Although it seems incredible to say, it is obviously such a close relationship, and it is clear that there are often correspondence exchanges, but it is true that I have never met once, and it is difficult to say, I am afraid that I will meet face-to-face one day, and I don't know who each other is without being introduced.

Of course, there are many objective reasons for this, but in the final analysis, it is also related to the embarrassing identity of Jiang Ruonan's stepmother, after all, Jiang Ruonan is very aware of the urging that her family has urged her over the years, and sometimes she is annoyed by the urging, and she can't wait to send these four dolls over directly and tell her parents that she already has descendants, so that they don't have to worry anymore.

But intellectually, Jiang Ruonan also knows very well that if she really does this, her parents will not only not be at ease, but it is estimated that they will be more anxious, the stubborn thoughts of the older generation are really difficult to change, just like the idea that the stepmother is not as good as her own mother, and other people's sons are definitely not as good as their own flesh and blood.

Therefore, she can only use procrastination to express her wishes to them.

To say that now, Jiang Ruonan is not as strong and special as before to have children, but he has always insisted on it, so he is not willing to break it easily, and if he does not resist, it does not mean that he is willing to give birth.

After all, even if the conditions and environment are good, raising children now is not like the future generations who have to go to nursery school at the age of two or three, not to mention giving tens of thousands of dollars a year, and they are tired, and when they grow up, they have to go to various interest classes and tutorial classes, and they all say that this is called not letting children lose at the starting line...... But Jiang Ruonan is still afraid, she thinks that those who say at every turn that a woman will not be successful if she does not have a child is sorry for her parents and is sad and pitiful, either the man does not have a backache when she stands and talks, or the woman can't get up after kneeling for a long time, and she obviously died in the Qing Dynasty, and she wrapped herself in a footcloth.

You must know how painful it is for a woman to give birth to a child, and she has to squeeze her bones apart, not to mention the pain that makes people collapse, and if the fetus is too large and the fetal position is not correct, she will have to have a caesarean section, and she will be stabbed in the stomach for no reason, and there are many women who die every year because of amniotic fluid embolism.

Not only physiologically, but also in many cases, mothers will also have depression, especially after childbirth, because too many people only care about passing on the family to watch their children, and lack of attention to women who have just experienced pain, and there are many postpartum depression accidents.

All in all, pregnancy and childbirth are a thing that will cause great damage to women's physiology and psychology, Jiang Ruonan's menstrual cramps in her previous life made her have no strength every time she wanted to die, not to mention the rumored childbirth that was more painful than menstrual cramps, she really couldn't think about it.

Therefore, one can imagine how upset Jiang Ruonan was about Jiang's father and Jiang's mother's urging. Finally, a few years have passed, and Jiang's father and Jiang's mother have stopped a little as if they have accepted their fate, and these little ancestors have passed, and then they have been hooked up on that topic, Jiang Ruonan is bored when he thinks about it.

The key is that the entire Jiang family, including Jiang's father and Jiang's mother, is good to her, and she can't directly say anything to refuse, anyway, it is estimated that Jiang's father and Jiang's mother will continue to nag next time, although the concept is different, but the heart of parents who work hard for their children will never stop, the so-called raising a child is 100 years old, and he is often worried about 99, which is the truth.

So as soon as Jiang Ruonan heard Mingcheng's little ancestor's proposal, he subconsciously refused: "You past, although you are a guest, you can't really work for your grandparents and grandparents, just watch it, let me tell you, it's tiring to do farm work, you little body, you can't bear it in the past." ”

"I'm not a small body!" Ming Cheng straightened his chest, like a big rooster who was going out to fight to win or lose, and praised Haikou who didn't admit defeat, "I exercise every day, my body is good, and I can help my grandparents work when the time comes, and I can earn and earn work!" ”

Jiang Ruonan smiled: "You still know how to earn work, who did you listen to?" Look at you like this, you really don't see it! I think you're just living too well every day at home, and you think that farm work is so easy to do? ”

"I'm not afraid anyway!" The child tilted his head, looking like no matter what you say, I just won't listen anyway, I'm just going to go.

Jiang Ruonan's freshly typed draft was teased by this kid, and it was thrown out of the clouds in an instant.

She simply looked at Ming Xuan and Caifeng: "What, Ming Cheng wants to go, and you all want to go?" ”

The two eldest children probably saw the hope in their mother's heart, so they hesitated, but finally nodded: "I want to go." ”

"Mom, we have received so much care from our grandparents, and we have never seen our grandparents!" Caifeng added in a whisper.

