"!"

Li Xiaoyu was soaking his feet in the house at the time, and when he saw this message, he suddenly danced with excitement, he was not good at linguistics, and only a few words expressed his mood at this time.

"What are you excited about, you won the lottery!"

Liu Bei, who was leaning on the sofa and watching TV, replied lazily, in the sales season in the past two days, the beauty snake was very busy, Liu Bei's grandson was afraid of being tired, so he said that he was not feeling well, and he went home for two days, but he didn't want to help anyone.

"Jiang Yan sent me a message, she asked me to watch a movie at night, this is the first time!"

Li Xiaoyu was extremely excited, and was ready to reply to the message as he spoke.

Liu Bei looked at Li Xiaoyu's appearance, shook his head with a speechless smile, and said casually, "Just like you, you still learn to fall in love, if you want to find hardships for yourself, you can promise her." ”

"Huh? What does it mean? ”

Li Xiaoyu was stunned and looked at Liu Bei puzzled.

Liu Bei stretched his waist, turned around and said to Li Xiaoyu, "I see that you melon baby is getting deeper and deeper, I'll teach you a lesson today, do you know why we are so comfortable in love, do you find guilt for yourself every day when you fall in love?" ”

"Why?"

Li Xiaoyu scratched his head, this matter has always been a knot in his heart, and he always feels that he is always different from others when he falls in love.

In fact, it's not just Jiang Yan, it's the same when I fell in love with Qiao Na before, everyone else is sweet and sweet, but he is always cautious and sad, and he always feels that something is wrong.

"Because your relationship is distorted, unequal, and unhealthy."

Liu Bei leisurely knocked on the melon seeds, like an old pedant, and said, "First of all, you have to know what a love relationship is, and the most important thing in a love relationship is reciprocity and balance. ”

"I've always watched the matter between you and Jiang Yan, but I haven't been able to say it, this relationship between you is seriously unequal, not balanced at all, where does the sweetness come from?"

Li Xiaoyu pouted, "Can you be specific?" ”

Liu Bei thought for a while and said, "This is the same as sitting on a seesaw, the seesaw is a game for two people, you come and go, so it's interesting." ”

"To put it simply, both sides have to pay, and it's roughly equal, so that the seesaw can reach a balance, and the game is established."

"Now you and Jiang Yan are like sitting on a seesaw, you don't care about anything for a day, just care about your own end, you invest far more than her, so one end of the seesaw is pressed by you, and you can't lift it at all, your current situation is similar to this."

Li Xiaoyu pondered carefully for a while, and felt that it was really like this, whether it was falling in love with Qiao Na before, or now with Jiang Yan, in the two relationships, it seems that he has always been working alone.

"Brother Liu, what do you say I should do now?"

Li Xiaoyu leaned forward, as if he had found a savior.

"It's simple, just keep your balance."

Liu Bei said, "Now that your seesaw has been unbalanced, there are only two solutions, either you reduce weight, reduce investment and comeback, and if she invests a lot in you, you will invest a lot in her." ”

"Otherwise, you guide her to increase the weight and make her increase the input until the input is equal."

Li Xiaoyu scratched his head and said, "But....... but how should I do it?" ”

Liu Bei sighed and said, "Your braincase is usually very bright, but you won't be enlightened at such a time, what attitude he has towards you, you will have any attitude towards her, for example, have you taken the initiative to date her before?" ”

Li Xiaoyu nodded and said, "I have made an appointment, I have made an appointment many times." ”

"Is she okay then?" Liu Bei asked again.

A touch of gloom flashed in Li Xiaoyu's eyes, and he sighed, "It's not easy to make appointments, she's always busy......."

"Busy fart!"

Liu Bei said disdainfully, "Let me tell you, the female doll is a creature, only she can't care about it, she is not busy, if she is interested in you, even if she takes a bath, she will dry her hands and give you a message back, even if she works overtime and all-night, she will accompany you to have breakfast........"

"But she said she was a slower type........

"Slow fart, excuses, all excuses!"

Liu Bei was as if he had been stimulated by something, and his saliva was flying, "All the slow heat, all the high cold, all fake, if the female doll meets someone she likes, she is more enthusiastic than any other, and she is slow to heat a fart, Li Xiaoyu, it's good for you to give the melon baby........"

As he spoke, Liu Bei pointed to Li Xiaoyu's nose and said very seriously, "As long as a woman is unwilling to pay for you and doesn't consider your feelings, it can only show that she doesn't like you, and there is no excuse!" ”

These words made Li Xiaoyu's little heart tremble, "But if she doesn't like me, why is she with me, Jiang Yan doesn't want me to do anything?" ”

"Well, Jiang Yan is indeed special."

Liu Bei nodded and said, "First, she is definitely not a scumbag, I still have this vision, second, even if she is a scumbag, it is impossible to scum you, poor and ugly, what do you say she wants you?" "Yue e-book

These words made Li Xiaoyu quite aggrieved.

Liu Bei continued, "Since she chooses to be with you, it means that she must have feelings for you, but you melon baby has broken a good hand." ”

"Brother Liu, you drink tea, talk while drinking."

