Chapter 520: True Right and Wrong
In fact, in daily life, Wen Lian is to give her mother some preparation in her subconscious.
For example, she will send the chain of some posts to her mother, saying that she saw it on the Internet by accident, and she will share it with her mother if she thinks it is fun.
I will also pour some chicken soup for the soul or something for my mother, and I am a writer of essays, and my Chinese grades are also very good.
Of course, this kind of thing is very good.
Of course, the most important thing is that Wen Lian wants to instill a concept in Liu Meizhen:
Women, no matter what, can't lose themselves, after giving up their careers and returning to their families to become a housewife for the so-called love;
The consequence of this is inevitably to be abandoned and abandoned.
The reason is very simple, even if you used to be very loving to each other, but one has been making progress and the other has shrunk into the hard shell of the family, unable to keep up with the pace of social progress.
There must be no harmonious concept of life between such two people, and the values will gradually diverge, how can they always stick to love?
The most terrible thing is that after you gave up everything for your family, that man gave up on you because you were vulgar and backward and became a yellow-faced woman.
At that time, the woman who lost both people and money was really pitiful and wanted to die.
Wen Lian has cultivated and cultivated intentionally or unintentionally, and Liu Meizhen is now opening her own store, and she is busy dealing with more people outside every day.
The more you see the world, the more you know, and the more you can see nature.
Liu Meizhen sometimes feels that getting along with Wen Lian is not like a mother and daughter, but a little like an ordinary friend.
Moreover, Xiaolian is more sensible than her, and even knows more than her.
After hesitating for a while, Liu Meizhen still decided to tell her daughter about her heart.
"It was your Uncle Wei who called me just now, we haven't seen each other for several days, of course, what I said on the phone just now is just an excuse, and I'm a little evasive now."
Wen Lian was surprised that her mother would say this to herself, but she was also glad that her mother was willing to talk to herself.
Therefore, she just looked at Liu Meizhen very intently, and only after the other party finished speaking did she ask seriously: "Why?" Mom, could it be that you and Uncle Wei quarreled? ”
"No, we rarely quarrel." Liu Meizhen shook her head, but with a wry smile.
"Actually, it's not a big problem, it's my low self-esteem, and I can't figure it out on my own. He and I are people of two worlds, and we used to just eat, drink, drink and chat or something, and we didn't feel much of it.
Even I would think that the man was really gentle, my level of education was not high, and I didn't know much. But he didn't mind at all, and listened to me with a smile every time.
Recently, our relationship has become more and more serious, and we even have the feeling of talking about marriage, so we will start to get between each other's real lives.
It was only at this point that I really realized that we had a lot of problems with each other. ”
Speaking of which, Liu Meizhen didn't say any more.
She knew that Wen Lian was mature and sensible, so she would talk about relationship problems with her daughter.
But after all, Wenlian herself is just a child, and Liu Meizhen doesn't think she will know so much.
I didn't plan to talk deeply with my daughter, what kind of relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she had failed quite a lot before.
Liu Meizhen was very worried about leaving a psychological shadow on Wen Lian, especially the last time she saw Xiao Lian's deep hatred for Wen Chengjun.