Chapter 552
In fact, this method was proposed by Mei Xiaotong at the beginning, and then he thought it was good and continued it.
It's good to exchange your efforts for what you like, even if you don't get it again, it's to test the children's hearts and let them continue to work hard, but in the end, it's ......
When Xiao Qi told him, he cried, which is why there is a picture of him holding Xiao Qi, because Xiao Qi cried very sadly, so he hugged Xiao Qi and coaxed.
Xiao Qi's father and mother were silent, and Xiao Qi was close to Ji Ziqing's side, holding his painting tightly in his hand.
"I know what you think, I'm worried that Xiao Qi is not as good as his senior brother, but have you ever thought that Xiao Qi is the youngest among them, such a young child, shouldn't you encourage him to learn this level?" Ji Ziqing looked at Xiao Qi's father.
"We ...... I'm sorry. ”
"If you want to say sorry that the person is not me, I understand that I want my son to become a dragon, but you also think about them, they are just children, not adults, their future still has infinite possibilities, if you just want them to learn without listening to them, then what is the difference with the dead? He only knows how to listen to orders, and does not have any spirituality. Ji Ziqing said with a frown.
Zhao Wei sighed: "Ziqing, what you said is right, it was our fault before, and it was our mistake that we thought wrong." ”
"yes, we ......"
Everyone felt that they didn't have the face to say such things anymore, how could they do such a thing?
"Master is the best." Xiao Qi hugged Ji Ziqing's arm, raised his head and said seriously: "Shi Niang is also the best." ”
Stretched out his hand and touched Xiao Qi's head: "Xiao Qi and Senior Brother Let's go play." ”
Ji Ziqing looked up at Song Min and them: "You go to play by yourself, or go to find Guoguo." ”
"It's Master."
When Song Min walked to the door, he suddenly turned his head to look at his father: "Dad, I know that you want me to become a talent, and I have been working hard to achieve your wishes, whether it is when I meet the master, or when I don't meet it, but after meeting the master, you pay more attention to what I have learned, chatting with me is only about learning, and I want to tell you about other things, you think this is not a proper job, and slowly I won't tell you, because you don't want to know." ”
Song Min's father opened his mouth and wanted to say something, but when he saw Song Min like that, he couldn't say anything.
"You say that we like Master, we like Master, in addition to teaching us skills, he will also teach us the principles of life, will also play with us, listen to us talk about the things we experience every day, this time the four of us brothers and sisters came back from outside, Master spent four hours to listen to what we have done outside, what we have experienced, if it is you, will you listen?" Song Min looked at his father calmly.
"Well, when Master listens to us, he will ask questions, like a normal chat, and he won't let us talk about these things unilaterally, and he will show great interest in our things, instead of following
You are just as perfunctory. Zhao Bin said after Song Min finished speaking.
"We want a dad who can share everything with us, not just our grades, but since you only want to pay attention to these things, then we just need to tell you, and as for what you don't want to know, we don't need to tell you, right?" Xiao Wu spoke silently at this time.
Everyone present except for Ji Ziqing and his wife lowered their heads when they heard the words of a few children, feeling that they were going to have no face to see anyone.
"Okay, go and do your own thing." Ji Ziqing looked at the children and said with a frown.
"Then Master, let's go look for Guoguo."
"Go ahead."
Zhao Wei and the others were silent, although Zhao Bin was not so good and naughty before, but they didn't ask for much, so they thought, it's good that this child can be motivated, but when did this child change? No, it doesn't seem like the children have changed, it's them who have changed.
They have become more demanding of their children, and their eyes have become picky, so that children don't like to stay at home and don't like to talk to them, whose fault is this? It's not the child's fault, because the child is good enough, it's their fault, their vision has changed.
Mei Xiaotong looked at them like this: "What they want is actually very simple, I just hope that when I share my daily things with you, you can listen to them, and when you like them, you can give them a word of encouragement when they are improving, which is very important to them." ”
Zhao Wei said with a very complicated heart: "We know, I just hope they will need us." ”
"Father's love and mother's love will not be delayed at any time, if you want your children to change, then change yourself first." Mei Xiaotong said with a smile.
Song Min's father said with a headache: "These are not problems, the problem is that Song Min and they are not willing to tell us these things now." ”
"They don't want to say, you can take the initiative to ask, show that you are very interested in their affairs, once it doesn't work, twice, twice, three times, after a long time, they will always tell you." Mei Xiaotong shrugged her shoulders and said casually.
Zhao Wei thought about it and felt that it was the same reason: "We are still jealous of Ziqing, but the funny thing is that we pushed the child away by ourselves." ”
"yes, it's all our fault."
Mei Xiaotong looked at them as if the sky was falling, and the corners of her mouth twitched slightly: "I said you are enough, right?" Let me make it clear to you, we're only two months away, and it's hard to say when we'll be back, at least not for a year. ”
"Huh?" Everyone was dumbfounded.
"What are you guys? You can find a way to get along with them for these two months, and how far you can get along depends on your own ability. Mei Xiaotong shrugged her shoulders and said directly.
