Chapter 635: Mom, You Misunderstood Me
"Yes, yes, Mom, what you said is right, your psychology is completely normal, I think when Qing'an grows up and leaves me, I will definitely be very uncomfortable in my heart, we didn't think about the problem from your point of view before, I have done so much before, don't worry, I am really aware of my problem, but, Mom, I said something bad, maybe you will be angry when you hear this, but I think, since we are all going to break it up and crumple it clearly, then I still have to say what is in my heart, and say it is ugly, Your attitude is also problematic, I am married into the Ling family, at the beginning you let us try to marry, I also agreed, in fact, if it was another person, I would not agree at all, because I felt that this was not respectful enough. ”
"But I agreed, I thought, I love Fei Hao, I want to live a good life with Fei Hao, so what is this grievance, I must be bearable, but who knows, from the beginning until I am pregnant, you treat me as a servant, so that I have no face in front of the servant, you said that although I am from a more ordinary background, but my parents are also a professor, if I marry someone else, they will have to respect me, right? But when I came to your house, the servants had to give me three points of face, then my young grandmother had no status at all, if you were kind to me at first, and after the trial marriage, you could treat me as your daughter, do you think we would be like this? ”
Anyway, in the final analysis, the biggest problem is on Ling's mother's side, if Ling's mother could treat people sincerely from the beginning, then naturally the Ling family would not have made such a fuss, since Ling's mother couldn't treat Yang Ling well, then now that it has become like this, it is naturally blamed on Ling's mother.
Mother Ling heard this, and sat there silently, in fact, Yang Ling knew in her heart that this mother-in-law was already aware of her own problem, but whether this would be corrected or not, Yang Ling still didn't know, but at present, Yang Ling was too lazy to fight for those things.
As for Ling Mu's side, if it can be corrected, it will naturally be the best, but if it really can't be corrected, it will be okay to face in the future.
She didn't want to form an eternal pimple between him and Ling Feihao, wasn't it, because if the two people made by the old man couldn't get by, that would be the stupidest choice.
"Yes, yes, you're right."
Mother Ling frowned and said: "I admit that my mentality was indeed wrong at the beginning, but wasn't it also for my son, I spent so much effort to raise my son, and suddenly brought back a person who was not in the right household, I have to worry about it, I let you try to marry, that is also responsible for you, I just want you to think that I am just such a mother-in-law." I'm not good to you, of course, I was also selfish at the beginning, I don't accept your family, I want you to retreat by yourself, but if you want to say that my mind is very vicious, if I am very vicious, then I will be like on TV, directly give you a sum of money, let you leave Feihao, but think about it, do I have money to insult you, I didn't, didn't? ”
"Yes, you didn't, but your way also made me feel insulted, think about it, as the third young grandmother of the Ling family, Ling Feihao is the person you value the most, but his wife can't feel the respect of the servants at home, isn't that an insult?"
"Okay, okay, that's an insult to you, but now, since you promised that you will be good to us in the future, and you will come back to see us from time to time with Qing'an in the future, then I won't worry too much about you, if in the future, you can't do what you said, then I will still worry about you."
"What about you, Mom?"
Yang Ling made a promise, she took the initiative to give in, so Ling Mu naturally had to make concessions, otherwise, if Yang Ling herself came to make concessions, it would definitely not be appropriate.
Mother Ling knew that this Yang Ling was not an easy person to deal with, and now that Yang Ling had already said this, she naturally had to give in, otherwise, this meeting would end badly now.
"Me?"
Mother Ling glanced at Yang Ling, and said a little proudly: "Originally, I was thinking that you were going to take away the position of the hostess, and in the future, unify the Ling family, and embarrass me, now it seems that you don't have that kind of mind at all, in this case, I am naturally too lazy to worry so much about you, as long as you live a good life with Feihao in the future, I will definitely not trouble you, but now, Qing'an is also half a year old, you might as well go to work directly, don't hand over the child to the confinement sister-in-law, I'll bring it to you, If you take it away at night, you have nothing to do at home every day, and the house is not peaceful, and the next time you come to snatch the position of the hostess of my Ling family and joke with me, that is not very good, and I don't like that. ”
made everyone nervous, Ling's mother also went to discuss with Gao Yuan and asked Gao Yuan to help, but this time, it fell into Gao Yuan's hands, and Gao Yuan might have to use those things to ask herself for something in the future.