Jiang Ruonan's words of wanting to dissuade him instantly became dumbfounded.

She can selfishly not want the children to go back, but how can she casually stop the children's gratitude?

She thought for a while: "Okay, since that's the case, I'll help you ask and see if it's convenient for your grandparents." ”

"Then go for the summer vacation, Mom, you tell your grandparents that we will go for the summer vacation!" When Ming Cheng saw his mother's soft attitude, he immediately became noisy and excited.

Jiang Ruonan glared at him angrily: "Before school started, you thought about the summer vacation." I see that you have ADHD day by day, you don't have to study next semester, and you are still lazy, so don't go to your grandparents' house! ”

"Don't, Mom, I'll definitely study hard!"

In the end, this matter has been settled, Jiang's father and Jiang's mother have also received a lot of letters from their four children over the years, and if they were still a little wary and worried about these children at the beginning, they also had feelings in such a little bit, and when they heard that the children wanted to go, where would they refuse, it was in order to make Jiang Ruonan, the stepmother, more comfortable, and she would do anything.

However, in the end, this matter had to be advanced because of an accident.

At the beginning of June, Minghao contracted chickenpox at school, and when he found out, many children in his class had already been hit.

I don't know who was the first to be infected, but it turned out that several children were severely infected, and some other children also showed mild symptoms.

At this time, there is no chickenpox vaccine or anything, this highly contagious disease has a very terrible threat, the school is a gathering place for people, and it is about to go on summer vacation.

Jiang Ruonan was confused.

In her previous life, she also had chickenpox when she was in elementary school, and the only memory was that she couldn't go to school at home after asking for leave, and her sister had acne marks on her face for the rest of her life because she had chickenpox.

But that's limited to that, after all, when she grew up, the children she took care of later were all vaccinated early, and it was impossible to have chickenpox.

And she had never had any experience with that.

In the past few years, it has not been easy to raise four children, but occasionally go out for a crazy run or blow the wind and have a headache and brain fever, and there has been no major problem at all. Later, with Lu Zhenjun, the whole family exercised regularly, and the body and bones became stronger day by day, and even the headache and brain fever were much less.

The most powerful time was when Ming Cheng was eight years old, when he was playing with a few children, he accidentally fell on the stone steps and broke his forehead.

I also went to the health station for a few stitches that time, and there is still a small mark on Mingcheng's forehead, but even then, Jiang Ruonan was frightened for a moment when he saw the situation at the beginning, and then immediately ordered to send it to the health station, anyway, it was handed over to the doctor inside, just listen to the doctor's words and take good care of it according to the doctor's instructions.

But this time it's different.

At this time, there is no effective treatment for chickenpox, let alone any special antiviral drugs, after all, this is not smallpox, as long as you isolate at home and take good care of it, it can be good without treatment.

But Jiang Ruonan is nervous, this is probably the instinct of human beings, and he will subconsciously be very nervous about infectious diseases, whether they are strong or not, or whether they are fatal or not. If it's fatal, it's even more of a discoloration.

Jiang Ruonan was very worried, for fear that he would not be able to do well, and then he thought of his sister in his previous life, and he disliked it for a long time, if Minghao, the little Zhengtai, was like this...... Jiang Ruonan didn't dare to think about it, looking at the acne rash that had already appeared on his face, he was even more worried, so he first cut off all his nails and repeatedly told him not to scratch them.

She was so frightened that she was a little distracted, it was the first time she had experienced it, and she was thinking about how to maintain this infectious disease on a daily basis, and she must pay attention to cleaning, frequent cleaning, ventilation, and a light diet...... She also wrote down these notes one by one.

scared Lu Zhenjun and asked her if she had chickenpox, Jiang Ruonan finally pulled out the experience of chickenpox from the memories of the original body, and nodded again and again, which made Lu Zhenjun breathe a sigh of relief: "That's good, I also have chickenpox, so I don't have to worry." ”

Knowing that he was worried about himself when he said this, Jiang Ruonan's heart warmed, but he felt funny: "Now that a person of my age, how many people have never had chickenpox?" Besides, there is no chickenpox, such a big person, are you still afraid of infection? ”

"That's not what I said." Lu Zhenjun shook his head, "It's more terrifying for adults to have chickenpox." ”

Jiang Ruonan didn't argue with him, after all, she didn't have much experience with chickenpox, but she was very happy that Lu Zhenjun could know so much: "It's good that you know something, if there are any taboos, let's pay attention to it...... Oh, by the way, Dabao and the others haven't had chickenpox yet, do they have to isolate them...... I think I'll sleep downstairs with Xiaobao......"

