Chapter 487: Feudal Thought
Mrs. Wang's words are also reasonable, there are many elderly people today who choose to hide their true situation in order not to cause trouble to their children, but in the end it is getting worse and worse.
Granny Li smiled,
"Do you think I'm still a fool who doesn't know anything, I know my own body, I really don't have a password, I still have to go shopping with you? It's just that I just broke my foot, and now it's much better, and I don't feel it anymore, so don't worry about me. You're making too much of a fuss, aren't you? Although we are old, we will not be watched like a waste all the time. ”
Granny Li was a little dissatisfied with Mrs. Wang's excessive nervousness, which would only make her more frustrated, and this feeling was too uncomfortable for her.
"You old woman still doesn't know what to do, obviously what we have now is for your own good, you are still there tsundere, you should be punished well, this old woman, we should stay at home at this age, after these things are dealt with, we will stay at home with peace of mind, don't come out to hang around. The world is a world for young people, and we are not involved. ”
Mrs. Wang suddenly became a little sad, at their age, they actually had to worry about this kind of thing, and they felt a little sad when they thought about it.
"Yes, we are all old, this time should also be the time for us to rest, and it is not too late to take a good rest when we really can't do it anymore, now we still have to work hard for this family."
Granny Li didn't think about it so much, she had worked hard for this family all her life, and she had to plan for this family in the last time.
"You're pushing yourself too hard, when will we be able to completely get free."
Mrs. Wang looked at Granny Li like this, she was still here and a little tired.
They came outside to chat for a long time before going back, and Granny Li's mental state is much better now, and she is really much more energetic than before.
Granny Li's granddaughter had already thought about it at home, and felt that what Mrs. Wang and her grandmother said was very reasonable, and it was not a way for them to go on like this.
When her husband was with her, he was really kind to her, and he was very good to her when he was not married, and she also recognized this man at that time.
After she first got married, she was still better for her, and at that time she still felt that this man had a successful career and was good to her, their relatives and friends thought that she had found a good man, but in the end it became like this, those mountain alliances and sea vows seemed very ridiculous, just like a joke, so many years have passed in a blink of an eye, she also gave birth to two children for him, I didn't expect it to be like this, everything about them is like the past, and the vows before marriage have become worthless, and now there are only two people who dislike each other, Don't disturb each other.
It's so strange that people in the world can't do some things, but they still have to say some things that they don't believe, and they don't know if they are lying to others or themselves.
Everyone is looking forward to their future, but often some things become less expectant, and sometimes they even feel that sometimes things in this world are not worth looking forward to.
Oaths are the least valuable thing in the world, but there will be countless people who believe in them, care about these things, and even regard them as their lifelong beliefs.
Verbally said that there will never be security, people around the right and left should love themselves and not pin their hopes on others, because it is easy to be disappointed, it is easy to make people feel that they still have a way out, often all things do not leave a way out for themselves is the best choice, so that they will force themselves to fight hard and not rely on anyone.
All the sense of security comes from their own strength, not from the affirmation of others, if you are strong enough in your heart, you will not feel your sense of security because of other people's words, the eternity in people's mouths is how long their freshness can be maintained, once the freshness is consumed, everyone becomes extremely indifferent, and they will not remember what they said at the beginning, nor will they remember what they promised. The rhetoric on the mouth can never compare to the actual action, everyone's requirements for the other half are always too high, so sometimes I feel that it is possible to find more than my own estimates, but once there is an estimate, there will be a kind of rejection of those ordinary people, always feel that I can find better, in fact, except for those ordinary people, there will be no one else, and as an ordinary person, there is no achievement at all, but it is very reasonable to ask others to do something that they can't do, These people just set themselves too high.
At the beginning, Granny Li's granddaughter didn't think about finding her current husband's type at all, but in the end she was moved by this man, if she insisted on her own ideas and lived some ordinary people's lives, she would not be able to think about how to live her own life now, stick to her bottom line, and be able to avoid some things.
But there are no absolutes in everything, even if there is no existence of this man today, it may not be possible to spend the following days in peace.
It can only be said that the problems encountered may not be these problems, and it is possible that there will be a series of problems such as economic troubles or family disharmony.
Granny Li's granddaughter actually doesn't have high requirements for the other half, she just wanted to be ordinary and live a peaceful life, and she didn't think about how nourishing she was, she knew that she was an ordinary person, if she really let her mind become arrogant one day, she would become strange about her own changes.
She may still be thinking about the good of this man in her heart now, often at this time, people will choose to escape, avoid everything that is not conducive to their stable environment, such emotions are very normal, so even if more thoughts are piled up, it is difficult to make a decision quickly.
Today, Mrs. Wang's words are all clear in her heart, but if she really wants to think of completely breaking off with this man, she still has some reluctance in her heart, she has lived together for so long, she is too lazy to bother to understand other people, and instinctively does not want to change the status quo.
There are also two children, their lives have just begun, if they really divorce now, I don't know what they will be like in the future, although the current era is no longer the old society, but some of the ideas reflected in it are still remembered in people's minds.
There are many disadvantages of single-parent families, although there are many families like this now, but the idea that they can live well is the common thought of everyone.