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In fact, when they were upstairs just now, Yang Ling and Ling Feihao also discussed, ready to go to work, now that Ling's mother said it, then go to work and go to work, save yourself at home every day of panic, although watching the child is also a kind of enjoyment, she also hopes to watch Qing'an often, but after a long time, she will always get bored, she can't derail this world because of the child, now since Ling's mother is willing to watch the child for herself, let herself go to work, that's good, go to work, what about the future, Let Ling's mother clean up these things, she wants to see if Ling's mother is so attentive to her children, in this ordinary family, aren't all parents going to work, and then the old man is watching the children at home, it's quite appropriate, she thought about it, and then looked at Ling Feihao.
In order to give herself something to say in the future, Yang Ling decided to hand over this decision to Ling Feihao.
Because the two of them had already said it before, this Ling Feihao accepted Yang Ling's sight, and agreed without thinking about it: "Mom, in fact, I discussed this matter with Yang Ling, but it's better for us to bring the child by ourselves." ”
Yang Ling felt that if she asked her mother-in-law to help take care of the child, she would have less contact with the child as soon as she came, and in addition, she felt that Ling's mother with the child would definitely spoil the child in some places, in order to avoid the child being spoiled, it would be better to work hard by herself, besides, she really went to the Ling family, and she would not have too much work.
When Mother Ling heard this, she was a little unhappy: "Yang Ling, are you worried that I will bring the child to you, or are you not at ease?" ”
Hearing this, Ling Feihao smiled: "Mom, look, didn't you just say that you didn't care about Yang Ling, why don't you worry about Yang Ling anymore, don't think so much, Yang Ling can kill that aspect, isn't it that the two of you are older, Dad also said that he wants to take you around the world, you said that you want to go out to play, how can you be embarrassed to let you help take the child?" ”
"yes, Mom, that's what it means."
Yang Ling is thinking about living a good life in the future, so the most important thing now is to coax Ling's mother well, so that Ling's mother will make less trouble, and their life will be better, now after listening to Ling Feihao's words, she also nodded again and again: "Yes, Mom, if I promise to let you help take care of the child, isn't it for your sake, Dad also said before, I want to take you around the world, you said that you and Dad are going around the world, then if you don't have time to help us take the child, then you are embarrassed to tell me, Then wouldn't we make trouble for you, besides, Fei Hao won't arrange too much work for me, there are some things I can do at home, so Qing'an will leave it to me to bring, but if you insist on taking it, I won't stop you. ”
"However, you have to remember, in case you have something to go out, but don't think that I will think that you don't want to show me the child, and don't tell me, I hope you take the initiative to tell me, after all, I hope we can be allies in this matter of seeing the child, after all, I hope that Qing'an is good, you also hope that Qing'an is good, as long as our original intention is the same, I think it must be able to educate Qing'an, you said yes, so you must not think crooked, if you want to be crooked, Then I really don't know what to do, we just want you to have a good rest, besides, it's good for the confinement lady to bring Qing'an, and I also have other meanings, but for the time being, Fei Hao and I don't want to move back to live with you. ”
This is the bottom line, Yang Ling's principle.
This time, she won't move back to live, and when that day comes, Ling's mother and they are old and really can't walk, if they need to come back to live by themselves, she will consider it, but in this situation, she is unwilling.
"Okay, okay, anyway, I know what you mean, my daughter-in-law, you are the most capable of my three daughters-in-law, I can't say anything now, you pull my son over and let me live a good life with you, then what else do I have to say, isn't it, now your father is following your heart, I'm an old lady, I'm old, I can't see the child, I can't take care of myself, and I can't help you anymore, I'm now, The most important thing is to take care of our two old guys, as for your affairs, you can clean up by yourself, we can't take care of it, your three brothers are just a little bit of property, if you want to fight for it, you and your father don't care, anyway, I can't take care of it. ”
As Ling Mu spoke, she handed Qing'an to Yang Ling.
Looking at Ling's mother's expression, Yang Ling knew that Ling's mother was not complaining, she was just finding a step for herself, she smiled and took Qing'an and said: "Mom, then you have worked hard to take care of yourself, if you have anything, call me and Feihao, as long as we have time, we will definitely come over." ”
"And what if you don't have time?"
Mother Ling glanced at Yang Ling: "If you don't have time, you have to ignore our two old guys, right?" When Ling Feihao was young, I didn't do that. ”