"Huh?" Several children were still complacent just now, and when they heard Jiang Ruonan say this, they were also deflated.

That's right, it's not that they haven't used candy to show off before, but Lin Jianxin always said that they lied to people and robbed them of candy to eat, so he didn't change his words at all, but kept scolding them for "no mother".

If it weren't for this, a few babies wouldn't hate Lin Jianxin so much.

"So what to do?" The second sister hurriedly asked questions.

This performance of active cooperation made Jiang Ruonan a little surprised.

She has always felt that the second sister is the kind of sensitive, fragile and sensible little girl, such a little girl is always too good at looking at the eyes, always looking forward and backward when she speaks and does things, and she is also thinking about slowly making the little girl bolder, not always trembling and thinking too much about others. As a result, this time she discovered again that in fact, the little girl also has the courage to be assertive.

Perhaps, she is too accustomed to looking at people with stereotypes. And people are inherently complex, even children.

Therefore, she did not directly say the way, but continued to guide: "What does the second sister think? Did you think of something? ”

Even Dabao Sanbao looked at the second sister.

Encouraged by it, the second sister's eyes sparkled: "We invite Lin Jianxin to come to the house as a guest, not only let him come in to see, but we also invite him to eat delicious food, let him play our games, and show him our new clothes......"

"Don't do it!" Before he finished speaking, Sanbao protested directly, "I won't do it, Lin Jianxin is bad, I won't give it to him!" ”

Although Dabao didn't speak, his attitude was obviously the same as Sanbao's.

The second sister swore an oath, but she hasn't finished talking yet, so it's hard to continue.

"Okay, let's not talk about that for now." Jiang Ruonan felt that the second sister's suggestion had opened a window for her, and she had a way to do it in a flash of inspiration, but at this moment, the big treasures and the three treasures were obviously opposed, and she didn't think about it completely, so she decided to temporarily suppress and prepare.

She remembered another thing Lin Jianxin said: "Lin Jianxin said that you don't have a mother?" Are you angry? ”

I'm afraid no stepmother will be as direct as her.

It's a pity that if Jiang Ruonan could learn to be roundabout and have a higher EQ, he wouldn't have been tired of being a yard farmer until he died suddenly in his previous life. Even if you are reborn once, it is impossible to directly grow IQ and EQ!

The baby didn't speak. In particular, the three treasures of Dabao all lowered their heads, obviously resisting.

Is this resentment? Resentment towards your own mother? Or is resentment mixed with uneasiness?

Jiang Ruonan originally felt that he was worrying about it, but after thinking about it like this, he felt that it was really necessary to say it. Like a purulent wound, the wound will never heal if the pus is not squeezed out.

She thought for a while before she reluctantly organized the language: "There are many kinds of mothers in the world, and different mothers treat their children differently. Some mothers can sacrifice themselves for their children, and some mothers can't abandon their careers and pursuits even if they have children. These are all options for mothers, and there is no law that says what mothers have to do. ”

The three treasures of Dabao all raised their heads, their eyes puzzled, can a mother not have a child?

Jiang Ruonan paused for a moment, and couldn't help but speak more slowly: "Your mother, she didn't want you, she just chose the spiritual pursuit she wanted more." ”

"So, the right and wrong result of this choice should be borne by her, not by you, and it is not your fault, understand?"

"Really?" Dabao's eyes were red, "Isn't it because we're not good that she doesn't like us and doesn't want us?" ”

"Of course not." Jiang Ruonan felt a little sorry for this sensible child, Sanbao was still young and not close to his biological mother, so he might not be able to experience that feeling. Dabao has experienced it since he was a child.

Jiang Ruonan also felt sad when he thought about it: "Dabao Sanbao is so good, how can she not like you?" She's just too sensible, too aware of what she wants most. ”

"Liar, then why did she leave? I don't believe you! ”

Jiang Ruonan looked at Dabao, who reacted violently but had actually begun to accept it, shook his head and continued: "What am I lying to you for?" Dabao, you can hold a grudge against her for not loving you, and you can not forgive her for choosing to leave. But you have to understand that no matter what she chooses, her choice should be judged by herself, and it is not your fault, let alone your fault. You can't punish yourself for her faults. ”

is also a woman, she can understand Cheng Xue's choice. But she is just a bystander, there is no real empathy in the world, and she doesn't have such a big face for the children to forgive Cheng Xue directly and understand Cheng Xue. It is even less likely to use the phrase "all parents in the world" and one of the most popular laws of tolerance in Chinese, "everyone is dead", to demand forgiveness and tolerance from children.

The damage that has been done is not gone in the past. What Jiang Ruonan can do is to let the child go as much as possible and not criticize himself.

"Besides, aren't you calling me mom now?" Jiang Ruonan looked at the rare red eyes of the big treasure, and couldn't help sighing, "Who said that none of you want it without your mother?" Ok ok. Don't cry your nose, huh? ”

"I didn't cry!" Dabao wiped his nose, and with a nasal voice, he was about to be strong.

Jiang Ruonan smiled: "Well, I didn't cry my nose." You see, Dabao is so well-behaved, how can he not have a mother? Those who talk nonsense are jealous of our Dabao being so well-behaved, if you really think it's your fault, then it's really a joke. ”

"On the contrary, Dabao, you have to understand that it's not that you are wrong, you and your brother are not wrong about this matter, you don't have to blame yourself, you don't need to mind." In this world, there is no one who is right and who is wrong, the positions are different, the fate is not enough, even between mother and son, blood is thicker than water, and it is impossible for all of them to get along well.

In this way, there is no such thing as harming things. Wang Lan: The fate of her own parents is not yet, and there is no more at that point.

She didn't know how much Dabao could listen to, even if it had a little effect: "Sanbao too, you are not children without mothers." ”

She looked at the child who was ignorant, and she didn't know what else to say, she looked back at the second sister with a look of self-blame, blaming herself for being careless, forgetting that the little girl probably still had a knot.

"Second sister, don't think too much. The second aunt's choice has nothing to do with the arrival of you and Xiaobao. ”

The second sister originally looked sad, but when she heard Jiang Ruonan say this, she already believed it: "Well, I know, I believe what my mother said." ”

Jiang Ruonan saw the little girl's trust in her, and when she thought of Wu Xiulan's woman, it became more and more difficult for her to speak: "As for your mother"

Maybe she's still a double standard, right? She can understand most of Cheng Xue, but she can't agree with Wu Xiulan after all.