Chen Baihe follow find a woman. AIDS, he spent a lot of money and a lot of trouble to find such a woman.

I don't know what to say.

Maybe it will make him feel better.

Maybe.

After the Chen Baihe incident, I never forced him to go on a blind date. He put all his mind on the child and the company, without Xiao Han getting in the way, Zhang's family began to have a dominant momentum, but this company didn't even have a dime of his shares, so I planned to give him a little shares, even if it was a little bit, but he didn't want it, he said he wasn't for this.

What's that for?

(End of chapter)