It's just that why is this so much unpleasant? What do you mean by being able to count yourself?
"Can't you give us an idea?" Everyone looked at Feng Qi with a very expectant look
The corners of Yue's mouth twitched slightly, what was going on with these people looking at him with such expressions? Is it what you want her to do? But it's useless for her to help with these things.
"These things are up to you." Ji Ziqing seemed to see Mei Xiaotong's headache, and immediately spoke.
Mei Xiaotong nodded hurriedly: "Ziqing is right, it's all up to you, you can use your own wisdom, of course, if you can make the relationship between yourself and your children darker after you know what these problems are, then I really can't help it." ”
Zhao Wei and his entourage looked at Ji Ziqing and his wife with very depressed eyes: "Can't you help us talk to them?" ”
Mei Xiaotong shook her head gently: "Father and son, the relationship between mother and son, others have no way to help, you can only rely on yourself, think about it yourself, if you really don't know what to do, you can refer to the clear Guoguo at once." ”
"Ziqing, right Guoguo? What does that mean? The crowd was at a loss.
"Ziqing is more spoiled than me when Guoguo is spoiled, but when it should be strict, you are only strict with children, no pampering, pampering is actually a very deep knowledge, blind pampering may ruin a child, restrained pets, and may make children feel that you don't have them in your heart, so think about it yourself." Mei Xiaotong listened to it when everyone was listening carefully.
Everyone looked at Mei Xiaotong depressedly: "Su Ran has a person like you, how can you say this halfway without saying it?" ”
"What does it mean if I tell you everything? It's not that you're building a parent-child relationship with your child, it's doing it step by step according to our words, and it's useless. Mei Xiaotong was completely speechless to them, it was time for her to be lazy, how lazy was she to do such a thing?
Zhao Wei lowered his head embarrassedly, what Mei Xiaotong said was very reasonable, they couldn't do this.
"Okay, we got it."
Zhao Wei and they didn't stay at Mei Xiaotong's house for a long time, and soon left, and when only Mei Xiaotong and Ji Ziqing were left in the house, Mei Xiaotong said very curiously: "Do you say they can understand?" ”
"If we don't understand, we can't do anything, after all, we have said what we should say, and we have said it so clearly, if we don't understand it, then it's not a matter of IQ." Ji Ziqing said with a frown.
If they can't do such a simple thing, then he can only say that they are too stupid.
Mei Xiaotong looked at Ji Ziqing with a headache, and her eyes were helpless: "Ziqing, you give people a little face, you ...... like this"
Ji Ziqing turned his head to look at Mei Xiaotong: "I don't think there's anything wrong with this, after all, we have already said it so clearly, if they still can't understand, then I really have no choice." ”
If it's already like this, and they still can't handle it well, then they really don't blame them.
After thinking about it, Mei Xiaotong felt that what Ji Ziqing said was right, and suddenly stopped it
Said something.
However, thinking of Zhao Wei and them, Mei Xiaotong still asked, "Are you going to help them?" ”
Ji Ziqing thought about it and shook his head decisively: "I don't plan to help, it's their own business, and it's inconvenient for me to interfere." ”
Mei Xiaotong's eyelids twitched slightly, she rolled her eyes very indecently, and said angrily: "I said you're enough, if you want to help them, you can save a lot of things." ”
Ji Ziqing turned his head to look at Mei Xiaotong, and said very seriously: "Why should I help them?" If they hurt their children, they should pay the price, and let them know what it is like to know that they are ignored and ignored. ”
Listening to Ji Ziqing's remarks, Mei Xiaotong suddenly felt that it would be good if he didn't go to the corporal, and it was better not to count on him to help.
"You'd better stop helping." After thinking about it, Mei Xiaotong looked at Ji Ziqing and said seriously.
Ji Ziqing looked at Mei Xiaotong blankly, and asked very strangely, "What is this for?" Why can't you help. ”
"No, I'm just worried that you will make trouble for them when you help, if this is really the case, then Zhao Wei and they will be really unlucky." Mei Xiaotong spread her hands and said seriously.
If Ji Ziqing really wants to meddle or make trouble, then Zhao Wei and they are really going to be unlucky.
Ji Ziqing stretched out his hand and touched his chin, looked at Mei Xiaotong and said thoughtfully: "Su Ran, I think what you said is very right, I should do that." ”
The movements in Mei Xiaotong's hands stiffened, and she looked at Ji Ziqing blankly, and looked at Ji Ziqing in disbelief: "Are you sure?" Or did I hear it wrong? ”
"You heard me right, I'm serious." An obvious smile flashed in Ji Ziqing's eyes, and after seeing Mei Xiaotong's appearance, the smile became even stronger.
Mei Xiaotong looked at Ji Ziqing with a headache: "You better don't say goodbye, forget it if you don't help, and go to the well, if they know, they will have to fight with you." ”
Ji Ziqing came to Mei Xiaotong: "You don't have to worry about this. ”
"......" Mei Xiaotong looked at Ji Ziqing with a headache, if those people came to find something, then what should I do?