In the end, Lu Zhenjun was more stable and proposed that the best isolation was to send the other three away.

"Didn't you say you'd go to your parents anyway? Now it's a little bit earlier. Besides, the downstairs room is not very ventilated, not bright, and it is very humid when it rains, so it is not good for Xiaobao to live here. ”

Jiang Ruonan also thought it was good, and turned his head and asked Mingcheng: "Mingcheng, then can you go to your grandparents' house in advance?" ”

But this time Ming Cheng was not happy to have his wish fulfilled, and he didn't respond immediately, looking at Ming Hao full of worry, he instead said to Lu Zhenjun: "Dad, is Xiaobao really okay like this?" ”

Minghao already has a large red pimple on his body, which looks very scary.

Ming Cheng had never seen anything like this, he just felt goosebumps all over his body at a glance, but he felt uncomfortable for Xiaobao just looking at it.

Caifeng was much more direct, and pursed her lips: "The eldest brother and the third brother will go together, I will help my mother take care of the younger brother at home." ”

Before Mingxuan could speak, Lu Zhenjun shook his head first and refused: "No, what are you helping with, you are at home, your mother is still distracted to take care of you, if you really want to help your mother, you can rest assured to go with Mingxuan Minghao." ”

Listening to Lu Zhenjun's words, several children were silent, Lu Zhenjun frowned, and added: "You don't have to worry, it's just chickenpox, how many of us don't have chickenpox?" It's not a big deal, as long as it's well maintained, no matter how bad it is, there is a health station, Xiaobao will be fine. ”

Ming Xuan, who had been silent, finally spoke: "Dad is right, second sister, third brother, why are we going to my grandparents' house, anyway, the younger brother is also young, if we go together, my parents probably won't worry, this time the three of us will go first, and then take him when the younger brother is older." ”

"Yes, second sister, third brother, I will be at home well, and I will go with you when I am better." Sanbao also smiled and comforted, he has been a well-behaved and sensible child since he was a child, and he is the teacher's favorite good baby after school, after all, compared to Dabao's serious Sanhao students, this child has a much sweeter mouth, and will be coquettish and cute, but he is never out of line, can he not be likable?

At this time, even if there is an ugly acne on his face, he still smiles softly and cutely, and he speaks very intimately.

In the end, Mingxuan and Caifeng went to their grandparents' house.

As soon as the eldest child left, there was only a family of three left in the family, Jiang Ruonan's whole mind fell on Xiaobao, and he had to clean the house several times a day, and Xiaobao's bedding was also changed every day, washed every day, and dried every day.

During this period, Lu Zhifang also asked people to bring a message, she just gave birth to a big fat boy, a full eight pounds and two taels, and she suffered some sins when she was born, but in the end, everything was safe and smooth, and this is much thanks to Aunt Ji Cuimei Ji, she has some experience and methods, and during the final period of labor, Lu Zhifang did some useful exercises, and she has always urged Wang Huiying to accompany Lu Zhifang to insist on exercising every day, and even the diet is also managed.

To put it simply, Ji Cuimei uses her brain to provide experience, and Wang Huiying helps to work and practice, in short, if it weren't for these two people, Lu Zhifang might be really dangerous.

Moreover, when Xiaobao had chickenpox, Lu Zhifang was still in confinement, to be honest, if it weren't for the help of these two people, Jiang Ruonan, as a sister-in-law, would not have been able to throw away his hand, which would be really troublesome.

At this moment, she is really glad that she made the original choice.

Lu Zhifang hasn't been out of confinement yet, he can't come by himself, he heard that Xiaobao has chickenpox, and he was also worried, and he was going to send Zou Xuehuai to come to see it, but Jiang Ruonan directly took the word and refused.

After all, Zou Xuehuai is going to come into contact with her and the child, Jiang Ruonan doesn't want him to come over, after all, it is an infectious disease, and he should pay more attention during breastfeeding, and he can't be slackened in the slightest.

She also told Lu Zhifang not to worry too much, to relax and take good care during the confinement, and not to fall into any confinement disease at that time.

And she left these behind and took care of Xiaobao wholeheartedly, and this toss came to July.

The main reason is that Xiaobao didn't know at school at first, he reached out to scratch it when it was itchy, scratched some of it, some were infected, and then he had a fever, which scared Jiang Ruonan so much that he couldn't do it, and after asking the doctor at the health station to see it, he took care of it more and more carefully, just like this, it took care of it for more than a month, and the acne scab on Xiaobao's body was completely healed.