Li Xiaoyu had already regarded Liu Bei as a great savior at this time, made a cup of tea and served it with both hands, and then moved a stool and sat upright in front of Liu Bei.

Liu Bei took the tea slowly and took a sip, squinting his eyes slightly, "From the beginning, you didn't look at your relationship with a level-headed eye, you regarded her as your goddess, your true daughter, from the beginning, your subconscious thought that you could find her as the ancestral tomb and the corpse, and she could take a fancy to you is simply God's favor for you........"

"Isn't it?"

Li Xiaoyu was puzzled, "She is Jiang Yan, Allure International ........"

"Fart you!"

Liu Bei didn't have a good breath and said, "You are a person, you usually look presentable, you have a smart body, you can be regarded as brave and knowledgeable, but you are a good young man, but why can't you pass the emotional level?" ”

"No matter whether she is Jiang Yan or Jiangshan, no matter what kind of president she is, her essence is always a person, one head and two arms, she also has to eat, drink and Lazar, one day she will grow old, she will become an ugly old woman, and in the end, she will not kick her legs."

"No matter what background or identity she has, but in front of you, she has only one identity, and that is your girlfriend."

"From the very beginning, you have held her, used to it, and more and more made her unscrupulous, not taking you seriously at all, think about it, dogs have been the most loyal companions of humans for so many years, but why do people in many places regard wolves as totems and not dogs as totems?"

"That's because wolves have an evil energy, you can never tame them, the nature of human nature, will always be more and more interested in things that can't be done, all in the end the wolf becomes a totem, the dog receives a good guy card, and sometimes it goes to the human table."

"Just like you, you respond to requests, what do you want to do, where are you a boyfriend, just a slave, you yourself regard yourself as a slave, and you still expect other girls to treat you as a boyfriend?"

"You remember one thing, female dolls are actually the same as male dolls, they actually have a desire to conquer in their bones, they will only be interested in things they can't control, you have always been a slave to others, what interest in conquest is there for Jiang Yan?"

"In short, it's just a sentence, you remember it well, the dog is left with nothing in the end, and the woman wants a wolf that she can't figure out, not a pug who will only shake his head when he is called!"

Li Xiaoyu fell into deep thought, and Liu Bei's words hit his heart word by word.

Thinking about his relationship with Qiao Na and Jiang Yan now, it seems that this is really the case.

At the beginning, the two of them treated him well, and Li Xiaoyu also cherished them very much, and he was good to them, but in the end, his wholeheartedness not only did not get reciprocated, but the other party became more and more cold to her, and today can be regarded as finding the root of the disease.

Qiao Na was Li Xiaoyu's first love, at that time he was just a poor student, whether he looked good or not, whether he wanted money or not, whether he wanted talent or not.

And Qiao Na is one of the flowers, I don't know how many people are sought after, but by mistake, she finally chose to be with Li Xiaoyu.

Of course, Li Xiaoyu has to cherish this hard-won feeling, and pour out everything he can to pour out his heart and lungs, as long as Qiao Na has a look, he can immediately arrange everything properly.

The current girlfriend Jiang Yan is even more incredible, with a net worth of billions, as beautiful as a fairy, and so perfect that she is impeccable.

But Li Xiaoyu is still a poor student, and he naturally cherishes Jiang Yan even more, if you want to evaluate a model boyfriend, Li Xiaoyu wants to say that no one dares to call him the first.

But his two relationships are not right, he has never felt the sweetness of love, but is careful every day, suffering from gains and losses.

He was always thinking about what he had done wrong, whether he had not done well enough.

Liu Bei gave the most accurate answer, because in the relationship, the seesaw on Li Xiaoyu's side has been completely unbalanced.

An unbalanced seesaw is not called a seesaw, and an unbalanced love cannot be called love.

"That ........"

Li Xiaoyu looked at the text message on his phone that Jiang Yan asked him to watch a movie, "How should I go back, go or not?" ”

"You melon baby, I'll tell you ........"

Liu Bei was talking about it, the phone rang suddenly, Liu Bei glanced at the caller ID, and said to Li Xiaoyu, "I'll show you this, that melon lady has been lukewarm to me for a while, you see how I clean him up." ”

"Trouble?"

Liu Bei answered the phone and said nonchalantly.

I don't know what was said on the other side of the phone, Liu Bei sneered, "Forget it, aren't you so busy, order a takeout by yourself, Lao Tzu doesn't want to go out, and eat grilled fish, you eat a hammer and you eat, that's it, hang up first!" ”

As he spoke, he hung up the phone, raised his eyebrows at Li Xiaoyu and said, "Believe it or not, it is the melon lady who is suffering from gains and losses now, this is called balance." ”

Li Xiaoyu paused, and suddenly realized, "I understand, I'll send him a message back!" ”

As he spoke, Li Xiaoyu cleared his throat, pressed the voice button, and said in an impatient tone, "What's so good about a broken movie, I'm busy, watch a hammer!" ”

After finishing speaking, he smiled at Liu Bei with satisfaction, "What's the matter, my wave of operations can be 6?" ”

Liu Bei hammered his head with his fist vigorously, "6 is very 6, and it is also very chic and stylish, you are really single with your strength!" ”