"I'm not worried, I'm just thinking, you're so proud, why no one can clean you up." Mei Xiaotong sighed heavily and said helplessly.
If you can, she is really looking at Ji Ziqing's appearance of being cleaned up, it must be very interesting.
Ji Ziqing's eyelids twitched slightly, and the corners of his mouth twitched slightly: "Su Ran is happy to watch his father-in-law being beaten?" ”
Mei Xiaotong thought for a while, then nodded: "Well, you're right, it's always you who clean up people, I definitely want to see you cleaned up." ”
Ji Ziqing looked at Mei Xiaotong with a very serious expression: "Su Ran, I think we should have a good talk." ”
Stretching out his hand to push the person away, Mei Xiaotong looked at Ji Ziqing and said very seriously: "I don't think there is anything to talk about between us." ”
"What did you say?" Ji Ziqing squinted at Mei
Xiaotong seemed to be waiting for her to say it again.
Coughing lightly, Mei Xiaotong found that she seemed to have stepped on Ji Ziqing's bottom line, looking at Ji Ziqing innocently, Mei Xiaotong said blankly: "Did I say anything just now?" ”
Stretching out his hand to pinch Mei Xiaotong's face, Ji Ziqing said angrily: "There will be another time, see how I clean you up." ”
"I'll go outside to take a look in the shop, I don't know if the people of the Sun family have taken the bait, since Guoguo was injured, I won't pay attention to this matter, I just have time today, I'll go over and take a look." Mei Xiaotong smiled at Ji Ziqing, and then began to talk to Ji Ziqing seriously.
Ji Ziqing looked at Mei Xiaotong: "Don't you need me to accompany you?" ”
"No, you should go see the kids now." Mei Xiaotong looked at Ji Ziqing and said very seriously, although the children seemed to be fine, Mei Xiaotong knew that their mood might be very low now.
Stretched out his hand and rubbed his eyebrows: "I'm just a master, why did I even do the things of being a father and mother?" ”
Mei Xiaotong looked at Ji Ziqing with tears and laughter: "A teacher for one day, a father for life, it doesn't make a difference to say that you are their father." Mei Xiaotong looked at Ji Ziqing and said seriously.
Ji Ziqing shrugged his shoulders, he just wanted to be a master quietly, as for the responsibility of his father, it was their family's business, what did it have to do with him?
"I'm leaving, you look at the two children a little." Ji Ziqing didn't have anything to do today, so he was relieved to hand over the child to him.
"The two children are very obedient to follow Guoguo, and we don't have to worry about it at all." Ji Ziqing said indifferently, whose children are as well-behaved as their children? This is simply not available.
Mei Xiaotong looked at Ji Ziqing speechlessly: "You can't follow Guoguo, you won't watch it." ”
"Okay, I'll go."
After Mei Xiaotong left, the look on Ji Ziqing's face disappeared, replaced by a tightly frowning brow, he actually didn't know how to comfort those children, sometimes not saying anything was the best comfort.
Although he said so, Ji Ziqing still went to Guoguo's room.
In the past, the atmosphere in Guoguo's room was very depressing, especially Xiao Qi's face was lonely.
Ji Ziqing went in, raised his eyebrows and looked at them, his eyes were helpless: "What are you doing here?" ”
Xiao Qi hurriedly came to Ji Ziqing's face, looked up at Ji Ziqing, and said in a low voice: "It would be nice if the master was Daddy." ”
"......" Everyone present looked at Xiao Qi with a helpless look, but Guoguo was dumbfounded.
"I am your master, a teacher for one day and a father for life, isn't this the same as my father?" Ji Ziqing reached out and touched their heads, and said with a helpless smile.
Xiao Qixia muttered, "This is different, but I also know that Master is the father of Guoguo and the baby." ”
Reached out and touched Xiao Qi's head: "You have your own father." ”
"I don't like him, I like Master." Xiao Qi said in a low voice, and the voice seemed to be a little willful.
Xiao Liu said approvingly: "Yes, we."
Like Master. ”
"I'm glad you like me, no matter what they do, they're always your mom and daddy, you know?" Ji Ziqing looked down at Xiao Qi and said very seriously.
Xiao Qi pursed his lips tightly and spoke after a long time: "I know that he is my father no matter what, but Master, I have been thinking just now, why are they so bad when they are also human fathers?" Why are they different from Master? ”
If their dad is like the master, then they must be very happy, right?
"Everybody is different, you can't expect everyone to be the same, they just didn't figure out how to get along with you before, maybe they all understand after today."
"Master, they understand, but I also listened to what you told my mother, I am sure that they will definitely get along with us according to what my mother said, but this is not what we want." Song Min looked at Ji Ziqing and said seriously.
Ji Ziqing was silent for a moment, and then nodded: "Okay, I won't interfere with you in this matter, you can handle it yourself." ”
"Thank you, Master."
(End of chapter)